LR- "I'm not that type of girls, i don't go home with guys on the first date"

[Skjöldr]

I met this curvy funky girl Saturday before noon and we set the date up for Sunday night.

Spoiler: Approach

The approach went well. I was working out, she walks past, i run after her, give her a compliment open "Hey, i know this is random, but i was just working out over there and i saw you speeding past before my eyes, and i had to let you know you are cute before you leave my life forever" or something like that and she laughs and is almost instantly hooked. She's from Latvia and studies here in Denmark. We have a good chat, i don't just do the chode speak, i make sure to pay attention stimulate her emotionally and carry the ball through the attraction phase and we ask eachother questions back and forth. I think it was around 5-6 minutes total. We set the date up and she walks off and i keep working out.

Spoiler: Texting

Me: Hey Lilita, nice meeting you happy thoughts on your way!
Her: hey and likewise )
Me: Looking forward to some romantic stress relief tomorrow
Her: I was thinking more witchcraft but i guess romantic also works haha (I said how she was a black magic sorceress on the approach and she doubled down on it how she would wear all black tomorrow and i said how she would throw seduction spells on me etc)
Me: Ah yeah, you're gonna use some wild seduction magic on me tomorrow, excited to see if it works
Her: haha well, don't get your hopes up
-Then i made a mistake i think-
Me: What are your plans for the rest of today?
Her: Umm nothing too special...justmake some dinner, study a bit more and then maybe talk to friends or watch a movie or something wby?
Me: That's nice I'm just gonna chill now, been out all day.
Me: Some red wine would be lovely, but there's too much just for me...
Her: well, nobody says you have to drink it all at once
Me: then it goes bad, i have no corkstopper
Me: If you aren't feeling spontaneous, then i will just see you tomorrow
Her: No reply
Me next day: I'll meet you at the ice cream place when it is
Me: ? (1.5 hour later, 4 hours before date)
Her: Oh yeah, sorry. What time?
Me: 7pm (She didn't reply to this and i thought she was gonna flake but she did show up, late however, and i just sat in my car for 5 minutes while she walked around trying to find me, i was a bit butthurt ;-
Me at 11pm: That was *fire emoji* (after she left my place)
Her at 11.30 pm: It sure was something...
Me: (i just linked this song marked at 29 seconds in idk why lmao, she didn't reply) song

Spoiler: Date

I get out of my car and then i show her where to park her bike (fucks sake, she came on a bike, i came in a car, sometimes i screen for this before hand "Hey how do you get there?" like i had a date earlier on Sunday where i did that and i picked her up but i didn't wanna overtext this girl as she was being unresponsive anyways, so i decided to take the chance) We hug and greet eachother, she's a very good energy and fun person, she was like "Sooo how's your easter woohoo" which sort of melted me and i got in a good mood and stopped being a butthurt fag. Then we just had really good conversation, roleplays, setting the right frames (i'm shit at remembering my date convos in detail, it just flows now) teasing her, cold reads etc. Few things to note is that some point she said something about in life there are givers and takers and i said how i'm both a giver and a taker because i'm only satisfied if the other person is satisfied and she said "Hmm... good to know" hehe which was smooth. Then when we came back to where we started full circle after 45-60 minutes i went for the pull saying how i lived really close and suggested we go back to my place and drink red wine and she said she didn't like white wine and i said i also have white wine and she said she didn't like wine at all and i asked what she likes to drink and she told me and i said well we can just have some water and she said "Hmm i'm not that type of girl" and i said "What do you mean?" and she said "I don't go home with guys on the first date" and i used my classic that i also used in this LR which is "Ah no problem, you wait down there and i'm gonna make a quick dash around the lake and then we have our second date" and they always laugh at this, but i followed up with "Let's walk a bit more" and walked a route that would buy me 5 minutes of time and i started working on her ASD by telling a story about my friend here it is:

Spoiler: Handling objection

"There is this weird thing about some guys, they want to have alot of sex, but they want to have alot of sex with girls who don't have alot of sex" and then she interrupts me "And they think girls don't like sex?" and i say "Yeah nono, that's my point, they want to have alot of sex with a girl who doesn't have alot of sex, it doesn't make sense, girls can like sex just as much as guys and there is nothing wrong with it, it is perfectly natural to live out your sexuality" and she was nodding and i go "I was talking with my friend, another friend, and he said how he slept with this girl who was super easy and i told him what do you mean she was super easy and he said because she really liked him and was cool with sleeping with him quickly and i told him dude that's not because she's easy that's just because she liked you and you fucked it up for yourself by judging her and that's why you didn't see her again because she could sense that" and i say "I never understood that mindset, i believe what has a passionate beginning has a passionate lifetime" and she was nodding and listening carefully but then she said how the spark can also die out it didn't really make sense but i told her the spark can always die out, but just because it comes quick doesn't mean it goes away quickly, in my experience, passionate beginnings have a passionate lifetime and she said oh yeah i make a good point"

After that we were standing at her bike and i was very persistent to her saying how she can leave whenever she wantsss, i'm gonna show you my soul animal etc etc and i said i will just show you around and then you can go whenever you want and she wasn't comfortable leaving her bike at the place after dark, so i gave her the address and i drove back and prayed to god that she wouldn't get cold feet on the way and drive home instead.

