My situation is a bit complicated, but i'll try to simplify it as much as i can. I usually ask questions that could be of use to everyone, but if this question doesn't relate to anyone else, then i apologise in advance.
Anyway, there was a gorgeous girl who went to my secondary school (high school for americans reading this). We were in a 2 year relationship, and even I to this day have no idea how it lasted so long. Picture the most nicest/weakest/socially inept 'nice guy', and that's me. She eventually had to move country and told me she didn't feel the same way about me anymore (which i suppose came as no big surprise. I felt as though her feelings had totally dissipated by then).
It's been a year later now and i'll be attending university within a few months. However, when i looked at the course structure to the university i'll be going to, i noticed that the year in industry will be in her city and home country (China). Though that's 3 years away, i've been wondering about approaching her again (i know her address as i used to send letters to her, but we stopped contact because she wanted to move on).
My idea is to approach her in 3 years time once i become the incarnation of Casanova (thanks to Chase's website/ebook of course). But to hide my identity from her (i suppose i could give my Chinese name instead). Once i've slept with her and gotten enough investment from her, i'll reveal who i really am. I feel that if i reveal my identity upon meeting, she'll reject me straight off the bat as she will just remember my past, needy self, and would want to move on from that.
I don't know if this sounds a bit too hollywood. Sometimes i'm too much of an idealist i don't know what i'm thinking! Thank you for reading nonetheless
Humay
Anyway, there was a gorgeous girl who went to my secondary school (high school for americans reading this). We were in a 2 year relationship, and even I to this day have no idea how it lasted so long. Picture the most nicest/weakest/socially inept 'nice guy', and that's me. She eventually had to move country and told me she didn't feel the same way about me anymore (which i suppose came as no big surprise. I felt as though her feelings had totally dissipated by then).
It's been a year later now and i'll be attending university within a few months. However, when i looked at the course structure to the university i'll be going to, i noticed that the year in industry will be in her city and home country (China). Though that's 3 years away, i've been wondering about approaching her again (i know her address as i used to send letters to her, but we stopped contact because she wanted to move on).
My idea is to approach her in 3 years time once i become the incarnation of Casanova (thanks to Chase's website/ebook of course). But to hide my identity from her (i suppose i could give my Chinese name instead). Once i've slept with her and gotten enough investment from her, i'll reveal who i really am. I feel that if i reveal my identity upon meeting, she'll reject me straight off the bat as she will just remember my past, needy self, and would want to move on from that.
I don't know if this sounds a bit too hollywood. Sometimes i'm too much of an idealist i don't know what i'm thinking! Thank you for reading nonetheless
Humay
