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In Chase's post on why girls are dirty sluts, to which I completely agree, I was surprised to learn that women fantasize about being raped. It seems counter-intuitive that if a girl wants to be raped then its not rape because she wants it, but that's beside the point.
I knew that oftentimes what a girl says and what a girl wants are completely different. Sometimes girls deflect my advances, play coy, knowing in the forefront of their mind they want me to keep pursuing. Sometimes she "knows" she doesn't want to have sex, will communicate that to me, but her body and her actions are screaming out to me that she wants me to fuck her. Wet panties also make an easy assumption and a compelling argument in my favor. In practice I generally ignore what women say, and just go for it. If they don't want it, then they can leave. Most of the time it's clear to me when a girl is giving "consent" and when a girl is saying no, but about a third of time it's muddled, probably because she doesn't even really know what she wants. So my standard is if they don't want it they can leave, and put a halt to the entire interaction. If it's been a clear no, or deflection, I'll take a step back and try again a bit later, per Chase's suggestion.
After reading Chase's article, I found a study (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19085605), that said that about 60% of women fantasize about being raped. Outside of that I've read that only about one quarter of rapes are ever reported, and I wonder if most of them are not reported, because a most of them wanted it. One scenario occurred with me, when a girl got completely naked in bed with her wet pussy on top of me grinding on my cock, and she would not let me penetrate her. She eventually got up and left after about two hours, because I was relentless and would not stop trying. I was almost baffled by the situation. I was thinking did this girl want me to rape her? I'm pretty good at picking up on what people want, and it really seemed like she wanted me to rape her. Afterwards, I thought she's really lucky that I'm the guy who doesn't do that. I easily could have pinned her down and fucked her. I have enormous self-control, but it's entirely possible that after an hour of grinding I could have lost it and just done it.
Now after reading all this I am convinced that she wanted me to rape her. She wanted it. Maybe she wanted the seed a man who wouldn't take no for an answer. The seed of a ruthless, dominant, aggressive man. Maybe she wanted her body to make me lose control and take her for the sake of her ego. From experience I know that women love most to be dominated, forced, pinned down, etc. Do they want it without their "permission"?
This next story is kind of fucked up, but I think it shows something interesting. I read a woman's story about her being gang-raped. She said that she had been married and she had never had an orgasm with her husband, but she had an orgasm while she was being gang-raped. I know that for women an orgasm helps her to retain more semen. And when I read this, I thought "well her body must have known a real man was fucking her, and not her pussy husband". Fucked up, I know, but true.
I understand that this is a taboo topic, probably even in this community, and I understand that the mods might feel this crosses the line, but I'd like to get a discussion started on all this.
Women fantasize about being raped, and put themselves in situations where rape is not only a risk, but a good probability. I believe that they desire to be raped. How are men reasonably expected to retain utter and complete self-control in the situation, similar to mine, where a naked woman is grinding on your cock for two hours? I'm sure there are countless other scenarios where a women is practically begging to "raped". I'm curious to know what everyone thinks of this. Should I have "raped" the girl who wanted it?
I knew that oftentimes what a girl says and what a girl wants are completely different. Sometimes girls deflect my advances, play coy, knowing in the forefront of their mind they want me to keep pursuing. Sometimes she "knows" she doesn't want to have sex, will communicate that to me, but her body and her actions are screaming out to me that she wants me to fuck her. Wet panties also make an easy assumption and a compelling argument in my favor. In practice I generally ignore what women say, and just go for it. If they don't want it, then they can leave. Most of the time it's clear to me when a girl is giving "consent" and when a girl is saying no, but about a third of time it's muddled, probably because she doesn't even really know what she wants. So my standard is if they don't want it they can leave, and put a halt to the entire interaction. If it's been a clear no, or deflection, I'll take a step back and try again a bit later, per Chase's suggestion.
After reading Chase's article, I found a study (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19085605), that said that about 60% of women fantasize about being raped. Outside of that I've read that only about one quarter of rapes are ever reported, and I wonder if most of them are not reported, because a most of them wanted it. One scenario occurred with me, when a girl got completely naked in bed with her wet pussy on top of me grinding on my cock, and she would not let me penetrate her. She eventually got up and left after about two hours, because I was relentless and would not stop trying. I was almost baffled by the situation. I was thinking did this girl want me to rape her? I'm pretty good at picking up on what people want, and it really seemed like she wanted me to rape her. Afterwards, I thought she's really lucky that I'm the guy who doesn't do that. I easily could have pinned her down and fucked her. I have enormous self-control, but it's entirely possible that after an hour of grinding I could have lost it and just done it.
Now after reading all this I am convinced that she wanted me to rape her. She wanted it. Maybe she wanted the seed a man who wouldn't take no for an answer. The seed of a ruthless, dominant, aggressive man. Maybe she wanted her body to make me lose control and take her for the sake of her ego. From experience I know that women love most to be dominated, forced, pinned down, etc. Do they want it without their "permission"?
This next story is kind of fucked up, but I think it shows something interesting. I read a woman's story about her being gang-raped. She said that she had been married and she had never had an orgasm with her husband, but she had an orgasm while she was being gang-raped. I know that for women an orgasm helps her to retain more semen. And when I read this, I thought "well her body must have known a real man was fucking her, and not her pussy husband". Fucked up, I know, but true.
I understand that this is a taboo topic, probably even in this community, and I understand that the mods might feel this crosses the line, but I'd like to get a discussion started on all this.
Women fantasize about being raped, and put themselves in situations where rape is not only a risk, but a good probability. I believe that they desire to be raped. How are men reasonably expected to retain utter and complete self-control in the situation, similar to mine, where a naked woman is grinding on your cock for two hours? I'm sure there are countless other scenarios where a women is practically begging to "raped". I'm curious to know what everyone thinks of this. Should I have "raped" the girl who wanted it?
