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In School: How to say hi to girls passing by

DLegend

Space Monkey
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So if you're walking in the halls, and you're passing by a girl you know but you don't usually stop, what do you say to her?

Also what can you say hi to a girl you don't know passing by, just for her to know that you exist and maybe be a little intrigued at how that stranger said hi to her so non-chalantly and just kept walking?

It would be awesome to be able to do that!

Usually to girls I wink at them, or playfully point at her. But when they do something that needs a response I usually say "hey" but I feel it's weak and pussy like, i dont know if it's just me?

Thanks in advance, DLegend!
 
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daviddreamer

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I wouldn't say anything unless I was going to strike in for a conversation that would lead to somewhere. To me it just sounds like a quick way to become an orbiter into the friend-zone. If you just walk by and say hi for days on end you're the ONLY one making any kind of a investment and after a while (well probably won't take long) she is going to think that you have no interest in her and you're just a friendly nice guy.
 

DLegend

Space Monkey
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I see, it makes perfect sense. I guess I overlooked it and was trying to be a bit more social, but that sometimes backfires. Thank you lots
 

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daviddreamer said:
I wouldn't say anything unless I was going to strike in for a conversation that would lead to somewhere. To me it just sounds like a quick way to become an orbiter into the friend-zone. If you just walk by and say hi for days on end you're the ONLY one making any kind of a investment and after a while (well probably won't take long) she is going to think that you have no interest in her and you're just a friendly nice guy.

So basically what you're saying is, if you want conversation that goes somewhere, you approach the girl and talk to her.

Let's say you pass the five most attractive girls in school three times at week. You've noticed them, and chances are high they have noticed you as well. But for two months, approach anxiety hits you every time you want to approach them. What are chances that they are open to your approach when you've just passed by them without doing anything, and then, after two months, you want to talk?

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