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I'll take a second to talk about the backstory: I work for a retail store, but I do the work from home. Needless to say I often go to the store to hang out with my boss. They just hired this new sales associate. I chatted with her once and she seemed quite neutral towards me. I saw her again a week later and she was giving me all sorts of seductive looks. I was gonna make some plans with her and get her number but I didn't end up doing it - I got nervous and my mindsets were preventing me from accomplishing this.
Fast forward to today. I'm in the store and she's still giving me these looks. I ask her,
Then all of a sudden my boss interrupts:
We walk out onto the street and shes giving me the bedroom eyes.
We're at the market and we're just wandering around and she doesn't even know what she wants to eat. I'm touching her a lot and she has no problem with it. Still giving me some bedroom eyes. I was qualifying her, asking her if shes a creative person or stuff. But she didn't really seem interested in hearing anything about me. We stop at this one restaurant. Somehow we end up talking about what kind of animal we would be if we were reincarnated:
I then ask her:
I'm waiting for her to order at this restaurant but shes taking forever so I go and sit at this table nearby trying to figure out what to do now that my initial plan of getting her number and inviting her over to my place has changed... I think that maybe I could use the date compression strategy. She finally gets her food and she comes over:
She sits. All of a sudden the vibe has changed. She's not really looking at me or engaging with me, not giving me the bedroom eyes. I wonder what's wrong. I think, hmmm maybe I pissed her off by making her sit here?
5 minutes later I suggest we move somewhere else. She's down. We go sit somewhere else....still the same vibe. Not really interested in me. She's eating very slowly. Then she says "OK i'm done." I look at her food and shes barely eaten anything. I start teasing her for having a small stomach but it doesn't really go anywhere. So we're just sitting around not talking and I realize she's waiting for me to make a move. I say "hey lets go for a walk."
So we go outside and then she starts giving me resistance about how she has to go back to work soon. I start walking her back towards her work and she points out a building. We are chatting about the building and she says,
I didn't react to that too much. We are walking down the street and I say goodbye. I didn't get her number or anything.
Yeah s0o0o0o as the subject topic says, I'm really kicking myself. The only thing this girl was hungry for was some cock and I DIDN'T REALIZE IT TILL AFTER. I let my boss change my initial frame, then I messed up the frame by thinking she was hungry and shit. Even if I was smart about this, the logistics were shit. My house was a 20 minute bus ride away and we were downtown, so I'd have to find some place to fuck her outside in the middle of a busy downtown area. Also, the conversation wasn't the greatest. There was no emotional connection. I am learning that there doesn't need to be an emotional connection to have sex though. People just use each other for their bodies.
I will surely see this girl again - any suggestions on how to handle it?
Fast forward to today. I'm in the store and she's still giving me these looks. I ask her,
Then all of a sudden my boss interrupts:
We walk out onto the street and shes giving me the bedroom eyes.
We're at the market and we're just wandering around and she doesn't even know what she wants to eat. I'm touching her a lot and she has no problem with it. Still giving me some bedroom eyes. I was qualifying her, asking her if shes a creative person or stuff. But she didn't really seem interested in hearing anything about me. We stop at this one restaurant. Somehow we end up talking about what kind of animal we would be if we were reincarnated:
I then ask her:
I'm waiting for her to order at this restaurant but shes taking forever so I go and sit at this table nearby trying to figure out what to do now that my initial plan of getting her number and inviting her over to my place has changed... I think that maybe I could use the date compression strategy. She finally gets her food and she comes over:
Girl: It says this is for On The Rattle employees only!
Backstory: That's okay
Girl: Let's go somewhere else so we don't get in trouble
Backstory: No its cool, sit here.
Backstory: If we get in trouble I'm blaming you
She sits. All of a sudden the vibe has changed. She's not really looking at me or engaging with me, not giving me the bedroom eyes. I wonder what's wrong. I think, hmmm maybe I pissed her off by making her sit here?
5 minutes later I suggest we move somewhere else. She's down. We go sit somewhere else....still the same vibe. Not really interested in me. She's eating very slowly. Then she says "OK i'm done." I look at her food and shes barely eaten anything. I start teasing her for having a small stomach but it doesn't really go anywhere. So we're just sitting around not talking and I realize she's waiting for me to make a move. I say "hey lets go for a walk."
So we go outside and then she starts giving me resistance about how she has to go back to work soon. I start walking her back towards her work and she points out a building. We are chatting about the building and she says,
I didn't react to that too much. We are walking down the street and I say goodbye. I didn't get her number or anything.
Yeah s0o0o0o as the subject topic says, I'm really kicking myself. The only thing this girl was hungry for was some cock and I DIDN'T REALIZE IT TILL AFTER. I let my boss change my initial frame, then I messed up the frame by thinking she was hungry and shit. Even if I was smart about this, the logistics were shit. My house was a 20 minute bus ride away and we were downtown, so I'd have to find some place to fuck her outside in the middle of a busy downtown area. Also, the conversation wasn't the greatest. There was no emotional connection. I am learning that there doesn't need to be an emotional connection to have sex though. People just use each other for their bodies.
I will surely see this girl again - any suggestions on how to handle it?
