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Hello everyone , i started reading girls chase 2 months ago and i would like to tell you how i feel after just 2 months of reading. I am kinda late bloomer being 26 y.o. mainly because i spent my youth with sick mother and trying to provide for my family. Now that i have my own business and a bit more money i want to focus on getting this aspect of my life better.
i was never good with girls , i always had low self esteem and confidence and the prospect of approaching girls scared me a lot mainly because i did not consider myself good looking because i became bald in age 21 even though i am almost 2 meters tall and im not fat nor too slim.
I started working on my fundamentals , mainly body language , posture and smile (which i never used before sadly) and dressing sharp.
So last 2 weekends were amazing!! We were at the club , i was not drunk at all because i was driving that night and i said to myself "be confident , smile and make eye contact" remembering everything i read here. And there were 5 girls at the table beside us who invited me to join them. I started talking to one of them and i wanted to try "Move fast" tactic so i grabbed her hand , took here out and we ended up kissing. I was amazed how easy it was when you do it with confidence.
Next weekend i read even more and 2 of my friends and I went to different club where there was some student party. I placed myself at the bar and made eye contact and smiled to every girl that went past it. Few moments later a gorgeous girl was dancing near me and accidentally (or not) stepped on my foot , i just smiled and i could tell she was interested in me (i would NEVER notice that before i read the post about Signals girls give when they are interested). Sadly she had to leave with her friends before i could make a move ( my bad because i did not approach in first 10 seconds) but then i spent some time talking to cute girl from Poland and dropped the ball with conversation (made it platonic , i asked her about school too much...) But non the less it was nice change from my usual night (drinking till i drop). After that i approached 5 more girls just for the sake of approaching , had short conversation with them and left , that was my goal for the night , just to approach and have a good time. My friends were like WTF is this really YOU !?!
So my conclusion for the story is ... IT WORKS!!! Just by getting my fundamentals better i managed to do more in one night then in my whole life before that. I just need to work on my conversation more , since i drop the ball with it a lot.
Wow... so its not a short story ,its a Wall of Text , but i hope you will find it interesting , please do give me your opinion
Thanks for awesome articles and helpful discussion boards.
i was never good with girls , i always had low self esteem and confidence and the prospect of approaching girls scared me a lot mainly because i did not consider myself good looking because i became bald in age 21 even though i am almost 2 meters tall and im not fat nor too slim.
I started working on my fundamentals , mainly body language , posture and smile (which i never used before sadly) and dressing sharp.
So last 2 weekends were amazing!! We were at the club , i was not drunk at all because i was driving that night and i said to myself "be confident , smile and make eye contact" remembering everything i read here. And there were 5 girls at the table beside us who invited me to join them. I started talking to one of them and i wanted to try "Move fast" tactic so i grabbed her hand , took here out and we ended up kissing. I was amazed how easy it was when you do it with confidence.
Next weekend i read even more and 2 of my friends and I went to different club where there was some student party. I placed myself at the bar and made eye contact and smiled to every girl that went past it. Few moments later a gorgeous girl was dancing near me and accidentally (or not) stepped on my foot , i just smiled and i could tell she was interested in me (i would NEVER notice that before i read the post about Signals girls give when they are interested). Sadly she had to leave with her friends before i could make a move ( my bad because i did not approach in first 10 seconds) but then i spent some time talking to cute girl from Poland and dropped the ball with conversation (made it platonic , i asked her about school too much...) But non the less it was nice change from my usual night (drinking till i drop). After that i approached 5 more girls just for the sake of approaching , had short conversation with them and left , that was my goal for the night , just to approach and have a good time. My friends were like WTF is this really YOU !?!
So my conclusion for the story is ... IT WORKS!!! Just by getting my fundamentals better i managed to do more in one night then in my whole life before that. I just need to work on my conversation more , since i drop the ball with it a lot.
Wow... so its not a short story ,its a Wall of Text , but i hope you will find it interesting , please do give me your opinion
Thanks for awesome articles and helpful discussion boards.
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