Is it really hard to push forward the conversation Or is it just about momentum

[Spyce D]

For me currently , pushing convos after open seems to be a hit or miss . Talking about cold approach , Daygame here .

Sometimes it happens ... Sometimes it dont happen . But it seems like whenever I had great momentum ... It's easier to get a convo after the open .

And other times , I was able to have convos were when I used opinion openers which were linked to me and they really worked .

Tbh , I got no clue and I actually want to get more convos out of number of chicks I open .

I am talking about 5-10 minutes convos , that's what I am able to get on high momentum in Daygame .

It would be nice to hear about your opinions , too .

 

[James D]

If it's hit or miss, then you're doing something wrong.

It should not be.

There are some girls who are socially awkward and can't maintain a conversation but they're not so common.

To push the conversation forward, you ask questions, listen to her and comment on what she said, expanding the conversation further.

(obviously I'm not gonna get into the mechanics of conversation here when the main site is literally the best place on the internet when it comes to conversation)

Pushing the conversation forward boils down to genuine curiosity.

With genuine curiosity, even small talk questions like "How are you today?" or "Where are you from?" land differently than without curiosity.

With genuine curiosity, you will actually listen to what she says and, given that you're genuinely engaged, you will find the right feedback to give her based on what she said

It has to be genuine, remember. It's felt in your energy, not words.

You've approached her because something about her (usually her beauty) intruigued you.

You are intruiged and curious about her.

Feel it and express it.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

If it's hit or miss, then you're doing something wrong.

It should not be.

There are some girls who are socially awkward and can't maintain a conversation but they're not so common.

To push the conversation forward, you ask questions, listen to her and comment on what she said, expanding the conversation further.

(obviously I'm not gonna get into the mechanics of conversation here when the main site is literally the best place on the internet when it comes to conversation)

Pushing the conversation forward boils down to genuine curiosity.

With genuine curiosity, even small talk questions like "How are you today?" or "Where are you from?" land differently than without curiosity.

With genuine curiosity, you will actually listen to what she says and, given that you're genuinely engaged, you will find the right feedback to give her based on what she said

It has to be genuine, remember. It's felt in your energy, not words.

You've approached her because something about her (usually her beauty) intruigued you.

You are intruiged and curious about her.

Feel it and express it.

Just wanted to add, talk yo shit too

don’t be afraid to let your personality show, don’t be too filtered and then there’s nothing for her to connect with

With being curious and actually listening + adding your genuine thoughts/reaction to her ideas = allows her to connect with you, you become a more interesting person