(N.B I've been away from these boards for a few months, and i must say that my mindset of woman has really changed during that time. As a result, women appear to find me much more attractive in general. I suppose i found that abundance mentality already. Being rejected by a girl no longer has any significant effect on me, nor do i get attached so easily anymore. So my previous threads i have posted no longer relate to the ones i will post in the future. Though i am pleased to know that they're helping the newer guys now).
Onto my question, being almost 19, i will be going University soon. However, i'm also studying in one of the most expensive cities in the world. So i will be saving tens of thousands of £/$ by deciding to live with my parents instead and taking the train to the university rather than living on campus.
This means it is obviously not possible to take a girl back home with me for a night of sex. Neither is it easy to convince a girl to go to her place as the majority of dormitories have restrictions on guests, and the majority of girls share a room with another girl. Hotels are also far too expensive. (Also, girls seem to always think their bedrooms are too messy to allow a guest to enter).
As a result, i think i might be a bit stuck here, or i'll have to interact more with older women (which isn't a bad thing).
Even so, i want to know how i should adjust my process so it would be easy and as comfortable as possible for a girl to invite me to her home.
Normally, my process would go:
Meet for date ---> take her home to show her/help me with something ----> see what happens
How should i adapt this for the above scenario that's affecting me and countless other guys out there?
Onto my question, being almost 19, i will be going University soon. However, i'm also studying in one of the most expensive cities in the world. So i will be saving tens of thousands of £/$ by deciding to live with my parents instead and taking the train to the university rather than living on campus.
This means it is obviously not possible to take a girl back home with me for a night of sex. Neither is it easy to convince a girl to go to her place as the majority of dormitories have restrictions on guests, and the majority of girls share a room with another girl. Hotels are also far too expensive. (Also, girls seem to always think their bedrooms are too messy to allow a guest to enter).
As a result, i think i might be a bit stuck here, or i'll have to interact more with older women (which isn't a bad thing).
Even so, i want to know how i should adjust my process so it would be easy and as comfortable as possible for a girl to invite me to her home.
Normally, my process would go:
Meet for date ---> take her home to show her/help me with something ----> see what happens
How should i adapt this for the above scenario that's affecting me and countless other guys out there?
