Interesting Saturday nite

[HellAtlantic]

Went out drinking with a friend, his wife, her sister and brother. Lots of drinking involved. When I drink I get touchy feely, hands on shoulder if you're a guy, hand on lower back if you're a girl. Throughout the day I would touch the back of my friend's wife and caress it up and down, it didn't seem out place cuz I would do it to her while we would be talking to someone else. But I did it really slow and often would stop right at the top of her ass cheeks (she was wearing a skirt). I noticed she was enjoying and allowing this extended back caressing. She touched me at times, commenting on how big my arms got since the last time we hung out in February.

They invited me to go swimming in her parents pool about 30 min away. I said "I don't have anything to swim in but I don't care I'll go swimming in my boxer shorts." We get in their car, my friend driving, his bro in law in passenger seat and me in the backseat with my friends wife. Early on in the car ride I said something to her and to accent what I said I placed my hand on her knee. I noted, even in my severe drunken state, that she didn't display any negative reaction to this so I left my hand there on her knee. And then I started touching her leg slowly. Still no objection. I started getting horny at this point. She placed her foot on the arm rest thing that's in between the two front seats. So I went further up her leg to between her inner thighs and started caressing them. The whole time her husband is driving - he was drunk so he had to focus on the road. I commented in a low voice that her legs were so soft as I stroked her inner thighs. She commented how she was happy she shaved her legs today. Other than this we talked completely normal amongst ourselves and with her husband as he drove while I was caressing his wife's inner thighs. My left hand was the one touching her and it was underneath her leg (essentially covered by her leg and dress so even if he turned around as long as I acted cool it was highly unlikely he would've seen where my hand was). I got even more horny at this point and started to caress her with my dominant hand (right hand). This was super risky and a offered no cover, if he turned around it was game over. I only did this about two times. Worked up into a frenzy I went right for her pussy. I touched it over her panties. Still no objection. The only "objection" I got was when I attempted to slip my fingers underneath her panties. She squirmed but it was a "don't do that" kinda way, not squirmed like "keep going". Good thing because this was just too risky. I went back to stroking her thighs. I touched the bottom of her ass cheeks and attempted another underneath panty pussy touch but she displayed a negative reaction so I knew fingering was off limits. Looking back I really wish I would've placed her hand on my dick. Not sure what would've happened. Too risky anyway.

By the time we got to her parents house I was massively drunk. I stripped down to my boxers and swam. She was constantly near me. Throughout the pool part she repeatedly asked if I wanted to sleep over her (and her husband's) house. I knew instinctively what this meant. It meant her sneaking out of her bed and us banging. Being too far drunk I decided it was best I pass. This is my friend's wife after all and to touch her legs in a car is one thing but to bang his wife in his house while he slept is something completely different. I politely declined and took a cab home. She walked me to the cab and probably expected something to happen (kiss on the lips goodbye? Final groping? Who knows?) but I was too drunk to smoothly attempt something - by too drunk I mean I was completely exhausted and too focused on going home to sleep to be horny at this point.

So technically not much happened, it was just an interesting nite.

 

[Fuck This]

So basically you have just destroyed your relationship with your friend...

He just doesn't know it yet.

From now on every time he says something, you are going to be wondering "Does he know?" "Did she tell him?" "does he know but he's not telling me?" "Is she going to tell him?" "Is she worth losing this friend over?" "What is he GOING to do when he finds out?"

You are going to have to make a decision on how you are going to deal with the repercussions.

This also is a perfect example of why any seductive attempt has to be made with commitment to owning the situation in the case that it is discovered, or commented upon even in a mutually available situation.

If you can't say to your social circle, "Hell yeah, I thought she was attractive and I'd sleep with her given the chance" you will be frustrated with the wishy washy nature of half assing a seduction.

Yeah I've been there buddy...Once I was able to commit to owning the seduction it was a hell of a lot more rewarding even if the advance was rebuffed.

I'm not talking about guilt. Not my judgement.

But now you know you can pull off a slick grope, find a female that you won't have the devil and angel whispering in the back of your mind and enjoy the experience....

 

[HellAtlantic]

From my (biased) perspective the entire interaction in the backseat fell under a "cheap thrill" category. Not everything is a made for TV movie. I get what you're saying though which is why I declined to sleep at their house - it's one thing to touch a guys wife in inappropriate areas and another thing to sleep with her. One clearly goes over the line while the other is probably and likely frowned upon. Pissing in public is frowned upon but sometimes when the opportunity presents itself....

She was a willing recipient of my touching so I didn't feel guilty as I wasn't making her do anything she didn't...invite? I guess that's the best word. I sort've wish I did more actually - boob grab/hand on my dick. In a way that's all "cheap thrill" level stuff. In for a penny in for a pound, as the saying goes.

When we all next hang out she and I will likely share a wink and a nod and devilish smile and that will be the end of that. In the grand scheme of things what I did to her was minor - I didn't even insert my fingers into her. What makes it so "bad" is more that it was while he was driving, right under his nose, and that it went on for like 20-30 minutes. My new outlook on life is if you spend enough time thinking about all the reasons not to do something you'll never wind up doing anything. And life happens - all the learning and adventures - in the doing the things you want to do that you do without thinking yourself out of it.

Such a fun car ride.