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Is there any way to make a girl stop thinking you're creepy?

Kuro

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This girl was really into me at first, but I messed up somewhere and she lost all attraction towards me. Then I made the mistake of telling her through text that I'm not interested in settling for friendship with her. When she ignored that I basically chased her through text and now she thinks I'm creepy.

Normally I would move on after making such a big mistake, but she's pretty much cemented a place in my social circle. So whether I like it or not, she's around.

NowI do actually have a ton of time to turn things around with her, so is there anything I can do? Even if I can't attract her again, can I at least show her I'm not creepy?
 

Mr.Rob

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My advice is to move on completely and not make a big deal about.

However you could always play around with getting seen by this girl when you have a girl/girls heavily into you and she may think differently.
 

normajean106

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Kuro said:
This girl was really into me at first, but I messed up somewhere and she lost all attraction towards me. Then I made the mistake of telling her through text that I'm not interested in settling for friendship with her. When she ignored that I basically chased her through text and now she thinks I'm creepy.

Normally I would move on after making such a big mistake, but she's pretty much cemented a place in my social circle. So whether I like it or not, she's around.

NowI do actually have a ton of time to turn things around with her, so is there anything I can do? Even if I can't attract her again, can I at least show her I'm not creepy?

Nah, I wouldn't try it. This could come off as "needy" if she sees you are trying (too hard) to show her you're not creepy.

It's just best to move on at this point and shoot for another girl.
 
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