Is it possible to renew expired attraction?

deputydawg

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Hey guys, Im new to Girls Chase but not to picking up women. I am in my 50s and was doing some work for a husband & wife whose daughter visited frequently, she also happens to be a recently retired and hugely popular porn star.



We chatted many times and when I finished the job at her parents she texted me to see if I would do some work for her. I set a date to have drinks and discuss the job. She was stoked!



I believe my first mistake was that we texted too much because she postponed the date due to her toddler having a cold. The following week I texted her some ideas for her job. She texted me back about an hour later...approx 10:30 pm thanking me and saying she can get together this week, next week or whenever. I did not text her back until close to midnight the following day. I said that I hope she is well, glad to hear the little one is feeling better and yeah maybe next week.



From that point things grew distant. We had made plans for her to come down to the beach, I texted the day before to confirm, she never hit me back and I never said anything about it in subsequent texts.



My gut tells me she wanted to fuck, no strings attached. I was too cautious I believe for 2 reasons. The first because I know her mom & dad and didnt want anything coming back to them. The second because even though I knew she was dtf and had a date set, there was some insecurity in the back of my mind that maybe Ive misread this.



Incidentally, in one of her texts right after we made the drinks date, she asked me not to tell her parents that she was having drinks with me. Ostensibly, because they know she is a slut and she is gonna fuck their contractor. Btw, I mean no disrespect to her in calling her a slut...she'd be the first to happily admit that.



My last text to her went unanswered. My thought is the only way I save this is by telling her the truth that I was concerned about her parents. Or just saying, I fucked up...you wanted to party with me with no strings and we ended up texting each other too much which made u uncomfortable...I like a chill vibe with no pressure...we should meet for drinks...or something.


Any help would be greatly appreciated. Incidentally, I am more than 20 years older than her.
 
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Darius

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I've done it before, give it a 2-3 week break where you do other stuff and then re-engage her. I call it a 'vibe reset'.

It's good for when you normally have good game but for whatever reason you messed up with this particular girl, and you know you can turn things around. It kills any bad momentum or negative compliance you might have with her and allows you to start over.

Note though: you seem very new to seduction - don't ever call a woman to apologise and say you fucked up lol. Not one you still want to bed in any case.

And she's a porn star dude, you're punching way above your weight in my opinion. very high chance she'll eat you alive if you ever get with her in any capacity.

I'd give her some time to cool off and then try getting her out again. Just be warned you're playing with fire :)

my 2 cents
 

Alpha13SC

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I've done it before, give it a 2-3 week break where you do other stuff and then re-engage her. I call it a 'vibe reset'.

It's good for when you normally have good game but for whatever reason you messed up with this particular girl, and you know you can turn things around. It kills any bad momentum or negative compliance you might have with her and allows you to start over.

Note though: you seem very new to seduction - don't ever call a woman to apologise and say you fucked up lol. Not one you still want to bed in any case.

And she's a porn star dude, you're punching way above your weight in my opinion. very high chance she'll eat you alive if you ever get with her in any capacity.

I'd give her some time to cool off and then try getting her out again. Just be warned you're playing with fire :)

my 2 cents
Just gave me the solution I've been looking for, for a particular girl. I ll try it.
 
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