Is it really over if you don't kiss on the first date?

[ulrich]

Are you setting no judgmental secret society frames, this should not happen... how is your behavior post busting a nut? Are you texting properly post sex, " that was hot with 3 fire emojis? Etc.... causation correlation

No judge mental frames - Yes
Post sex - Follow up message the same night or early morning but more on the comfort side… “hey, it was really fun. you are quite interesting ”