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Im getting Serious and You should too

Mr. oblivious

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Being motivated after reading Zphix's Lattest field report "Im indeed an asshole" i feel like i have been reborn and i have been given some extra drive.

So basically im take PUA more seriously now i have been looking at the boards and GC material for i would say atleast a good year and a half to two years and its about time i actually go out and put what iv been reading to practice.

I've read the articles Chase has to offer, read his Ebook, and at Light's suggestion, read the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie (I highly highly highly HHHHIGGGGGGHHHHHLLLLYYYYYY suggest that book! READ IT!!!!!!!!!!)


This quote is from Zphix's Journal and i find im not the type of person who can full on read books so iv decided to listen to the Audio version of How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie Is this the right book? and i plan on getting around to purchasing Chases Ebook.

About chases Ebook i have a couple of questions about the layout of it.

1. is it a progressive book e.g. Am i sup post to read it as i go along and improve? or is it kinda like read the book and use it as a reference ?

2. Thats the only question i had


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On a side note probably won't see me making any progress or posting any field reports anytime soon cause even though im planning on getting serious im going to wait a couple of months for my birthday, which is when i become legal in my country and will be going out more frequently. (in that time im probably going to try get down as much theory as possible)

Not sure i might start making day approaches etc. But i might start night as i kinda know the scene better already and i won't be as phased with approach anxiety (ill use it to build confidence and obtain abundance)

also i will start setting goals for myself e.g. must make at least 10 approach each night out etc.



I might make a journal see how it goes if anyone else feels like they're in the same boat as me i.e. been reading etc. but haven't made consistent practical use of the information message me and comment cause we could make it a friendly competition and use it as extra motivation also it will probably be beneficial to talk to someone else who has similar progress to discuss with etc. evaluate each other floors.


That last comment also gives rise to a suggestion which im not sure if its practical and kinda depends on the willingness of the members of the GC community but i think that making mentor group for the more serious members would be something new and fresh and might be quite cool

e.g. some of the more experience members e.g. Zphix, Narrowj etc. might have like 5 members in there group and have topic board thing where they submit reports etc. and receive guidance (anyways thinking over this suggestion i just realized it practically the forums but in a more closed environment which may or may not be silly but iv decided to leave the comment if any of the admins or higher up think this may be a little fun and want to trail it etc.)

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I waffled on in this but to sum it up im getting serious and who wants to join me ?


Plus feel free to suggest reading etc.
 
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