I'm so done trying..

[Anonymous]

I met this girl 2 months ago, during a party at my friends house.
She told me she wanted a serious relation ship after having so many boys that only wanted to have sex with her.
I saw myself in that position, i wanted to be that guy that could be her serious relationship.
We dated it was very fun! we laughed bla bla bla, went to movies, had a drink and stuff, i have had alot of dates with her.
And since a short period she came to my house, we watched a movie and stuff but we never had sex. i mean CMON! what the hell is going on here.
She is saying she is interested in me and likes me, when she is with me she wants to hug alot, and when she is not with me she doesnt even text me a word a day.
Again, she stayed about 3/4 times at my house, we watched a movie, i never got past the kissing part.
''she doesnt want to go to fast with me'' omfg, i know i am doing something wrong. Am i her toy?
I am done playing games..
Help?

 

[topcat]

This should help https://www.girlschase.com/content/early ... s-bad-idea

 

[Amadeaus]

I feel myself slipping into this as well. I will give that a read...

With the girl I'm thinking of, we have met up a couple times and we went out one night for drinks. We kiss when we hello/bye and we have a good time together, but I haven't slept with her yet. She lives with her mom and I rent a room from an old couple. The logistics are not in my favor, until I can find a new place.

We are both going on this group vacation in 8 weeks(I will be the only dude there), but 8 weeks is a long time to be seeing a girl and not doing much more than kissing. It doesn't help that its midterms right now. I started out pretty smooth, but I'm starting to get attached and think about her a lot.