Hey guys, longe time I don't come on here or post, but I've had this idea these last few days and decided to post something on it. It would be nice if someone like Chase or Peter Fontes (don't even know if he is on the forums) would read this and give some feedback.
The theory that I have- and I don't know if it has been covered in any article on the site- is that the younger a woman is, the more she'll value social proof and alignments that pertain to her own social circle, and that the older a woman gets, the less she'll value these things and value more individual achievements, ie: a good job, nice car/house etc.
I one of the reasons I observed this because of a recent fling I had with a girl in her early 20's. I had very few mutual friends with her, and my social circle was very far off from hers. I got to know her at a bar through one of the few friends that we have in common, and he was more of an acquaintance than a friend. She seemed attracted to me at first, but boy was it hard to get the deal done. She didn't seem to crack at first, I'd set up a date and she'd flake, it happened twice, and I gave up. I am a well liked and respected guy in my social circle, but to her, none of that mattered as it didn't pertain to her own social circle. In the next couple of months, though, I started hanging out more with the guy who is friends with her, and I started bringing people from my own social circle. The groups started to mesh in those few months, and eventually my social proof shot up in her eyes. Well, after that, as you can guess, I took her home and laid her.
Sure, many other things may have happened that made things worse at first, such as there being another guy, but I'm pretty sure that after I aligned more with the people in her social circle and my value shot up, her attraction towards me also went up, which led to what happened.
So, in theory, you can be the baddest, most respect, well liked SOB in your social circle, if step out of it and go for a girl (particularly late teens/early twenties) in another social circle with ties to yours bordering on zero, unless she is VERY physically attracted to you, it will be very hard to get to her.
In contrast, women who are in their mid-late twenties and beyond, don't necessarily value social alingments as much, and prefer to look at other things such as personal achievements to fulfill the provider role, or raw sexual energy if all they want is a sexual release. So, essentially, it is much easier to do cold approaches on women who are in this age group.
What are your thoughts on this? Feel free to agree, disagree, add input and the likes!
The theory that I have- and I don't know if it has been covered in any article on the site- is that the younger a woman is, the more she'll value social proof and alignments that pertain to her own social circle, and that the older a woman gets, the less she'll value these things and value more individual achievements, ie: a good job, nice car/house etc.
I one of the reasons I observed this because of a recent fling I had with a girl in her early 20's. I had very few mutual friends with her, and my social circle was very far off from hers. I got to know her at a bar through one of the few friends that we have in common, and he was more of an acquaintance than a friend. She seemed attracted to me at first, but boy was it hard to get the deal done. She didn't seem to crack at first, I'd set up a date and she'd flake, it happened twice, and I gave up. I am a well liked and respected guy in my social circle, but to her, none of that mattered as it didn't pertain to her own social circle. In the next couple of months, though, I started hanging out more with the guy who is friends with her, and I started bringing people from my own social circle. The groups started to mesh in those few months, and eventually my social proof shot up in her eyes. Well, after that, as you can guess, I took her home and laid her.
Sure, many other things may have happened that made things worse at first, such as there being another guy, but I'm pretty sure that after I aligned more with the people in her social circle and my value shot up, her attraction towards me also went up, which led to what happened.
So, in theory, you can be the baddest, most respect, well liked SOB in your social circle, if step out of it and go for a girl (particularly late teens/early twenties) in another social circle with ties to yours bordering on zero, unless she is VERY physically attracted to you, it will be very hard to get to her.
In contrast, women who are in their mid-late twenties and beyond, don't necessarily value social alingments as much, and prefer to look at other things such as personal achievements to fulfill the provider role, or raw sexual energy if all they want is a sexual release. So, essentially, it is much easier to do cold approaches on women who are in this age group.
What are your thoughts on this? Feel free to agree, disagree, add input and the likes!
