Is she trying to friendzone me?

[Rhaegar]

- approached girl on campus

- hit it off

- got her number

- text her that we should grab a bite to eat

- she replies saying she wants to eat but on campus...sneaky girl, cant hook up with her on campus

My gut tells me she is trying to friendzone me, why else does she want to eat on campus when I didnt suggest that? thoughts?

[Text convo](http://i.imgur.com/cQCSMl3.png)

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

You're the man so you should lead. Change it to another location and nail down the time. If you want to be friend zoned then just comply.

 

[Rhaegar]

You're the man so you should lead. Change it to another location and nail down the time. If you want to be friend zoned then just comply.

I feel you. I'll reply with another location close to my house now.

 

[Skid]

I'd say you're jumping to conclusions too quickly - most girls aren't expecting you to attempt to sleep with her the second time you see her its a good sign she's making suggestions and wanting to see you - that's investment. I don't think its a very healthy mindset to think to yourself "she is trying to friendzone me" friend-zoning is something a man does to himself where you accept the frame of giving a girl all your time and energy for nothing in return. But like bigdaddy said - just change the date time and/or location and lead ; make it somewhere close to where you can seduce her.

 

[Raqimus]

I'd just say something like oh trying to get me back to your dorm eh? I'm not that easy or something like that. She could just be making it easier for you but that all depends on the campus.