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Warhol

Space Monkey
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Hey guys I need a bit of advice on my relationship. I am dating this girl , and I feel that lately she has been making me do a lot for compliance and investment , and I am not able to get as much compliance and investment out of her. She was recovering knee surgery for a few months , so I did everything for her as she lay on the bed like bringing her water and stuff and now she continues that trend. We live in a small dorm together, so the bed isn't far from the sink and stuff and I usually stay at the desk and she askes me to hand her tissues and water and food and it's all within hand distance of me , but I feel like it's some sort of test and I keep failing like what do I say to get her to stop asking so much like I do say NO a lot but for some things she asks it's like no is ridiculous if tissues are close to me and I'm like no get it yourself.

Any advice guys??
Thanks
 
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