Is my approach wrong or am I approaching the wrong girls

[cubi239]

So I've been working on my college game lately and have had mild success. In my first semester so far (I have about 2 weeks left) I've approached around 20 girls, I should have had a higher number but I am still in the midst of overcoming approach anxiety. 8 of them had boyfriends, 2 of them gave me fake numbers, 4 of them gave me their numbers to no reply, 1 of them (after getting their number and taking them out on a date) had their father accuse me of rape, 2 of them I personally stopped texting/talking to, 3 of them became my female friends, and the final one I am currently holding a friends with benefits relationship with.
My question here is why I keep approaching women who are in relationships, and is there any way in lowering this. Secondly, the girls who've rejected me tend to be white girls with blonde hair (6 of them). Is there a certain way to approach white girls as a hispanic male, I do not look hispanic I tend to be told I'm Italian or something else. Lastly, my approach game has ended up becoming very formulaic such as this: "Hey! What do you study? Do you dorm? You're cute/pretty, we should hang out sometime what's your number?" I am not asking these questions all in one shot, but these are the same questions I ask when I cold approach, except in a different order each time. This is for day game, at a party it is much easier and different but I don't really like party girls. Any insightful responses would be greatly appreciated!

 

[Adam101]

What's up cubi? To start off looking at your ratio I wouldn't consider your success "mild." As you said you got 3 female friends, a friend with benefits, and 2 others you made the decision not to pursue. That's actually really damn good out of 20.

Also, whether a girl says she's in a relationship or not is irrelevant. It's an abused defense / shit test that should not be taken at face value. That being said I think you can improve your odds because from what I gather you are rushing to cement a connection without taking the time to develop it in the first place. You may not be asking your questions in one shot but it does sound like they are in close succession. Assuming that I can see how girls may feel like you're interviewing them to see how they match up to your standards VS you actually expressing an interest in them. During these approaches can you say you reach any "emotional highs?" If not that would explain this sticking point since these girls are probably acknowledging your confidence but don't actually feel connected to you in any way. Also, as a rule of thumb don't ever end an interaction with getting a number. This reads as "Objective Complete!" Instead ask for the number in the middle of the conversation and keep it going after the exchange. This way getting the number seems like a natural extension of the connection you just formed. Plus you'll be remembered for providing a good conversation rather than just some guy she gave her number to. Bottom line is it's about establishing that connection and a phone number being a by-product of that interaction rather than the endgame. Also, since you seem locked into a formula try different questions or approach styles cause girls may also be sensing that your approach is canned. But props to improving your college game and keep up the hustle!