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maximus6004

Cro-Magnon Man
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So, I read FSC's post with the boyfriend. I'd like to place the counter to his story. A couple years ago, when i was back in cleveland. I would always hang out with a certain group of people who were lets just say ghetto. It was an exhilirating feeling. However cleveland wasn't the safest cities to be in and you def didnt want to go downtown unless you had a crew. As tourism was low, and it was a lot of the same people all the time as my buddies had known so many people. Certain nights we would walk out of the clubs and saw a dude laying in the center of the street of west 6th in a pool of blood surrounded by an ambulance a crowd and police. ANYWAYS

We were out paryting that night, a big group of me and my buddies who was with his cousins. Puerto Ricans. Two buddies of mine wanted to bar hop and look for girls, all of who were very good with woman, and well me ended up waiting in the hotel lobby with the door man. well we started cruising bars, my one budy headed back to the original group without saying anything while another buddy of mine spotted a half drunken super sexy blonde girl in a tiny hite dress that hugged her curves stumble into the bathroom. He follows her in like do you need some help and all i hear is her saying sure. Well im standing outside the door thinking he is heling her until a group of girls open the door and go omg they are screwing. i was jealous but of course the bouncers kicked us out and we head back to the bar where we originally were with our group.

I decided it was my turn, so i walked up to a table with two girls sitting and approached the one i liked. of course back then my fundamentals were crap but she was still digging me as i rambled on about myself for awhile. This little black dude was getting upset, so i asked her, "is this your boyfriend" she looks annoyed and replies "no". so i did the logical thing stepped infront of him with my back to him. he stormed off i figured he was an orbiter. well again i was a little bit drunk, but coherent. until some dude all tatted up comes over with his crew and pushes me.

Him"what are you doing talking to my girl?!?"
Her"blah blah stop it we were just talking"
Me"oh this is your girl, my bad bro she is beautiful, have a good night"

SLAP, as i turned to walk away he hit me from behind in the side of the face, of course i turned around pissed off.

Me"come here!"

his buddies pushed me back and held him back

Me"yeah you can hide behind your friends now huh?"
Them"listen we are ten deep, you dont want any of this, so get the fuck out of this bar"
Me"no fuck you, i was about to leave and this fucker hit me in the face, tell him to be a man and come over here and apologize (lol dumbass me drunk)
Them"buddy you better leave right fucking now, dont be stupid"

My buddies who were on the basement level of the club were looking for me so they searched all downstairs and asked the two buddies who eventually made their way back to the group where i was and told them i wandered off. So the search party was underway, they walk upstairs, luckily my buddies girlfriend spotted me and said this doesnt look good, well as the short little dude was about to swing on me from the side as im arguing with the group, my best friend came out of nowhere picked him up and threw him on the ground. Well of course the group i was with was bigger then theirs and anyone who has partied with puerta ricans knows how loyal and crazy they are to the point where my budies cousins girlfriends were about to throw down. the bouncers came over to my buddy pulled him back and said listen if this turns into a brawl, we dont have enough staff to seperate this but the cops have already been alerted and are on their way you had better leave. So in a heated argument my adrenaline was rushing and im getting dragged out of the club.

Moral of thsi story is it can go either way, but jealousy can be a bitch, so you could end up with the situation where the guy is cool like in FSC's case, or end up like this. i always seem to attract the violent dudes which might say something about my choice of woman but in the night clubs you cant predict this, being broke i dont end up in the fancy fancy types of bars.

We were at a club in the city i was in now, again with a buddy who is really good with woman, a girl came over flattering us like you guys are handsome, of course im like oh thanks whats your name, until my buddy interrupts and says where is your boyfriend?

Her"oh he is over their ignoring me"
Buddy"get the fuck out of here"

Buddy looks at me and says game recognizes game stay away from girls like that. hopefully this story points out a different side to everything, not to scare anyone lol just be careful!
 

fsc

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Re: FR inspired by FSC

Good thing the bar I was at is a college town bar near a highly academic university where the demographic is pretty much half white, half asian. Probably the worst thing that might have happened to me that night is get sued by the guy's rich dad's powerful lawyer for beating the shit out of the guy. I sized him and his friend up before approaching the blonde because I thought I might have to compete. Boyfriend was skinnier and shorter than me, and his friend was a bit taller but on the chubby side. Both drank while I was sober, I'm on and off the school boxing team, and I had my frat bro and 5 if his coworkers.

Good to see another perspective though. But yeah, definitely need to size up the other guy/boyfriend and adjust aggressiveness accordingly.
 

maximus6004

Cro-Magnon Man
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Re: FR inspired by FSC

See how.the girls work.though FSC. they both only considered their feelings and were fine with the whole situation going.down. in the middle of my interaction I forgot to add that I had called the girl over and said.give me.your.number and looked at the dude while she was putting it.in. he wouldnt come.over, but my buddy interupted and said your the girl that started this? Get the fuck out of here and she walked away.

Its almost like the movie fast and furious tokyo drift, where they do the first car race as a competition over the woman and.you can see how down and turned on she is. Like she wants to be fought over for and be with the more dominant man. Then you look at history, troy. Who was the more powerful man? Does it matter on the womans self esteem whether she needs the strongest to lead her? Or is she in it for the love story and the better looking genes? Maybe there is another factor, its interesting to see. Although college town to ghetto area the same factors pop up. Insecure guy, provider, jealousy, and a woman almost trying.to test her man to see how strong he is. I bet you could have pulled her. I had a situation with my ex who I am no longer with because of her self. She was insecure as hell and yet beautiful. However, she tried this shit too, and went and hung onto another guy while I was doing business all night. I didnt confront her, I didnt nothing I just walked out the bar and went home pf course she didnt realize until closing time but she was mad I left her and I.told her I.dont deal with that bullshit and left. She showed up to my house and well tried to make things up to me.

What do you think?
 
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fsc

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Re: FR inspired by FSC

Yeah, I agree. When she was telling me she wanted to make her bf mad, her eyes were VERY observant despite her level of intoxication. She was definitely trying to see who was more dominant.

I let her slide because the guy seemed like a genuinely chill guy with good game, and I would've felt foolish to try to compete with him. He was real calm and cool with me, rather than being boneheadedly aggressive like a dumb, protective "alpha" chimpanzee. I respected that. Even if he wasn't actually her boyfriend--even if I had actually been out-gamed that night, I have no regrets. Furthermore, I wouldn't have gotten much satisfaction putting in the effort to win over a drunk girl with a mentality like that. Sure, she was hot as fuck, and I wanted to bone the daylights out of her, but I feel like I made the better decision.
 
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