Intuition and attraction

[Bass]

Does anybody else come across girls that sort of catch their eye, stand out from others and give a weird feeling of powerful attraction that is extremely compelling? I have noticed when i come across a girl that gives me this feeling from the first glance, often just out of my peripheral vision they are always the most receptive to me and i can tell straight away they are really into me and it makes everything flow so naturally etc.

This is mind boggling to me because its extremely consistent. I get the same feeling every time, before i even make eye contact with them, before i say a word, i can just spot them out of my peripheral vision and there is this weird compelling attraction like i just know that girl is totally my type and like i say every time i get that feeling i can tell from the first glace that they like what they see too.

I am hoping other people have experienced this, i would love to know how the hell this even happens, why do i get this feeling how does my body/brain know just from spotting somebody out of my peripheral vison that they are going to be really into me.

 

[Michal]

I got it twice in my life (which is kinda sad) but my guess is that it has something to do with smell. I would say it is more amplified for women but animals smell each other as well and based on that somewhat evaluate their genetic compatibility. When I got that feeling I do not remember smelling anything but our bodies register this, our mind registers this subconsciously as well and it was in the same situations like you described.. the girl can be on your periphery, even far away and something makes you turn that way.

I had this smell amplified immediatelly with one of the girls like this. She was my carbon copy of my ultimate match and when we discussed relationships and friends with one other person with one other person at the table, I asked at one point how long has she been with some guy (a friend of hers that I know as well), she laughed, I said "well you are seeing someone, right" and she nodded and hummed "uh-hum" to agree. And that is when the smell came, like a nectar, very sweet. For some reason I knew she was lying and then, at home, I thought it was because there was this 3rd person with us in the conversation. But about a week later I talked with her 1 on 1 where she mentioned that she has only been on 1 date ever in her life. And I said that it does not matter, it worked, she got her guy, right? She said "right" back to me at which point it really seemed like she is ashamed of that so I took the risk (bad idea most likely) and I said something along the lines that it is not wrong or bad if she has only been on one date or if a girl does not have a boyfriend. That I know girls make fun of each other if they are single for too long or that family always asks how this part of her life goes. And then I mentioned that it was not my intention to put her on the spot like that the last week. And we were quiet for like 6 minutes and then she said she does not have a boyfriend. And added almost immediately after that she is focusing on her studies now (I guess to save face).
Kinda long story just to say why my suspicion was correct. But the smell thing was there and it made me realize it can turn tables immediatelly, without any logic, emotion. You just smell it and know that this is not gonna work out or that she is attracted to you and other things.