Issues with vibe.

[Byron]

At work I've been focusing on bringing the energy and talking to everybody including my co-workers, etc (I work in a customer service/entertainment job). My co-workers for the last two days have been reasonably cute girls, very socially adept, and yesterday was great: I focused on arrogance, cocky-funny type stuff because I think I need to push jerk phase a little more, and I basically said whatever random shit came to my mind and they all ate it up.

Today I was tired (got like four hours sleep) and things seemed off. At first they were going great, then I don't know if it just got boring, I didn't fractionate enough, or my calibration started slipping cause of exhaustion, or I just came across as a little tryhard. (I suspect one of the latter two) but talkative tired me was just as natural, but didn't seem as engaging to them. My social calibration because of this job is getting a lot better, in a matter of weeks, but it's still far behind my co-workers, so the issue has something to do with that I'm sure.

Also, I've made great strides in making sober me a lot like drunk me, and I'm a lot less inhibited in what I say now! It's actually so sick! For anyone interested, here's the subject I'm referring to: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=13783

Tits and giggles,
Byron

 

[Bboy100]

Lack of sleep can mess with your energy and with your game. Also, know that it naturally fluctuates. Sometimes, a lot. You need to look at overall patterns and not so much individual days. So in other words...look at the past month or so and ask yourself "how has my energy/calibration been and what do I need to change?".

 

[Byron]

@Bboy100
You're right, and today after eleven hours sleep, I did a lot better. Im also just hanging out with very socially calibrated people (nightlife managers, the odd bartender, and my coworkers, also all five plus years older than me) whereas before I was used to small town college kids. So I feel somewhat suffocating or drowning in these social environments but I can also feel my social abilities streeeeeeeetch.

It's what I need. Growth painstakingly forced out of me.

Thanks man!
Byron