Is being older a disadvantage if you just want to fuck tons of hot girls?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I read Chase's post about the myth of girls wanting younger and better looking guys but there is a thought I had with the post itself, especially as I scrolled down. I get my experience from going out to bars that attract the hottest girls in my current city and I notice a sort of a trend. It seems like the guys making out and going out with these hot girls, especially groups of them, are on the younger end (early to mid 20s).

Some people might dismiss bars and nightclubs but these are the places that outside of frat parties and college campuses draw in a large host of hot girls.

It seems to me that while an older guy might have an advantage in maybe getting into a long term relationship with a hot girl, he can't really fuck a shit ton of them like some 20 year old kid can. Even as I scrolled down, I noticed that Chase brought up how there is a clear lack of older guys out there fucking a ton of different women while it is usually younger guys that manage to pull it off.

You can blame it on the novelty but given that so many guys hit their stride in life in their 30s (which is older), I would say there is novelty to be had.

What Chase leaves out is how status is so flexible and how the easy opportunities are not there for older men like they are for younger men.

A younger guy can join a college frat or engage in party culture to fuck tons of different girls, it is so easy for him to do this, he has friends helping him. In Greek Life, some drunk retard has more status than a handsome established older guy.

But an older guy does not get these opportunities and avenues to skyrocket his lay count and just fuck tons upon tons of new women.

Was Chase saying that being older is an advantage if you want to marry and get into a long term relationship but a disadvantage if you want to fuck a lot of new women?

 

[Big Daddy]

Nope, he was saying the older guy has an easier time fucking women IF he's successful.

Young men = girls are attracted to these guys because they good prospects
Older men = girls now know if the guys is or isn't "successful"

You're gonna have the hardest time of your life as an older guy who isn't successful, yet if you are, no younger man is competition for you given equal levels of skill.

What Chase leaves out is how status is so flexible and how the easy opportunities are not there for older men like they are for younger men.

Not sure if it's the same article we have in mind, but the one I remember he lists places for older guys to go to. Plus cold approach can be done until you stop walking.

 

[Seppuku]

Perspective from an older guy here.

Older men have some advantages over younger guys, which make it easier:
* unless they missed a step in life, they are normally more "high value". More achievements in life. Maybe they scored a career, or own a house, or some wealth, or some status in society. They're more "proven model".
* they normally have children. Having children is also part of the "proven model".
* they are much more confident.
* While younger guys are still facing many big life questions (e.g. "what will be my path in life? what career? Will I have children?" etc...), older guys already have answers for many of these. They know their path. They know what to do. They've got a few lessons from life already.

The "proven model" is a big thing. Girls can either go for a younger guy and take a bet that he will become successful, or go for an older one that has already some proven achievements.

They also have disadvantages:
* they are most of the time married. Good luck learning all this stuff with your wife and kids waiting for you at home.
* if they have neglected themselves, they may be in a poor place in terms of fundamentals. Priority was on getting the career handled, then on family, and now they've gone fat, lost muscle, dress unattractive, lost touch with the "getting girls" thing, etc...
* they have less avenues of meeting girls. Frankly when you're older, you won't be able to stay in the club until 4am, and you'll probably don't even enjoy it anymore. You probably don't see yourself street approaching 1000 girls either. You need avenues more congruent to the mature man.
* Poor mindset. That's a big one. They need to believe it is possible! If they got out of touch from girls for too long, their mindset is probably in a bad place.

So... If they haven't managed to strike some position in life, status of some sort, well they won't benefit from the "high value" side of things. It will make it much, much harder then. But normally, if they have put 40 hrs working week for twenty years, they have to be reaching somewhere, so it shouldn't be an issue.

Next challenge is to be "wife free" somehow. That is very likely to happen with the current rates of divorce in the West.

Then they need to sort out their fundamentals. Need to dress up, shed some fat, and get back in touch with their body and masculinity. Reverse twenty years of prioritizing themselves last.

Then they have to sort out their mindset! If they don't believe they can get girls 20 years younger if they work for it, they won't have it! I am happy to report that it is possible to actually *change* your mindset into a more positive one.

Where was I when I started three years ago? I already had a position in life, shed 15 kgs, got divorced and wife free again. The big thing was my mindset! Reading Girls Chase and interacting with guys in this forum helped me a lot. Once my mindset was sorted out, I started scoring high, like 20+ new girls a year for the last two years, age range 22 to 35. Were they all hot girls? No! Because it is also helpful, as explained in another Chase article, to lower the standards and get more girls. But maybe 40% of all this girls I would consider HB8 or higher. I didn't pull anything close to that in my twenties.

So yes, it is possible to score high as an older guy, and probably easier than as a younger man, once you have sorted out the challenges.

There are more challenges down the road. For relationships, they need to remain clear sighted and vigilant. Not all girls will stick around "for the right reasons". It is true in general, but more true if you're older. But if you've been with 50+ girls, by now you have become much better at reading girls motivations. And fortunately, there are also girls with the right motives!

Seppuku