Is the fling over?

[Anonymous]

So I met a girl on tinder awhile ago and we lost contact for awhile then she hit me up not to long, we started hanging out some and next thing i know were sleeping together and having a great fling Shes the one who made all the moves and threw out the idea that we have sex. Then one day i go over there and instead of the usual kiss and stuff she just says hi and would kind of pull away when id try to hold her hand or make any physical contact or anything, we've not had sex or anything like that since and I've slyly mentioned a few times id like to do the act again. She kinda just dismissed the question. So what im asking is there anyway i can try an reactivate the fling or should i just start looking for a new girl? if i do start looking for another girl how should i phase her out? weve been seeing each other almost everyday for like 3 weeks now. So id like to do it without seeming like an asshole. Oh and for the record she only lives a few streets down in my neighborhood.

 

[WilliamOk]

It is due to the fact that you handed all your cards over to her the moment you let her take charge of that incident (especially the bedding part).

She has seemingly gone cold on you because she views you as nothing more than a spineless puppet who she can manipulate at anytime she sees convinient.

Think about it, if she called you up right now and said "Hey, im horny. Let's fuck" , you would probably break some world records making your way to her place, no?


The key to getting out of such a situation is to take your cards back. One by one.

How you do this?

-Meet other more interesting women and cut your contact time with her.

A card back.

-Bring out your dominant side. Is she calling you up at random hours saying some bullshit. Handle it like a smooth guy. Tell her that you are busy, and that she should try again later.

Another card back.

Lastly to nail it (though at times it is overkill, and might drive hee away) is to make her see the availability of women in your life.

Many cards taken back.



It essentially wakes her up to the fact that shes been toying with the wrong guy, and would start respecting you again.

*provided you take control of how the relationship goes. You call the shots, plan dates, plan sex logistics etc

Once you regrow your spine of manhood and implement skills taught on the site, you will find her at your front door "ready for the action"

W.Ok