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Hey guys,
Background
This FR is from a date 2 weeks ago. I met this girl at school the first week of september and she was instantly attracted to me. Let's call her Chloe.
Got her facebook and she was also the first one to initiate contact online.To reward her chasing I tried to set up a date for the past month,
but she would always come up with an excuse and say she was busy with school or other stuff. It felt more and more like I am chasing now,
so I decide to ignore her for a while and she ended up asking me out two weeks ago. I accepted.
The Date
We met on the subway to downtown and the plan was for us to check out this cocktail bar she really liked. Since we were going downtown it meant that I had bad logistics, but my plan was to tell her to come smoke weed with me at my place after the date since I knew she was into that.
While we're walking to the this fancy place she shows me this other bar she says we can maybe go to later. I shrug my shoulders and tell her:
We'll see. Lets first head to the bar we agreed upon
We get there and this place is really cool, but not cheap. She tells me it's usually more crowded than this. We start to deep dive and I succesfully use
intrigue when I'm telling my stories, but I also downplay myself so I don't pump up to much value. I learn alot about her family, her home country, thoughts
about Canada and about her view on our shared passion which is music. At this point things are going well, but I haven't established touch well enough yet.
After about 40 min we decide to go to the other bar she showed me on the way. She pays for our drinks, which are not cheap (win!) and we head out.
At the next bar we decide to sit outside at the upper deck. It's pretty cold, so it becomes a perfect opportunity to establish touching.
We are sitting towards each other on a bench and my legs are wrapped around hers while I'm also caressing her thighs.
We have a couple of beers and continue talking. She's doing most of the talking by now and I take breaks where I deploy the best soul peircing I can.
We end up talking about relationships and I use my relationship theory (https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=8566)
which she totally digs. My favourite part is when I tell her let's say we hypothetically fell madly in love together. Then she asks:
But not hypothetically, I'm still your girl right?
So cute, begging to be qualified. I could have been more clever here, but I just put on a half smile and say yeah, you're still my girl.
After we finish talking about the theory I go for the ask:
Failed Ask
I use the yes ladder here:
- Are you having a good time?
- Yes
- Do you like spending time with me?
- Yeah, I like you a lot!
- Do you wanna go get high?
- Yeah, do you have anything on you?
- I have some back at my place.
- Oh, no I can't. I promised my mom to help her out with something in the morning and I have to wake up early tomorrow.
- I won't keep you for long, I promise to kick you out before it gets too late.
- Noo I really can't i'm sorry. I wish I could
Fuuuck. We still decide to leave and she heads to the washroom. Meanwhile I look up at the stars to keep myself occuupied.
When she comes back I do something stupid. I don't know why I did this, but in that moment I wrap my arms around her waist and try to kiss her.
10 minutes after I failed to convince her to come home with me. She pulls her face away. This is her explanation:
- Noo, I can't
- Why not?
- Just because
- Just because?
- Yeah. Don't take it the wrong way though
FUCK THIS SHIT. Anyway I brush it off like it didn't faze me and I pay for our beers (insisted of paying because she already payed for our cocktails. My bills is like half the size). We take the subway home and I keep a playful vibe, touching a lot and bantering. I try to convince one more time on the subway to come with me but she doesn't budge so I lay off. As my station arrives I'm about to tell her a story, but I keep my intrigue and tell I will tell it next time. As I leave the subway she is beaming from ear to ear.
2 weeks back from now I was positive to try getting another date with Chloe, but last week I went away for halloween on a trip with my boys. There I learn talking to Bro nr. 1 (from my previous FR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=8404) at a after party that the girl bro nr. 2 hooked up with was Chloe, one week prior to our date. I got really upset because after all my hard work, I feel that I'm still Pete and not Jerry.
I met her in the halls once last week and she was very warm towards me, hugging me and kissing me on the cheek. I was rather cold. I texted her last friday asking if she was free for the weekend, she told me she already had plans. It was just a half-assed attempt of setting up a date because I honestly could not be bothered.
So yeah, still no lay. I'm going to continue striving because there is really no other option. It just sometimes feel like the universe wants me to never have sex.
GC keeps me from going crazy...
Until next time, please drench some bitch with cum so I can follow your example.
