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captaincactus

Space Monkey
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Hi, I am new to this forum and I am looking for help.
I have been in the game for the past 6 months, reading, learning and just going for it when I can.
Last weekend I got back from a festival. I had one of the best weekends of my life. I met a beautiful woman we spent a lot of time together, the connection was something I have not experienced for sometime. I am trying to not get emotionally involved but I can’t help it, for me she has it all and I want our relationship to progress. We have kissed, slept together (no sex), endless keno and danced the night away all weekend.
Towards the end I started being unauthentic, I said a few things that have made me look like a bit of a twat. It was said with scope to increase attraction, look mysterious and rebellious but it was just an enhanced version of the truth. I said I was involved in various illegal activities and made it into something it’s not, I’m a bit of a rebel yes but I’m not not a career criminal that does serious shit. Epic fail.
The last message I received from her was this.


Hey.
That's a lovely message. Tbh, I think I've been the opposite of you. I've been trying not to think about my life at all. Feel like nothing in my life is going well right now. I'm not sure what to say about us. I do like you but tbh some of the stuff you told me makes me think I shouldn't try to get involved.


The connection was out of this world, Neither of us will deny that. I tried to be a bad boy which was unauthentic for me. Is this a shit test? How do I proceed from here, back up and try and explain, own it all, come clean be vulnerable? I feel this interaction is at make or break and I want nothing more than to level this up and feel the way she made me feel again.
Any help would be greatly received, thank you in advance 🙏
 
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Tribal Elder
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Hi, I am new to this forum and I am looking for help.
I have been in the game for the past 6 months, reading, learning and just going for it when I can.
Last weekend I got back from a festival. I had one of the best weekends of my life. I met a beautiful woman we spent a lot of time together, the connection was something I have not experienced for sometime. I am trying to not get emotionally involved but I can’t help it, for me she has it all and I want our relationship to progress. We have kissed, slept together (no sex), endless keno and danced the night away all weekend.
Towards the end I started being unauthentic, I said a few things that have made me look like a bit of a twat. It was said with scope to increase attraction, look mysterious and rebellious but it was just an enhanced version of the truth. I said I was involved in various illegal activities and made it into something it’s not, I’m a bit of a rebel yes but I’m not not a career criminal that does serious shit. Epic fail.
The last message I received from her was this.


Hey.
That's a lovely message. Tbh, I think I've been the opposite of you. I've been trying not to think about my life at all. Feel like nothing in my life is going well right now. I'm not sure what to say about us. I do like you but tbh some of the stuff you told me makes me think I shouldn't try to get involved.


The connection was out of this world, Neither of us will deny that. I tried to be a bad boy which was unauthentic for me. Is this a shit test? How do I proceed from here, back up and try and explain, own it all, come clean be vulnerable? I feel this interaction is at make or break and I want nothing more than to level this up and feel the way she made me feel again.
Any help would be greatly received, thank you in advance 🙏
Tell her that the feeling is mutual you like her too ... But you have to come clean and confessed something to her .. the connection we had was out of this world so high that made me say something not true thinking you will like me more, the criminal stuff was a complete made up story I am actually whatever your profession,work is and but my real profession is (whatever her name is) future lover ... Anyways cactus don't do again made up stories no needef and this is not a shit test, she likes you... Finally don't sleep in a bed with girl without fucking is not a pijama party that was unacceptable.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hi, I am new to this forum and I am looking for help.
I have been in the game for the past 6 months, reading, learning and just going for it when I can.
Last weekend I got back from a festival. I had one of the best weekends of my life. I met a beautiful woman we spent a lot of time together, the connection was something I have not experienced for sometime. I am trying to not get emotionally involved but I can’t help it, for me she has it all and I want our relationship to progress. We have kissed, slept together (no sex), endless keno and danced the night away all weekend.
Towards the end I started being unauthentic, I said a few things that have made me look like a bit of a twat. It was said with scope to increase attraction, look mysterious and rebellious but it was just an enhanced version of the truth. I said I was involved in various illegal activities and made it into something it’s not, I’m a bit of a rebel yes but I’m not not a career criminal that does serious shit. Epic fail.
The last message I received from her was this.


Hey.
That's a lovely message. Tbh, I think I've been the opposite of you. I've been trying not to think about my life at all. Feel like nothing in my life is going well right now. I'm not sure what to say about us. I do like you but tbh some of the stuff you told me makes me think I shouldn't try to get involved.


The connection was out of this world, Neither of us will deny that. I tried to be a bad boy which was unauthentic for me. Is this a shit test? How do I proceed from here, back up and try and explain, own it all, come clean be vulnerable? I feel this interaction is at make or break and I want nothing more than to level this up and feel the way she made me feel again.
Any help would be greatly received, thank you in advance 🙏
Well your in a sticky situation now

Because if you tell her the truth, it’s not gonna look very sexy why you lied to her and you’ll be flip flopping which is a big no no in seduction

But if you want to take things further with her, your gonna have to tell her the truth, because anything is better than her thinking your a hardened criminal

I would just say just tell her the truth, which in all honesty is not very much better than keeping the criminal lie

Or, if you can think of a good reason why you would lie to her besides wanting her pussy, then that will work better as long as it isn’t a harder lie to keep up than the criminal one is

Best of luck, but really try to take it as a learning experience

I’m sorry this had to happen, sounds like you guys really liked each other
 

captaincactus

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Cheers boys! I went with the truth, sent a voice note went in deep with a kinda sales pitch. Thanks for the advice, I’ll update the situation soooon.

Also pyjama party 😂 course I tried she said no 🤷
 

captaincactus

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Well coming clean worked she wants to go for another date and see how it goes. Voice notes seem to be pretty powerful too! Thanks for your input gentlemen
 

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Tribal Elder
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Please do!

Here is one the pyco and in there i mention multiple other links on things when she is doing resistance (this are basic stuff not going into the advance like second gen).... also a massage is good too (all very basic)

 
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