Is cold approach a fundamentally limited method to meet certain women?

[strictlyincreasing]

I want to learn cold approach so that I can get married and become a family man. No secrets about that. But when talking about daygame, somebody mentioned the following (almost) logical conundrum that cold approach brings about. This person told me that, in our society, there are certain women who would not, under any circumstances, accept a courtship from a stranger who they met on a street. Then they said that this is exactly the kind of quality that one would want in a wife. So, how do we get around this with cold approach? The kind of woman you'd want to meet would never want to meet you..

 

[NewBeeWinner]

strictlyincreasing,

It's good you have a goal!

"there are certain women who would not, under any circumstances, accept a courtship from a stranger who they met on the street" might be true if that women is a unicorn. Let's think for a second - every single person a person meets in their life starts off as a stranger.

Now, is it true you will run into women who aren't interested? yep. will you find women who you screen out for qualities you don't want? yep.

But as long as you have you handled (fundamentals, a clear goal for the courtship, an ability to lead, everything that's taught on here) and can confidently approach a women, well, would you be mad if "the woman of your dreams" (that sexy, smart woman you meet one day) talked to you randomly? Of course not.

You decide how you want your life to be. You also decide the characteristics YOU want in a wife. Is she loyal? Is she strong and independent? Does she follow your lead and submit to you? Can you give her great sex and keep the relationship moving forward so she won't look anyone else's way?

You decide for you.

NBW

 

[naturalmikey]

attraction is not a choice. this should be a fundamental part of your knowledge. a woman doesn’t meet a guy and say “if he checks x, y, and z boxes i’m attracted.” being attracted is a physical feeling people get. it doesn’t matter where you meet.

where does your friend suggest meeting marriage material chicks? the local church lol.

 

[Rain]

I thought I read in an article or the comments section, something by Chase about how only a certain percentage of women are open to dating from cold approach, but I don't have that in front of me so I'm not 100% sure.

 

[naturalmikey]

So are you telling me there are women who wouldn't date guys like Bradley Cooper, Chris Hemsworth, and Ryan Reynolds if they approached them on the street.

The goal is to be high value as possible. All women like being approached by guys they see as high value.

 

[Fuck This]

You can cold approach and develop friendships that grow into LTRs. I think if you emphasize creating a friendship in your approaches you will feel less pressure than the sexually frustrated guy trying to get laid TONIGHT! Evenif an approach doesn't result in a "love connection" you should still leave the woman feeling fulfilled that she got to meet you. You never know when the stars line up and it becomes automatic.