TVKTVK
Background
This FR is from a date 2 weeks ago. I met this girl at school the first week of september and she was instantly attracted to me. Let's call her Chloe.
Got her facebook and she was also the first one to initiate contact online.To reward her chasing I tried to set up a date for the past month,
but she would always come up with an excuse and say she was busy with school or other stuff. It felt more and more like I am chasing now,
so I decide to ignore her for a while and she ended up asking me out two weeks ago. I accepted.
The Date
We met on the subway to downtown and the plan was for us to check out this cocktail bar she really liked. Since we were going downtown it meant that I had bad logistics, but my plan was to tell her to come smoke weed with me at my place after the date since I knew she was into that.
While we're walking to the this fancy place she shows me this other bar she says we can maybe go to later. I shrug my shoulders and tell her:
We'll see. Lets first head to the bar we agreed upon
We get there and this place is really cool, but not cheap. She tells me it's usually more crowded than this. We start to deep dive and I succesfully use
intrigue when I'm telling my stories, but I also downplay myself so I don't pump up to much value. I learn alot about her family, her home country, thoughts
about Canada and about her view on our shared passion which is music. At this point things are going well, but I haven't established touch well enough yet.
After about 40 min we decide to go to the other bar she showed me on the way. She pays for our drinks, which are not cheap (win!) and we head out.
At the next bar we decide to sit outside at the upper deck. It's pretty cold, so it becomes a perfect opportunity to establish touching.
We are sitting towards each other on a bench and my legs are wrapped around hers while I'm also caressing her thighs.
We have a couple of beers and continue talking. She's doing most of the talking by now and I take breaks where I deploy the best soul peircing I can.
We end up talking about relationships and I use my relationship theory (https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=8566)
which she totally digs. My favourite part is when I tell her let's say we hypothetically fell madly in love together. Then she asks:
But not hypothetically, I'm still your girl right?
So cute, begging to be qualified. I could have been more clever here, but I just put on a half smile and say yeah, you're still my girl.
After we finish talking about the theory I go for the ask:
Failed Ask
I use the yes ladder here:
- Are you having a good time?
- Yes
- Do you like spending time with me?
- Yeah, I like you a lot!
- Do you wanna go get high?
- Yeah, do you have anything on you?
- I have some back at my place.
- Oh, no I can't. I promised my mom to help her out with something in the morning and I have to wake up early tomorrow.
- I won't keep you for long, I promise to kick you out before it gets too late.
- Noo I really can't i'm sorry. I wish I could
Fuuuck. We still decide to leave and she heads to the washroom. Meanwhile I look up at the stars to keep myself occuupied.
When she comes back I do something stupid. I don't know why I did this, but in that moment I wrap my arms around her waist and try to kiss her.
10 minutes after I failed to convince her to come home with me. She pulls her face away. This is her explanation:
- Noo, I can't
- Why not?
- Just because
- Just because?
- Yeah. Don't take it the wrong way though
FUCK THIS SHIT. Anyway I brush it off like it didn't faze me and I pay for our beers (insisted of paying because she already payed for our cocktails. My bills is like half the size). We take the subway home and I keep a playful vibe, touching a lot and bantering. I try to convince one more time on the subway to come with me but she doesn't budge so I lay off. As my station arrives I'm about to tell her a story, but I keep my intrigue and tell I will tell it next time. As I leave the subway she is beaming from ear to ear.
2 weeks back from now I was positive to try getting another date with Chloe, but last week I went away for halloween on a trip with my boys. There I learn talking to Bro nr. 1 (from my previous FR: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=8404) at a after party that the girl bro nr. 2 hooked up with was Chloe, one week prior to our date. I got really upset because after all my hard work, I feel that I'm still Pete and not Jerry.
I met her in the halls once last week and she was very warm towards me, hugging me and kissing me on the cheek. I was rather cold. I texted her last friday asking if she was free for the weekend, she told me she already had plans. It was just a half-assed attempt of setting up a date because I honestly could not be bothered.
So yeah, still no lay. I'm going to continue striving because there is really no other option. It just sometimes feel like the universe wants me to never have sex.
GC keeps me from going crazy...
Until next time, please drench some bitch with cum so I can follow your example.
TVKTVK
