Socializing Is it possible to have success in college without a strong social circle?

[Evoke]

I'm wondering what guy's thoughts are on the success you could have with a corona controlled university experiance and also how you would go about building a much better social circle where you always have something to do every night.

I have already read advice on the forums suggesting that cold approach on campus isn't the best way to go as you may encounter reputation problems.

I want to be able to text someone outside my immediate social circle and ask what parties are going on tonight or if they want to hang out etc. I really only hang out with my friends and to be honest they aren't really benefiting my in my journey with women and life in general. So how do I build a "cool" social circle? I know a good amount of people in general I feel where I fail is maintaining relationships, and making them deeper to the point where we are not just acquaintances but will actually invite to plans for a night out. Also how do you make people seek you out and want to hang out with you?

Would love to hear if anyone has any specific action taking ideas to go out and become much more connected in 1st year university.

 

[Skjöldr]

Cold approach pick up teaches you a set of social skills applicable to social circle situations as well. Way i do it in gym is nod at a guy a few times. Then start saying hello. Then i say "Hey, it's funny how you greet eachother all the time, but you don't know their names haha i'm Peter" and then i get into banter>vibing>small talk>deep diving>close basically same as daygaming girls. I have a few guys i haven't "closed" yet that is, asked to go out for drinks with or work out together with and get their contact. Just because i don't really feel the need to. But if you wanna build a social circle i suppose that's how you could do it. The structure for gaming girls is basically same as gaming guys.

 

[Slick]

College is now just social media game. You either have the contacts or you don’t. To answer your questions you need a lot of friends. College chicks bet you based on who you know.