Spoiler: My place

I arrive at my place and i wait... and i wait... it must be 10 minutes now, the GPS said 7 minutes... perhaps 15 minutes even... fuck she got cold feet didn't she... ofc i'm complete calm on the outside while this is going on walking around outside to keep myself warm, scrolling on my phone then i see someone on a bike to my right and i point my screen up to show her the light quick and she walks towards me... I tell her just park your bike over there and i said wow you look great, wearing the same cool pants as on our first date, i have been so excited for our second date, with a huge grin on my face looking at her like "you know, that i know, that you know" and then we walk inside. I take her jacket, she takes off her shoes etc we chat, we get some water, sit in the couch, i fractionate between sitting close with her with arms around to pulling away, to getting up to show her stuff, to turn around to grab some water etc. Push and pull. Then i do the 8 orgasm routine and i can feel she gets turned on (me too hehe) and then i let it sink in for a bit, go for kiss, she turn her head down, giving me token resistance and then i go for it again and we start kissing and making out and she turns her body towards me, grabs my face ahah and then i get her on my lap and thrust on her pussy and she grinds on me and i run my hands hungrily up and down her body, i grab her by the hips and get up and she says "nope, nope, nope" and tries to get down but i say "hell yes" and lift her up again and throws her on the bed and get in between her legs and she goes "nonono" again and i'm like "relaaaax, we are just kissing" and then she loosens up and i hump her while making out pulling her hair and grabbing her tits. After a while of this i pull my own shirt off, and she start touching me and starts moaning and i get her shirt off and sucks her tits and licking them and then i nibbled on them and she started flying around i could tell she would cum if i kept going and she didn't wanna cum and bit by bit, fighting every inch of the way we are completely naked, i get my fingers inside her pussy, rubbing her clit which she starts flying up and down over again and tries to stop me, i say let's switch place and she blows me and jerks me off and we fool around but she don't want me to put my cock inside, i try like 10-20 times saying how i just wanna be closer to her and feel her inside, but oh well, i settle for a blowjob when i realize it won't happen and she sucks it, i cum in her mouth, she swallows and we cuddle for a long time, i say how she really liked it when i spanked her she was moaning like a good little girl and she goes "stooop haha" and i say "I can tell you like being submissive in bed" and this always blows girl's minds like "woaah how did you know" when like 90% of girls like being submissive in bed lol. Then she leaves and i shoot her a text.

One thing that worried me is that she kept saying "What the hell just happened" "I don't know what came over me" and i was afraid she would get buyer's remorse so i showed alot of empathy saying how she gave in to her body and did the right thing for herself and allowed herself to get what she needed and blah blah blah. Hopefully she wanna see me again so i can get the full lay!

 

[Skjöldr]

I'm thinking about how quickly i should follow up on her. On one hand i did text her right after which was good to keep out of auto-rejection and i should go while it's hot on the other hand i don't wanna overload her and be too pushy if she's still thinking it through, give her some space to think.

I was thinking about texting "Goodmorning *sun emoji" and then when she replies say "Something very unfortunate happened this morning when i got up" and she asks what and i said "It was dark in my room and i went up to stretch and then i knocked over your glass of water from last night and spilled it everywhere"

 

[Skills]

peter very nice report (is a field report not lay report) really enjoy and i will steal the " wait here i will run a quick dash and it will be our second date", and when she got to your place "ready for our second date" wow genius ….. you handle a lot of things masterfully...... when you are fully naked try to do what i suggest in this post , and what you will do is a lot of things i suggest here, but of course we the condom... Once you rub the head of your dick against clit is game over...

 

[Skills]

I'm thinking about how quickly i should follow up on her. On one hand i did text her right after which was good to keep out of auto-rejection and i should go while it's hot on the other hand i don't wanna overload her and be too pushy if she's still thinking it through, give her some space to think.

I was thinking about texting "Goodmorning *sun emoji" and then when she replies say "Something very unfortunate happened this morning when i got up" and she asks what and i said "It was dark in my room and i went up to stretch and then i knocked over your glass of water from last night and spilled it everywhere"

just text goodmorning with the sun smiling emoji... nothing fancy

 

[Skjöldr]

peter very nice report (is a field report not lay report) really enjoy and i will steal the " wait here i will run a quick dash and it will be our second date", and when she got to your place "ready for our second date" wow genius ….. you handle a lot of things masterfully...... when you are fully naked try to do what i suggest in this post , and what you will do is a lot of things i suggest here, but of course we the condom... Once you rub the head of your dick against clit is game over...

Yes i put LR minus, not a full lay report. Thanks for the tips, i sent her the good morning with the sun emoji, it works pretty well

 

[Skjöldr]

I did ask her "Is it because there's no condom on?" and she said "that too, but idk, just no sex, no"

 

[Skills]

I did ask her "Is it because there's no condom on?" and she said "that too, but idk, just no sex, no"

Why would you ask this question, my point is to jerk off against her clit rubbing the tip of your head against it and say "no sex just tease" without you trying then have her jerk u off against her clit repeating no sex just tease a lot and even you pulling back, if done correctly she will put it in

 

[Fuck This]

Consent is such an issue that the first time with someone I tease and tease and tease until they can't take it anymore then I say "ask for it..." "Ask me to fuck you "

The goal is they never say no.

 

[Rakkum]

Good one, Peter!

Ironic how some times on my own dates I can't get the sparks flying and on other's I have a half-naked woman on my bed who's super aroused but has her slut shield up and giving lots of LMR.

Anyhow, not super relevant to your post.

Makes me wonder, which is the primary solution situation such as yours: to have the skill to push for sex or skills to prevent her having her guards up. Obviously both in the long term but in the short term..