I've been on two dates with a really cool girl that I met on Tinder (yes, I know). On our last date we really clicked but she was very open about some health problems she is going through. At the end of the night I closed by kissing her. So I was feeling good.
The last few of days she hasn't responded to me. Finally I get a long text from her detailing: how she had a lot going on the last few days; how awesome I am but it's not the best time to get involved with someone and doesn't wanna give the wrong idea; she needs to get back to 100% and fix her problems and focus on her.
A horrible and silly part of me thinks it's bullshit because I've seen her being active on Tinder (so have I) and I get it if she just wants to play the field or isn't attracted anymore--no biggie. But ya know... doubt can always creep in based on my past experiences. You know seeing texts like that you automatic assume she lost interest.
It's a bummer because things felt good. But if it's actually genuine on her part, I understand what she needs.
I'm trying to think of a response now, stating my empathy for her decision and leave my door open and move on.
Thoughts? Thanks.
The last few of days she hasn't responded to me. Finally I get a long text from her detailing: how she had a lot going on the last few days; how awesome I am but it's not the best time to get involved with someone and doesn't wanna give the wrong idea; she needs to get back to 100% and fix her problems and focus on her.
A horrible and silly part of me thinks it's bullshit because I've seen her being active on Tinder (so have I) and I get it if she just wants to play the field or isn't attracted anymore--no biggie. But ya know... doubt can always creep in based on my past experiences. You know seeing texts like that you automatic assume she lost interest.
It's a bummer because things felt good. But if it's actually genuine on her part, I understand what she needs.
I'm trying to think of a response now, stating my empathy for her decision and leave my door open and move on.
Thoughts? Thanks.
