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Hey everyone!
Since I just freshly registered to the forum I quickly introduce myself - I'm a German student who's about to turn 22 this month. I lost my virginity pretty late around 2 years ago with 19 and since then managed to bed 7 girls + a few more encounters which were close to that. I had one "girlfriend" (one girl I dated but didn't have sex for 6 months before we broke up and had sex only a couple of months after the break-up) and two casual relationships of which one is still sporadically ongoing and the other one ended because the girl moved away.
So I have a very liberal, pretty hot friend of mine which I met through my students association. She's living in a city just 30 minutes from my one and we more or less frequently go to party together there always with other people. (This city is much better to go out since in my city the gender ratio is awfully at a disadvantage for guys.) At the last three times I was there we ended up making out at the end of each night, but didn't do anything more.
So the last weekend we both attended a networking event of our association in another city which lasted for four days and included a party every night. We met at the first party and were kissing like 15 minutes later in the smoking area. We then had a conversation like we are always making out with each other when we are actually looking to meet new people. It was around 1 am and I told her "okay let's see what we find tonight and we only continue this if we don't find sth else until 4 am" on which she agreed on. So I went back to the party and was dancing with another pretty girl from the event which I also moved and isolated but messed it up a little bit and didn't manage to do sth with her.
Towards the end of the night my friend was still there and we went back together to the location we were all sleeping at. Everyone was sleeping in sleeping bags and on air mattreses and I was luckily sharing a room with her in that building. So I told her "Well it's after 4 am" and we started making out and I escalated pretty nice with zero resistance. After a bit of foreplay I tried to seal the deal, but unfortunately the night included a bit too much alcohol and I couldn't maintain a succesfull erection for intercourse. She gave me a blowjob but I was definitely too drunk and we just went to cuddle a bit and sleep.
The next day was full of meetings and discussions and she was acting nice towards me. In the evening we were at different locations at first and I also wanted to go for other girls at the event (especially the one I danced with at the first night) so I didn't make a move with her at the second night. On the last night I planned to go for her again, but she met another guy (those networking events are hooking up paradises). After she kissed him she came asking to me "Is it okay if I make out with him, because I feel a little bit cheap" and I replied "Yes of course, as long as you are not having sex with him while I'm trying to sleep in our room" and she happily replied "Oh Damien you are so cool!" and went back to the guy. I went back to the party and tried to get the same girl I already tried the first and second night (I know chasing is not good, but she was really hot), but didn't really have any success that night.
When I was about to sleep my friend came back to the room and we talked a bit. She told me that she just had sex in the shower with the guy she met and I said it's completely fine from my POV and that I like that we're being open to each other. I nevertheless tried to escalate a bit and kissed her but she said she would definitely feel too cheap to do it another time at that night and we went to sleep. The next morning I suggested her that we should meet some time also outside parties which she agreed on but looked a bit sceptical.
So I'm looking for tips with her and liberal girls in general and how to interpret the event. Shall I consider the night we tried to have sex a failed escalation? Everything went super smooth but the alcohol killed it. Should I have gone for her again on the second or third night more assertively? I kind of avoided that because I didn't want to come across as needy, but I'm afraid I was not persistent enough with her. I was really flirty througout the event with all the girls and wasn't being needy, but I also told her that I messed it up with the other girl, which was maybe not a smart move.
What do you guys think would be the the best idea to meet up with her again? We only usually met for partying with other peolpe and I feel she would get the wrong idea about me wanting sth more serious with her, if I ask her to go for just a one on one date. I could probably see her in two weeks for a party and then just ask her to let me sleep at her place at that evening.
Sorry for the long post! I also appreciate tips on my writing style!
Since I just freshly registered to the forum I quickly introduce myself - I'm a German student who's about to turn 22 this month. I lost my virginity pretty late around 2 years ago with 19 and since then managed to bed 7 girls + a few more encounters which were close to that. I had one "girlfriend" (one girl I dated but didn't have sex for 6 months before we broke up and had sex only a couple of months after the break-up) and two casual relationships of which one is still sporadically ongoing and the other one ended because the girl moved away.
So I have a very liberal, pretty hot friend of mine which I met through my students association. She's living in a city just 30 minutes from my one and we more or less frequently go to party together there always with other people. (This city is much better to go out since in my city the gender ratio is awfully at a disadvantage for guys.) At the last three times I was there we ended up making out at the end of each night, but didn't do anything more.
So the last weekend we both attended a networking event of our association in another city which lasted for four days and included a party every night. We met at the first party and were kissing like 15 minutes later in the smoking area. We then had a conversation like we are always making out with each other when we are actually looking to meet new people. It was around 1 am and I told her "okay let's see what we find tonight and we only continue this if we don't find sth else until 4 am" on which she agreed on. So I went back to the party and was dancing with another pretty girl from the event which I also moved and isolated but messed it up a little bit and didn't manage to do sth with her.
Towards the end of the night my friend was still there and we went back together to the location we were all sleeping at. Everyone was sleeping in sleeping bags and on air mattreses and I was luckily sharing a room with her in that building. So I told her "Well it's after 4 am" and we started making out and I escalated pretty nice with zero resistance. After a bit of foreplay I tried to seal the deal, but unfortunately the night included a bit too much alcohol and I couldn't maintain a succesfull erection for intercourse. She gave me a blowjob but I was definitely too drunk and we just went to cuddle a bit and sleep.
The next day was full of meetings and discussions and she was acting nice towards me. In the evening we were at different locations at first and I also wanted to go for other girls at the event (especially the one I danced with at the first night) so I didn't make a move with her at the second night. On the last night I planned to go for her again, but she met another guy (those networking events are hooking up paradises). After she kissed him she came asking to me "Is it okay if I make out with him, because I feel a little bit cheap" and I replied "Yes of course, as long as you are not having sex with him while I'm trying to sleep in our room" and she happily replied "Oh Damien you are so cool!" and went back to the guy. I went back to the party and tried to get the same girl I already tried the first and second night (I know chasing is not good, but she was really hot), but didn't really have any success that night.
When I was about to sleep my friend came back to the room and we talked a bit. She told me that she just had sex in the shower with the guy she met and I said it's completely fine from my POV and that I like that we're being open to each other. I nevertheless tried to escalate a bit and kissed her but she said she would definitely feel too cheap to do it another time at that night and we went to sleep. The next morning I suggested her that we should meet some time also outside parties which she agreed on but looked a bit sceptical.
So I'm looking for tips with her and liberal girls in general and how to interpret the event. Shall I consider the night we tried to have sex a failed escalation? Everything went super smooth but the alcohol killed it. Should I have gone for her again on the second or third night more assertively? I kind of avoided that because I didn't want to come across as needy, but I'm afraid I was not persistent enough with her. I was really flirty througout the event with all the girls and wasn't being needy, but I also told her that I messed it up with the other girl, which was maybe not a smart move.
What do you guys think would be the the best idea to meet up with her again? We only usually met for partying with other peolpe and I feel she would get the wrong idea about me wanting sth more serious with her, if I ask her to go for just a one on one date. I could probably see her in two weeks for a party and then just ask her to let me sleep at her place at that evening.
Sorry for the long post! I also appreciate tips on my writing style!
