FR Interesting Nightgame Sets

[BigS]

Hey guys,

I went to a bar last night in my city to run some night game. I was feeling confident that night and there were a lot of cute girls, so I decided to experiment with some interesting ways of opening sets/assessing compliance.

The first one I recall is opening a couple of HB7's by approaching one of them coldly and directly. She hooks and I start deep diving. While I am doing this her friend is just watching us. I dont ever acknowledge the friend because I want to make it clear that I am interested in sleeping with this one HB7 AKA Brazilian.

Me: spitting game, deep diving, what are you doing at this bar?
Her: I'm here with my friend *points to friend*
Me: *dont turn away from Brazilian* oh cool, continue to deep dive, etc.

Eventually a guy who I dont know opens Brazilian's friend and they seem to be doing fine so I take Brazilian's hand and move her to a bar away from her friend. She complies and I move my hand to her lower back. While alone we have good kino and play games such as staring contests and holding hands. She likes this and I see a window to kiss, but she rejects me! I really wasn't expecting this and had a moment of visible surprise... However, I tell her that I've just never been rejected before, lol. She laughs. Basically, I try a couple more times to kiss her but she's not having it for some reason. Not sure why... (any tips?)

My main question is regarding acknowledging her friend. When you open a group of girls but are specifically interested in one, when do you acknowledge their friends? My understanding is that you only acknowledge them if you MUST. I did not want to comply to looking at Brazilian's friend when she pointed at her, because I wanted to make sure she understood that I was the dominant one leading this interaction. Anyways, I think this was a good interaction and a good opportunity for me to practice chase framing and kino.

My next set involved 3 HB7's that I saw at the bar who had just come in to order drinks. I was at a standing table with two other guys that I had just met, lol. They were not really attractive guys and didn't give me the impression that they had any game. So, I showed off a little and told them I could get the 3 girls to come over here. They dared me, lol.

Me: *walk over to 3 girls* Hi! When you guys get your drinks, come to that table. *point to table with 2 other guys*
One girl: okay

I then leave and go back to the table to start talking with the guys. I wanted to experiment with opening with a command in order to rapidly assess/get compliance. Once the girls get their drinks I see them eyeing our table out of my periphery. Unfortunately, one of the guys at my table is on his phone, but I am trying to laugh and joke with the other guy in order to keep our value high. However, the girls pass by our table and dont stop to talk to us. I pretend to not acknowledge them as they walk by and continue talking to the guys.

Any ideas why they did not stop at our table? I think it had something to do with the value of our group. We were not having a particularly good time, the guys were not especially attractive, and we didn't have bottles of alcohol or anything. Any ideas on how to tweak this approach technique? I think it is a very dominant move and I would like it to work in the future!

In general, I am getting more confident with girls and have relatively zero approach anxiety, especially after a few beers, lol, so I am experimenting with giving girls commands to assess compliance. Any fun techniques that you guys know of for this?

Thanks for any input!

BigS

 

[BigS]

Hey guys,

After doing some reading on my mistakes, I came across a GC article on how to deal with the friends of a girl you're interested in. This is in regard to this question I had:

My main question is regarding acknowledging her friend. When you open a group of girls but are specifically interested in one, when do you acknowledge their friends? My understanding is that you only acknowledge them if you MUST. I did not want to comply to looking at Brazilian's friend when she pointed at her, because I wanted to make sure she understood that I was the dominant one leading this interaction.

In retrospect, it is a more natural and sociable thing to acknowledge the friend when my girl points her out to me. This helps gain the approval of the friend, who can work immensely in my favor when it comes time to pull. I did not even get the other girl's name, so my girl was constantly worrying about her and maybe had some anti-slut defense because her friend didn't know if I was some drunk idiot or not.

In the future (tonight) I will get the names of the other girl(s), give them several seconds of strong eye contact, exchange a few lines of dialogue, and then return to my girl so as to not confuse my target.

I think this is the reason why I didn't pull Brazilian last night, and I am excited to tweak my technique for tonight!

Best,

BigS

 

[Fuck This]

Distracting /Entertaining friends is one benefit of a wingman. But not a requirement. Remember the way you treat people you are not trying to sleep with is a big judging point. i've befriended my targets friends to get a deeper understanding of their friends group dynamic. If you do it right,and the friends are on board they will pimp out their friend to you. If there is dancing, you can dance with the friend and do some intell gathering

 

[BigS]

Thanks! I think this is why she went into auto-rejection and it feels good to have pin-pointed the cause.

I have also found that with dancing, if the target knows you are interested in her and her friend is not getting much attention on the dance floor, you can dance playfully/sexually on her friend to help her friend have fun. This is fun for you and helps with what you are talking about--getting the friend to pimp you out!

This is a great feeling. I have had friends of the girl who I was targeting tell the target girl "he's awesome, you should definitely sleep with him."

BigS