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This is definitely my longest and most complicated LR yet, fair warning 
Background
Back in October, I started managing a sporting goods store nearby to my apartment. The job was so beneath me, but it was just five minutes away and fairly easy, and I needed money while not having any good ideas for an actual new career (my previous mortgage career imploded). I for the most part got along with my coworkers and subordinates (with one exception that will be important later). However, it was clear to everyone I did not fit in nor take the job seriously, and while I was a hard worker I frequently annoyed some by constantly goofing around and hitting on customers and driving a car much, much nicer than theirs.
One day, the senior manager tells me a new girl is starting as a cashier soon, and how she is very cute. He says her name is Angelica, which I think is a very beautiful name. I do not express much interest, because I know better than to reveal any intentions I might have to other coworkers. But internally, I am excited.
First Meeting
I come to work one afternoon and there is a pretty girl behind the counter. I say hi to another coworker, and then turn to her and warmly, with just a hint of a smirk, say, āYou must be Angelicaā (I much later find out that she picked up on and was excited by my extra warmth and tonality from the start).
We talk for a minute, then I disengage, both to attend to my duties and also to not come across too strong. But I return twenty minutes later, and we start really hitting it off.
A little bit about her. Angelica is on the surface shy, wears glasses, and dresses a blend of girly and conservative, but is nonetheless very attractive. She is half Latina and half Asian (mixed girls, let alone both Latina AND Asian girls, are such a weakness of mine
). Extremely beautiful face. Loves wearing red, blue, or purple eyeshadow (fucking hawt). 20 years old. Tight body (though I wouldnāt know just how tight until laterā¦ 
). Petite at 5ā2ā. B-cup tits. Perky ass. Has three nose piercings (which I usually donāt like, but hers actually look good).
Initial Rapport
I steadily find out much about her, including the fact that she has a boyfriend of two years who she lives with (rent-free I might add). I am disappointed by this. I already have to be careful with this girl with me being her manager, and her level of investment in her relationship means I need to tread even more carefullyā¦ Nonetheless, deep down I can tell she is very intrigued by me, and most men do tend to get a little boring to their women two years into a relationshipā¦
Flirting
Over the next few shifts we share, I keep finding excuses to interact with her. I spend a lot of time in the cash pit with her, and without being too predictable or obvious about it, often come help her whenever she is working on a project in another part of the store. I oscillate between being very warm and friendly and conversational, and finding excuses to tease her and feign disinterest in her (only to then make it up to her with warmth and friendliness). A DEADLY combo if there ever was one! The more I do it, the more comfortable she gets with me, and she eventually starts teasing me back.
Things keep ramping up. One second we are shoulder-to-shoulder and hip-to-hip with her showing me an art book she brought in and me approving of her work. Another second we are throwing things at each other and giggling. One second we are doing Peter and Lois impressions from Family Guy, and another second we are stealthily/not-so-stealthily kicking and jabbing at each other under the counter while checking out customers. I also start finding ways to weave sexual stuff into our conversations, such as alluding to former escapades of mine (to help her view of me as a very desirable, preselected man), or to chase frame things she said (which usually is less effective on girls her age but works great with her). She always gets flustered when I bring this stuff up, and I can tell I am making her jealous. To anyone who has seen the sitcom Cheers, we definitely have a Sam and Diane thing going on.
Texting/Snapping
I decide to escalate whatever is going on between us by having her give me her number. I tell her it is so I can contact her for work stuff as needed. But as I hoped, when I text her my number later, she responds with a very friendly text, which I seize on. We do a bunch of mostly friendly texting over the next couple days, and she asks if I have a snapchat which I also seize on (Snapchat is a great medium for getting flirty/sexual, and girls know this).
