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HOW DID MY 1ST EVER APPROACH GO?!?!
Before I start just take note of 2 things:
a) she's a conservative girl
b) I wrote everything down as accurately as I remember
Here goes.....
I noticed this girl up ahead of me looking back and giving me a smile. It was one of them cheeky, sexy smiles as if she knew something I didn't.
I'm not going to lie I was immediately curious.
She went into the elevator, thankfully we were going to the same floor
She was humming, singing under breath and tapping her feet (maybe to get my attention)
Anyways we leave the elevator and she opens the door for me, I nod my head at her (appreciating the gesture).
Girl: at least say thank you.
I knew it was a test so I deflect it.
Me: what's your name she refuses
She opened the disability assisted door so I said wrong door she smiled.
me: If you give me your name maybe I'll then apologize
she still refuses
me: Are you playing hard to get?
She: I'm hard to get
Realising that was a mistake I moved the convo on
me: what course are you doing in uni?
she: nursing.
I should've made her elaborate on that by saying
It's great that there are people out their who love to care for others....I like that.
maybe I should've asked was nursing your childhood dream? etc
Instead I ask what year you in?
she says she's older than me
so I say how so?
she says she's more mature.
She mentions how she's going to be meeting her bro soon (I recall her speaking to someone on the phone and telling them to meet up)
In this moment I felt completely confused, I understand that girls give out tests but I felt too many tests. Also I felt she wasn't being playful about them it was more direct as if she was saying that's how I feel....deal with it.
At this point I stopped talking and was a few strides ahead of her.
she says you're one step ahead then diverts into her route
I thought give it one more chance I said before you go what's your number?
She says I'm not that type of girl....I don't have Facebook,Twitter.....I hope you wasn't offended by what I said earlier
me: No offense taken
girl: I'll see you around
me: probably not (I said this as it's unlikely to see a girl again if the interaction goes wrong)
Conclusion:
Positives:
1) Persistence
2) tried to make good convo
Negatives:
1) Didn't react appropriately to Tests (Should've stayed calm and be more witty)
2) Too many trivial questions meaning I should've connected more ( Deep dive more effectively)
3) No process ( More investment/compliance)
Questions for you guys:
1) why was she acting cold?
2) What could I have improved (was my assessments correct?)
3) Did the fact that she is a conservative girl affect our interaction?
4) If I do see her again, how should I act?
Before I start just take note of 2 things:
a) she's a conservative girl
b) I wrote everything down as accurately as I remember
Here goes.....
I noticed this girl up ahead of me looking back and giving me a smile. It was one of them cheeky, sexy smiles as if she knew something I didn't.
I'm not going to lie I was immediately curious.
She went into the elevator, thankfully we were going to the same floor
She was humming, singing under breath and tapping her feet (maybe to get my attention)
Anyways we leave the elevator and she opens the door for me, I nod my head at her (appreciating the gesture).
Girl: at least say thank you.
I knew it was a test so I deflect it.
Me: what's your name she refuses
She opened the disability assisted door so I said wrong door she smiled.
me: If you give me your name maybe I'll then apologize
she still refuses
me: Are you playing hard to get?
She: I'm hard to get
Realising that was a mistake I moved the convo on
me: what course are you doing in uni?
she: nursing.
I should've made her elaborate on that by saying
It's great that there are people out their who love to care for others....I like that.
maybe I should've asked was nursing your childhood dream? etc
Instead I ask what year you in?
she says she's older than me
so I say how so?
she says she's more mature.
She mentions how she's going to be meeting her bro soon (I recall her speaking to someone on the phone and telling them to meet up)
In this moment I felt completely confused, I understand that girls give out tests but I felt too many tests. Also I felt she wasn't being playful about them it was more direct as if she was saying that's how I feel....deal with it.
At this point I stopped talking and was a few strides ahead of her.
she says you're one step ahead then diverts into her route
I thought give it one more chance I said before you go what's your number?
She says I'm not that type of girl....I don't have Facebook,Twitter.....I hope you wasn't offended by what I said earlier
me: No offense taken
girl: I'll see you around
me: probably not (I said this as it's unlikely to see a girl again if the interaction goes wrong)
Conclusion:
Positives:
1) Persistence
2) tried to make good convo
Negatives:
1) Didn't react appropriately to Tests (Should've stayed calm and be more witty)
2) Too many trivial questions meaning I should've connected more ( Deep dive more effectively)
3) No process ( More investment/compliance)
Questions for you guys:
1) why was she acting cold?
2) What could I have improved (was my assessments correct?)
3) Did the fact that she is a conservative girl affect our interaction?
4) If I do see her again, how should I act?
