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RustinKohle

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A few months ago i posted in the relationship board about my post cheating experience with my now ex. She went through my phone, somehow pulled up deleted snapchat conversations and dumped me. Im fairly certain i could get her back but the damage is permanent. However my question is more or less getting over my guilt. I really didnt want to bang any other girls, i was just reminiscing with a fling, but seeing how much it hurt her really has me down. I feel as if hitting the game scene up would almost reinforce my habits that got me broken up with, i suppose i feel at a game crossroads so to speak because i truly saw a future with this girl. Any advice would be appreciated fellas.
 
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Hector Papi Castillo

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I think you wanted to get caught.

My advice is don't feel bad but I was there once.

At least you got dumped for cheating, not for being a bitch. SHe's gonna go fuck some hobo to feel better about herself and she'll probably think of you when she does.

TextsFromMyEx is riddled with guys desperately clawing for the ex's back after they cheat on the ex. It's not as bad as wanting your ex back after SHE cheats, but it's still bad.

"Hey, I fucked another chick and feel bad about it enough to beg to get back with you. Please take me back."

She respects the cheating and understands it even if it hurts, but if you try to get back with her, she has the power.

Onto the next one.

Hector
 

RustinKohle

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Shes already posted snapchats of a guy she met in the army a little after we started dating sending her edible arrangements about how hes always there for her even miles apart blah blah blah. Thing is, i never physically engaged another woman fespute many opportunities, which is probably why im more miffed than had i actually done it. The main negatives to our relationship were that her family and friends never liked me from the start so it always felt like an uphill battle when we werent together
 
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