At one point Angelica mentions to me that she is excited we are closing together. From how she said it, I have a strong suspicion she is giving me an escalation window. However, it is a small store and another coworker will also be there. I also have only been indirectly sexual with her up until this point. Lastly, I had also recently learned of YET ANOTHER BIG OBSTACLE in the way of any potential we might have. It turns out Angelica and her boyfriend have this retarded app called Life360, which monitors and displays your location at all times, and alerts the other party if you turn it off. So going somewhere after work or even just hanging in my car are both out, because her boyfriend knows when she is off and will definitely be suspicious if she goes anywhere or hangs out in the parking lot too long. I grimly end up having to say goodnight to her without making a move, and can tell she is disappointed.
Making a Move
Still determined, I decide to progress things further. After a very charged joint shift of ours, I start getting very flirty over snap, and she reciprocates. Then she suggests we play a game called 21 Questions (a game where we alternate asking personal questions, and questions being romantic/sexual is implied). Her first question is what do I think of her? āPretty into you, nglā is my response, and finally, after the HEAPS of indirect flirting I have been throwing at her the past week and a half, I am now openly showing my intent and hitting on her. Despite being her superior (and all the risk for me that entails). Despite very clearly understanding how invested in her relationship she is. This is the moment of truth: will she reciprocate, or has all the flirting we have been doing been just for fun in her mind, and I am now taking things too far?
She is floored. Despite how obvious my attraction to her has been in my mind, she is both shocked and excited. She probes for more information, and I slowly and deliberately start expressing more and more of my desire for her, while extracting her own desire with my own questions. Her excitement turns to elation when I start sexting with her and calling her various names of affection like sweetheart and darling and bbg (babygirl).
Emotional Affair
We text and sext the rest of the night (with her right next to her clueless, unsuspecting boyfriend for much of it to boot!). The next day we are back at it. And the next couple shifts we have together are steamy. We are constantly touching each other and beaming at each other and flirting (though fairly under the radar).
This is all wonderful, but I very much know I still have work to do. We need some real, in-person alone time. And me being me, I know plenty of ways of exactly how to accomplish this, but I also know Angelica will probably resist them out of fear. And to make things more difficult, its not like she doesnāt love her boyfriend (even if she is not in love with him). So her being onboard for actual sex, despite all we have done so far, is not a guarantee, and I need to be cautious about pushing too hard for it and falling into chasing her.
Every Idea We Had:
insane indomitable seducer I am, I exhausted just about every idea there is to get Angelica and I alone together.
Sunk cost fallacy aside, I had come too far to quit now (and she is really fucking cute
)! So I put my pride aside, and agreed to meet up with her the next time she went to the mall.
...
Alright guys, it was well past midnight when I got to this point. I needed some sleep. So stay tuned for part 2!
Background
Back in October, I started managing a sporting goods store nearby to my apartment. The job was so beneath me, but it was just five minutes away and fairly easy, and I needed money while not having any good ideas for an actual new career (my previous mortgage career imploded). I for the most part got along with my coworkers and subordinates (with one exception that will be important later). However, it was clear to everyone I did not fit in nor take the job seriously, and while I was a hard worker I frequently annoyed some by constantly goofing around and hitting on customers and driving a car much, much nicer than theirs.
One day, the senior manager tells me a new girl is starting as a cashier soon, and how she is very cute. He says her name is Angelica, which I think is a very beautiful name. I do not express much interest, because I know better than to reveal any intentions I might have to other coworkers. But internally, I am excited.
First Meeting
I come to work one afternoon and there is a pretty girl behind the counter. I say hi to another coworker, and then turn to her and warmly, with just a hint of a smirk, say, āYou must be Angelicaā (I much later find out that she picked up on and was excited by my extra warmth and tonality from the start).
We talk for a minute, then I disengage, both to attend to my duties and also to not come across too strong. But I return twenty minutes later, and we start really hitting it off.
