IMPT IF YOU're A GC follower: Be relax on advice on other dating companies

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

Apparently i have been really busy this few days, and my computer backspace currently doesn't work. So i am really mess up and handicapped typing here. I am a little bit late in settling this issue, but the occasional post and comment here and there, and posting normal stuff. I need to do many things.

I was at a Facebook group and apparently, someone ask that when is the time to text a girl after a "good" date?

Apparently i just blast out and tell him, that 'depends on what you mean is a "successful date" '. The guy was noting that the girl was enjoy being with his company and so on. Then i recognize i was being too forward. So yea, I recognize that Girlschase is more of an expert level on dating, that a first kiss close is a big fucking deal in other companies and groups and what have you.

So be careful not to offend people although i don't really care. haha. Nah i am joking.

So yea, better to manage my words.

Zac

 

[PrettyDecent]

Really true, man. Society shames men who escalate to sex quickly.

You must've had a hilarious response though! Haha

Nick

 

[Lover]

Really true, man. Society shames men who escalate to sex quickly.

I remember while looking for sites on how to get girls, I found one aimed for women by a man. That wasn't a problem itself. The thing that shocked me most was how guys who were hooking up with women quickly and escalating to sex quickly were somehow selfish jerks who had no regard for the woman. I do understand this paradigm, but it's like there is no solution "in the middle" which is what I generally see in my everyday life.

In the case of fast sex vs slow sex: Either you are the selfish jerk who has no respect for the woman, or you are the selfless cutiepie who respects his girl like she's everything.

Point: To fit the mental model of people, you must make things an "either or" case. Nothing in between.

It sucks.

 

[Inbocca]

The thing that shocked me most was how guys who were hooking up with women quickly and escalating to sex quickly were somehow selfish jerks who had no regard for the woman. I do understand this paradigm, but it's like there is no solution "in the middle" which is what I generally see in my everyday life.

In the case of fast sex vs slow sex: Either you are the selfish jerk who has no respect for the woman, or you are the selfless cutiepie who respects his girl like she's everything.

By far my favorite thing about this community: there's a much bigger focus on dominance in the sense of building women up to make them want you, rather than tearing them down to make them need you.

 

[trashKENNUT]

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