FR Interesting Move (Birthday Stand Up)

[Kenchin]

Back story: I work at a popular local college bar so it works out great to meet a lot of women. I wanted to get input on this current progress.

Summary:
So I meet this girl at the bar through friends, we chat and she asks me for my number says we should hangout. Text her when shes free few days later. Shes busy Mon-Thurs. She invites me to pregame for tailgate Saturday morning. Happens to be my birthday Thursday night so I invite her out to a party bus. I'm thinking cool I have few to chances to hangout with this chick. Come Thursday she text she cant make the bus, thinking what ever shit happens. Saturday I oversleep shot her a text after the game if she wants to go to a few parties that night.

Me: Woke up too late to tailgate, but I know a few parties tonight.
Her: You are just Mr popular you know all the parties
Me: Your just finding out
Her: Haha well we haven't hung out that often. Just when you've been working but that doesn't really count!
Me: Exactly why we should go hangout tonight and go to some parties. Pregame at my place.

She asks where I live, I tell her. She never shows up so I go out with my boys to the party. Text her the address if she wants to meet up. She replies below.

Her: Thanks! I feel bad though am still quite hungover from this morning...I think I'm about to pass out. We need to hangout son though! I feel bad I missed your birthday!

Haven't replied. Shes busy during the week class/work.

Any advice on this situation/ analyze what would be my best chess move from here

(examples: should I invite her over for a movie, take her on a lunch date, make dinner at my place, etc)

 

[RDawg]

Re: Interesting Move (Birthday Stand Up)

- Kenchin

Back story: I work at a popular local college bar so it works out great to meet a lot of women. I wanted to get input on this current progress.

Summary:
So I meet this girl at the bar through friends, we chat and she asks me for my number says we should hangout. Text her when shes free few days later. Shes busy Mon-Thurs. She invites me to pregame for tailgate Saturday morning. Happens to be my birthday Thursday night so I invite her out to a party bus. I'm thinking cool I have few to chances to hangout with this chick. Come Thursday she text she cant make the bus, thinking what ever shit happens. Saturday I oversleep shot her a text after the game if she wants to go to a few parties that night.

Me: Woke up too late to tailgate, but I know a few parties tonight.
Her: You are just Mr popular you know all the parties
Me: Your just finding out
Her: Haha well we haven't hung out that often. Just when you've been working but that doesn't really count!
Me: Exactly why we should go hangout tonight and go to some parties. Pregame at my place.

She asks where I live, I tell her. She never shows up so I go out with my boys to the party. Text her the address if she wants to meet up. She replies below.

Her: Thanks! I feel bad though am still quite hungover from this morning...I think I'm about to pass out. We need to hangout son though! I feel bad I missed your birthday!

Haven't replied. Shes busy during the week class/work.

Any advice on this situation/ analyze what would be my best chess move from here

(examples: should I invite her over for a movie, take her on a lunch date, make dinner at my place, etc)

This girl is definitely interested and curious about you, especially since she "asked" for your number. In my opinion, there would be 2 ways I would approach this if I were in your situation. Firstly, I think she sees you as a guy that is pretty popular and tied into the "party" atmosphere. So a party type of date might be best, since she likes to party as well (she invited you to the tailgate party and you met her at a college bar). I think the best move might be to have a pre-game or mini party at your place next weekend and invite her and maybe some of her friends over. You can then either decide to party at your place or go out to a bar and then back to your place for the after party. Secondly, you could try and invite her on a date but I would keep it simple like coffee or drinks. If you do decide to go with a "coffee" or "drinks", make sure the venue is close to your place and move quick to invite her back if you feel it's right! Anyways, hope this advice helps brother! All the best

- Rdawg

 

[Kenchin]

Re: Interesting Move (Birthday Stand Up)

Thanks for the input Rdawg!

Awesome advice, I think ill try both out. I'll text her to set up simple date like drinks and invite her back. Ill let her know when we go out for drinks that she should pregame next weekend at my place and to bring some of her friends over.

 

[Chase]

Kenchin-

Moved this one out of "Relationships" and over to the "Field Reports" Board (and retitled it with the proper prefix) since this is a field report rather than a report on a girl you've slept with and have an ongoing relationship with.

Chase

 

[Kenchin]

Thanks for moving the post Chase.
Chase your input or advice along with anyone else will be appreciated.