A little bit about her. Angelica is on the surface shy, wears glasses, and dresses a blend of girly and conservative, but is nonetheless very attractive. She is half Latina and half Asian (mixed girls, let alone both Latina AND Asian girls, are such a weakness of mine
). Extremely beautiful face. Loves wearing red, blue, or purple eyeshadow (fucking hawt). 20 years old. Tight body (though I wouldnāt know just how tight until laterā¦ ). Petite at 5ā2ā. B-cup tits. Perky ass. Has three nose piercings (which I usually donāt like, but hers actually look good).Initial Rapport
I steadily find out much about her, including the fact that she has a boyfriend of two years who she lives with (rent-free I might add). I am disappointed by this. I already have to be careful with this girl with me being her manager, and her level of investment in her relationship means I need to tread even more carefullyā¦ Nonetheless, deep down I can tell she is very intrigued by me, and most men do tend to get a little boring to their women two years into a relationshipā¦
Flirting
Over the next few shifts we share, I keep finding excuses to interact with her. I spend a lot of time in the cash pit with her, and without being too predictable or obvious about it, often come help her whenever she is working on a project in another part of the store. I oscillate between being very warm and friendly and conversational, and finding excuses to tease her and feign disinterest in her (only to then make it up to her with warmth and friendliness). A DEADLY combo if there ever was one! The more I do it, the more comfortable she gets with me, and she eventually starts teasing me back.
Things keep ramping up. One second we are shoulder-to-shoulder and hip-to-hip with her showing me an art book she brought in and me approving of her work. Another second we are throwing things at each other and giggling. One second we are doing Peter and Lois impressions from Family Guy, and another second we are stealthily/not-so-stealthily kicking and jabbing at each other under the counter while checking out customers. I also start finding ways to weave sexual stuff into our conversations, such as alluding to former escapades of mine (to help her view of me as a very desirable, preselected man), or to chase frame things she said (which usually is less effective on girls her age but works great with her). She always gets flustered when I bring this stuff up, and I can tell I am making her jealous. To anyone who has seen the sitcom Cheers, we definitely have a Sam and Diane thing going on.
Texting/Snapping
I decide to escalate whatever is going on between us by having her give me her number. I tell her it is so I can contact her for work stuff as needed. But as I hoped, when I text her my number later, she responds with a very friendly text, which I seize on. We do a bunch of mostly friendly texting over the next couple days, and she asks if I have a snapchat which I also seize on (Snapchat is a great medium for getting flirty/sexual, and girls know this).
At one point Angelica mentions to me that she is excited we are closing together. From how she said it, I have a strong suspicion she is giving me an escalation window. However, it is a small store and another coworker will also be there. I also have only been indirectly sexual with her up until this point. Lastly, I had also recently learned of YET ANOTHER BIG OBSTACLE in the way of any potential we might have. It turns out Angelica and her boyfriend have this retarded app called Life360, which monitors and displays your location at all times, and alerts the other party if you turn it off. So going somewhere after work or even just hanging in my car are both out, because her boyfriend knows when she is off and will definitely be suspicious if she goes anywhere or hangs out in the parking lot too long. I grimly end up having to say goodnight to her without making a move, and can tell she is disappointed.
Making a Move
Still determined, I decide to progress things further. After a very charged joint shift of ours, I start getting very flirty over snap, and she reciprocates. Then she suggests we play a game called 21 Questions (a game where we alternate asking personal questions, and questions being romantic/sexual is implied). Her first question is what do I think of her? āPretty into you, nglā is my response, and finally, after the HEAPS of indirect flirting I have been throwing at her the past week and a half, I am now openly showing my intent and hitting on her. Despite being her superior (and all the risk for me that entails). Despite very clearly understanding how invested in her relationship she is. This is the moment of truth: will she reciprocate, or has all the flirting we have been doing been just for fun in her mind, and I am now taking things too far?
She is floored. Despite how obvious my attraction to her has been in my mind, she is both shocked and excited. She probes for more information, and I slowly and deliberately start expressing more and more of my desire for her, while extracting her own desire with my own questions. Her excitement turns to elation when I start sexting with her and calling her various names of affection like sweetheart and darling and bbg (babygirl).
Emotional Affair
We text and sext the rest of the night (with her right next to her clueless, unsuspecting boyfriend for much of it to boot!). The next day we are back at it. And the next couple shifts we have together are steamy. We are constantly touching each other and beaming at each other and flirting (though fairly under the radar).
