Grand Pooba said:
Lay Count 2018
New Lays: 11 (Full sexual intercourse), 7 less than 2017.
Lifetime Lay count: 69
LR- (BJ, sucking boobs etc...): ~4
Total dates 2018: Estimated 20-25.
Top Accomplishments
1. Became a more attractive and sexy man in every way, women give way more IOIs on a daily basis.
2. A lot of 2018 was about non-women things - I established myself as an independent business owner.
3. Lots of great encounters in mid to late 2018 - fast 15-20 min meet to pulls, and hotter girls.
4. Used more sex talk.
5. Way more assholey and aggressive.
2018 Goals review
1. 25 new lays - get to 85 total. -
Got 11; my dating life was zero for all of early 2018 until I changed cities and fixed my logistics in mid May. So that, plus focus on non-women endeavors and depression explains this drop.
2. Build regular cold approaching into my routine again.
- Off and on; will be a daily focus in 2019.
3. High quality women, 8+ only, met through cold approach and night game.
- Quality went up for sure, doing 7's and 8's consistently now, still need to break into 9's and 10's. Only met through cold approach and night game, I dropped online/app game completely and it has paid off.
4. Get really good at night game and day/night SDLs/SNLs.
- In progress, better with day game.
5. Learn how to pull smoothly and efficiently, consistently. Pulling is my current sticking point.
- Pulls have been better but I have to improve my calibration.
6. Frame more sexual encounters, use my knowledge in BDSM and Kink.
- I need to apply more sex talk.
7. Bulletproof confidence and self esteem.
- In progress, 2019 will be the year.
8. Kill any drive to seek validation from women, especially new women, and external validation in general.
9. Find and date two girlfriend-quality women.
- Did not accomplish.
10. Fix all my ED, Performance Anxiety, and Stress Related mental issues when it comes to sex. Learn to focus on my pleasure every single time.
- I made some inroads to deal with this in 2018, but it remains a huge issue that is affecting my sex life and all my successful seductions. This remains a massive, massive sticking point, and it won't be in 2019. What I've learned is that I really need to control my porn use and balance my mental state. I also have to become more comfortable with women.
Top Learnings:
1. To get girls, I must approach regularly. That's the only path to getting laid regularly. If I stop approaching, I won't get laid. This means I also must control my porn use and drinking.
2. Take the opportunities I have as soon as they show up - don't become fixated on a single girl when another wants me more. There were several times in 2018 where my original target was trying to pass me to her friend who was more interested, and I failed to see those signs - and missed both girls.
3. Ruining the mystery of the interaction during sex or after sex - like by telling her where I see this going - will destroy the seduction. I have to manage attainability, mystery, and my neediness at first sex.
4. Don't commit to someone I don't see myself being with long term - breaking up with them then becomes a painful and dangerous ordeal.
5. Absolutely always stick my penis in a girl at the first escalation - I don't even need to make her cum, I just need to make sure my penis gets inside her. That will increase the odds of her seeing me again by 90%.
Goals for 2019
1. 30-35 new lays - get over 100 total.
2. I always cold approach several girls every single day, always go for numbers and instant dates. I close on 50% or more of the women I approach; I fuck 25% of them.
3. Date and fuck 8+ women only, met through cold approach and night game.
4. Always use sex talk on dates and meets, and get really good at making girls super horny.
5. Always pull girls consistently, 75% of all dates and SDMs.
6. Frame more sexual encounters, use my knowledge in BDSM and Kink.
7. Bulletproof confidence and self esteem.
8. Become internally comfortable and sexually comfortable with women - and focus on my own pleasure.
9. Find and date two girlfriend-quality women.
10. Regularly add new girls as FB lovers (and create a good system for this)
Results 2019:
New Lays: 25;
14 more than 2018.
Lifetime Lay count: 94
LR- (BJ, sucking boobs etc...): ~10-15
Total Dates: Estimated 65-80.
Total Numbers: Estimated 300.
Total Approaches: Estimated 2700-3000.
Top Accomplishments 2019:
1. I completely reformed my style and appearance, which made me instantly more attractive and brought opportunities with many hot women of exactly the type I wanted. Sexy Asian women frequently give me IOIs. I also get a lot of interest from Russian women, but I haven't figured out a way to get one yet. This is a 2020 goal.
2. I approached 5+ women consistently 5-6 days a week for weeks and weeks on end, and created lots and lots of new leads and opportunities. I worked super hard and it was easily the toughest year I've ever had learning. The girls I approached were 8's and 9's, and I learned they also liked me back.
3. I got exceptionally good at street approaching and mastered a system of approaches to numbers to texting to dates, to have 1-3 dates a week, including...
3. Several weeks of SDL pickups off the street, attractive travelers whom were 8s and 9s. I also got my second ever night game pick up. I did especially while either traveling myself, or meeting travels in my own city. I also leveled up with travelers and got some cuties.
4. I fixed my weird ED issues (ED on first time with new girl), and found good solutions to resolve my anxiety around sex with new women. This completely changed my sex life.
5. I overall advanced my game and discovered very exciting strategies, and had opportunities with the hottest girls I've ever had. While I didn't close on many of them, it proves that I am extremely close.
2019 Goals Review:
1. 30-35 new lays - get over 100 total.
