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Example 1: I was just at the gym, and spot a smokin' hot brunette (probably a 9.5). I wanted to approach her, but she was focused on her workouts. She had a watch, earphones, etc...you knew she was serious about the gym. I'm the same way, and hate it when guys interrupt my workout when they can see I have a watch to time my sets. I've also talked to a female friend of mine about this and she said she would be annoyed as well. So I told myself that after my workout, I will wait until she was done. I waited for 5 minutes and then left because my time was too precious.
Example 2: You see a girl who is talking on the cellphone. You wait nearby, and 5 minutes pass and she's still being a chatty Kathy. So you leave because your time is too precious.
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Back in the days when indirect game was all the rage, the consensus was that if you're alpha, you don't give a fuck and just approach women whenever and where ever. Now that I've got some sense knocked into me, I can see how it's not an issue of being "alpha." It's about having the social sense/calibration/skills/whatever to consider how she would feel. That ability alone, speaks much more positively about you than being a socially blind robot.
Rant aside, I believe the Juggler Method advocates waiting until she is free to talk before you go in. What do you think?
Example 2: You see a girl who is talking on the cellphone. You wait nearby, and 5 minutes pass and she's still being a chatty Kathy. So you leave because your time is too precious.
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Back in the days when indirect game was all the rage, the consensus was that if you're alpha, you don't give a fuck and just approach women whenever and where ever. Now that I've got some sense knocked into me, I can see how it's not an issue of being "alpha." It's about having the social sense/calibration/skills/whatever to consider how she would feel. That ability alone, speaks much more positively about you than being a socially blind robot.
Rant aside, I believe the Juggler Method advocates waiting until she is free to talk before you go in. What do you think?
