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Hi Guys,
The note in this video here is "Real Men Don't Rape". Looks pretty corny but it does have a point.
http://www.storypick.com/girl-gets-drun ... hing-guys/
I found this while i was logging in to Facebook to answer message, viewing 9gag, checking my old friends and how they are. Anyway, I thought i might link this here. So basically what's going on?
Situation: Girl and Guy hanging out at hotel with loads of bottles, getting drunk.
When i saw the video the first time, it seems pretty mainstream, giving nice guys a validation, pretty much whiteknighting. But then i realize that taking too much of the red pill can also fuck up your perception.
So what do mean by here? It means that you don't place value in mainstream opinions. Now, this is not to say that you should watch the television and start obeying like dogs, but rather have an awareness on why mainstream believe such things.
So let's go to the video: the girl suddenly sleeps on the bed. We gonna offer two perspectives here.
First perspective: She is drinking. She drinks too many bottles. She ends up in a hotel room. She's pretty much "asking for it". Who ends up in a hotel with somebody else? especially if you're a girl.
Second Perspective: Sex and Alcohol has always been most men's idea in getting women to sex, and women do pretend to be drunk in order to get sex. It is true that she's putting herself in an uncompromising situation where she is in a hotel room and she passed out. But it is also true that the guy here might be a friend. So there's a violation of trust right there. She is totally passed out, means she has no consent for sex.
It is not that she is "asking for it" (although most PUAs will beg to differ and i understand), but rather, a violation of trust if the guy is a friend, somebody she knows and/or no consensual decision for sex.
The scariest thing i learn isn't that rapes are from strangers, but statistically, It is from friends, family members, acquaintances. Most of the rape cases are not complete strangers
PRetty scary isn't it?
Zac
The note in this video here is "Real Men Don't Rape". Looks pretty corny but it does have a point.
http://www.storypick.com/girl-gets-drun ... hing-guys/
I found this while i was logging in to Facebook to answer message, viewing 9gag, checking my old friends and how they are. Anyway, I thought i might link this here. So basically what's going on?
Situation: Girl and Guy hanging out at hotel with loads of bottles, getting drunk.
When i saw the video the first time, it seems pretty mainstream, giving nice guys a validation, pretty much whiteknighting. But then i realize that taking too much of the red pill can also fuck up your perception.
So what do mean by here? It means that you don't place value in mainstream opinions. Now, this is not to say that you should watch the television and start obeying like dogs, but rather have an awareness on why mainstream believe such things.So let's go to the video: the girl suddenly sleeps on the bed. We gonna offer two perspectives here.
First perspective: She is drinking. She drinks too many bottles. She ends up in a hotel room. She's pretty much "asking for it". Who ends up in a hotel with somebody else? especially if you're a girl.
Second Perspective: Sex and Alcohol has always been most men's idea in getting women to sex, and women do pretend to be drunk in order to get sex. It is true that she's putting herself in an uncompromising situation where she is in a hotel room and she passed out. But it is also true that the guy here might be a friend. So there's a violation of trust right there. She is totally passed out, means she has no consent for sex.
It is not that she is "asking for it" (although most PUAs will beg to differ and i understand), but rather, a violation of trust if the guy is a friend, somebody she knows and/or no consensual decision for sex.
The scariest thing i learn isn't that rapes are from strangers, but statistically, It is from friends, family members, acquaintances. Most of the rape cases are not complete strangers
PRetty scary isn't it?
Zac