I got to 25, which brings me to 94 total and very close. Even though I had many opportunities to get to my goal this year, the most common trend was a failed escalation at home, which happened 75% of the time I brought a girl home. I learned my goal was attainable with a better system.
2. I always cold approach several girls every single day, always go for numbers and instant dates. I close on 50% or more of the women I approach; I fuck 25% of them.
I made it a habit to approach 5+ women a day, 5 days a week. In the process I got many numbers and leads, and had 1-3 dates a week most weeks of the year. Sometimes I had instant dates that turned into sex quickly, too.
3. Date and fuck 8+ women only, met through cold approach and night game.
My standards increased, as did my opportunities with hotter girls. I met and went on dates with women whom are 7.5-9s in appearance. I learned I can attract 9s, and in fact they're often extremely attracted to me.
4. Always use sex talk on dates and meets, and get really good at making girls super horny.
I utilized sex talk all year and got really good at it, and it often made girls insanely horny. However, I did not find a good system for converting this into sex with them, and often failed to pull. Other times I raised their ASD and created State Control.
5. Always pull girls consistently, 75% of all dates and SDMs.
I got much much better at pulling - in fact, women rarely said no to a pull. However, I reached a huge sticking point with closing, and consistently failed at this point. I lost between 15-20 women this way.
6. Frame more sexual encounters, use my knowledge in BDSM and Kink.
I used sex talk all the time, and in fact would like to continue to use it often when I can.
7. Bulletproof confidence and self esteem.
My sense of self grew immensely, and I started to value myself again.
8. Become internally comfortable and sexually comfortable with women - and focus on my own pleasure.
I definitely grew more comfortable in sex, resolved my recurring ED issues and figured out how to fix my desire for sex. I am still struggling with porn use at times.
9. Find and date two girlfriend-quality women.
I had opportunities with super hot girlfriend quality women, but failed to close most times. I was single most of the year; after summer I started to build a rotation again. This was a very difficult year as I did not have a rotation all year until the last two months.
10. Regularly add new girls as FB lovers (and create a good system for this).
I explored the FB frames and relationship style a lot more, and grew to like some aspects of it.
Top Learnings 2019:
1. Girls whom are 9s REALLY like me, I just need to approach them and make things happen. This was a huge lesson - I learned it's easier for me with hot girls, IF I just go for them. I learned I attract exactly the kinds of women I find hot.
2. This was the first year that I really struggled with keeping an active sex life as I was trying to level up - and I learned not to value sex as much as I used to. It's certainly nice to have, but I also don't "need it."
3. Once a girl is at my house, I absolutely need to escalate, and I also need to match her pace and enthusiasm. I learned also that MANY girls were accepting coming home with me and were super horny as well.
4. Once a girl is in my bed, I absolutely need to close no matter what, or keep her there until we have sex. Once an escalation has started, I must close, or else I'll never see her again. If she leaves, she'll backwards rationalize the whole thing.
5. I got exceptionally good at a style of street approaching, which I wish to develop more in 2020. I mastered a system of going from approach to number to text to date easily.
Goals for 2020:
1. 35 new women laid in 2020. Long term goal of 140 women (currently at 94).
2. Find a working dating system that gets 80% of my dates with local women into sex with me on the first or second date, consistently.
3. Find a working Boyfriend Disqualifier which works for all of my dates to pin me as a lover for fast raunchy sex.
4. Get good with dating and fucking Russian women and Blonde women, 8's and 9's.
5. Find a 9.5 quality hot girlfriend whom I also vibe well with, ideally Korean or Japanese.
6. I have completely eliminated my neediness with women.
7. I have mastered sex talk and creating arousal on my dates through vibe and incidental touch.
8. I have perfected my approach style, and consistently approach 9s, get their numbers, and successfully take them to dates 75% of the time.
9. I can consistently fuck girls for 60 minutes or more at a time and blow their mind sexually and spiritually.
10. Learn how to distinguish between when to pull on Date 1 and when to end Date 1 to leave her hanging, so that she'll have sex on Date 2. This move will have profoundly changed my dating life, and I'm now having sex with 80% of women I go on a date with!
11. Get really good at indirect or mostly indirect approaches to get 8’s and 9’s on dates with me.
12. Get one pull in under 5 minutes.
13. Master escalations with women in any situation. In 2019 I learned that escalations are a huge weak area for me, as I lost most girls in this phase. I want to have more aggressive and passionate escalations, and I want 90% of my escalations to end in multi-orgasmic sex.
14. I want to start pulling and fucking women based on compliance and leading, not just attraction and a girl being a "green." I've heard from many advanced guys that simply putting a girl into a position for sex often creates the situation - and this is what I want to get good at, setting this up.
15. Master setting up premise and clear sexual intent on the approach, framing myself as a lover. I struggle with coming off as too strong a provider - although this is what I want long term, it has created many missed opportunities due to ASD.
Other Goals for 2020:
1. I have quit smoking marijuana completely - I never smoke except with a girl.
2. Start one new business line, earn over $25k revenue.
3. Earn multiple six figures.
4. I am in excellent shape, I live an extremely healthy life and go to the gym 3-4 times a week.
5. Kick ass at TKO all year and master my work.
6. Delta Platinum