This is all wonderful, but I very much know I still have work to do. We need some real, in-person alone time. And me being me, I know plenty of ways of exactly how to accomplish this, but I also know Angelica will probably resist them out of fear. And to make things more difficult, its not like she doesnāt love her boyfriend (even if she is not in love with him). So her being onboard for actual sex, despite all we have done so far, is not a guarantee, and I need to be cautious about pushing too hard for it and falling into chasing her.
Every Idea We Had:
- Hooking up at work (outside of sneaking kisses and touches) is out because we will never be alone that long in the small store together
- Hooking up before or after in our cars is out, both because it is a busy parking lot full of prying eyes, her boyfriend will see if we drive anywhere (including the back of the store), and we wouldnāt have much time since her boyfriend sees her schedule (plus both our cars are small, which would make doing the really fun stuff difficult. I am 6ā2ā and muscular, not ideal for car sex lol)
- I pushed for going to her place, but she was uncomfortable due to nosy neighbors (and probably some degree of loyalty to her boyfriend)
- I speculated on going to her parentsā house and telling them I was a friend, but they live far away and there is the risk they mention me to her boyfriend or judge her if they hear us hooking up
- I tried to get her to just delete the app, citing how actually vile corporations that create apps like this are, how they abuse the info you allow them to see and sell it. I also volunteered that she could tell her boyfriend the app made her anxious. But Angelica didnāt think she could sell it, and thought this would just make her boyfriend suspicious (which is valid)
- Leaving her phone at home wouldnāt work, because being the 20 year old she is, she is always on her phone, and her boyfriend would get suspicious if she didnāt respond that quick due to her past precedent
- Getting a second phone and switching the SIM card (so she could still receive calls) was out of her depth and made her uncomfortable
- Convincing her to break up with her boyfriend is tricky with how invested she is in him, the fact she would have to move back in with her parents (or move in with me, which is out of the question lol), and with how little power I ultimately have over her due to not having slept with her repeatedly yet
- She suggested me meeting up with her while she went about errands, but this was less than optimal to me because it would be hard to find a place to escalate to sex
- Finally, there was my virtually foolproof plan (provided she has the capacity and stomach for it). I found some software to hack Life360. I ran a bunch of tests on it, ensuring there wouldnāt be any mishaps. The software would allow us to seamlessly seize control of her location (without any interruptions that might tip off her boyfriend). All she would have to do is spoof her location when she knows her boyfriend will be busy at work, and then she can come over to my place. The app even has features to simulate moving around! And to top it off, there would be little fear of her boyfriend coming home early and seeing she isnāt actually there, because Life360 is a double edged sword! We can see his live location! But OF COURSE, this plan of mine just overwhelmed her (and probably made it look like I was trying way too hard, even though this level of deviousness both comes very easily to me and is very thrilling for me)
Sunk cost fallacy aside, I had come too far to quit now (and she is really fucking cute
)! So I put my pride aside, and agreed to meet up with her the next time she went to the mall....
Alright guys, it was well past midnight when I got to this point. I needed some sleep. So stay tuned for part 2!
ā. The next day she doesnāt greet me in the morning like she usually does, and I donāt hear from her until the evening. We talk like normal, and she eventually voices concerns about telling me she loves me, but I assure her I liked it, while also alluding to some of my concerns.
), and give her another of my famous big hugs. I am touching her all over and am hard again, and suggest I stay just a little bit longer and we go for Round 3. She laughingly rebuffs this, and rather than risk appearing too needy I relent and leave after kissing her goodbye.
). Stuff like the fact weāve only known each other for less than a month, the fact she has a boyfriend, the fact she lives with him, me not wanting to be the guy who lets feelings get in the way of casual fun provided she should want that, etc. But I was verrry nice about it, and alluded to my feelings increasing were her circumstances to change (which despite being somewhat true, is very much a tactic). Then I told her Iād let her process all I said, and changed the subject, and went back to displaying my value as a confidante and as a roguish lover.
), Iāll start dialing these back too.