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Hey All,
So this starts out with my friend. My friend seems interested in meeting a girl, and I encourage him to try. He goes up to a girl and tells her that he wants to buy her a drink, but she says that she has a boyfriend. I later go to head to the bathroom. I run into the same girl and I start talking with her. Don't remember what I said, probably asking how her night is going, or some situational opener similar. We get to talking, and we talk about so much stuff. First girl I've connected with in a while. It was awesome. Sexual flirtation was there as well. I make a joke about how I don't think about sex at all, she's talking about how Italy is becoming all about sex, and that romance is basically gone (she's Italian but has been living in London). I try to get her to talk about her wild side, and she also mentions how many partners she's had in her life (she says 6, so probably more). Side note: I love Italian girls. She introduces me to her best friend, who I thought was her boyfriend, since my friend got rejected by her. But he's actually gay. She uses him as protection against unwanted men. What a smart concept. She likes me though, and guesses that I'm 27 (LOL I'm 21), and she is super surprised. I can tell that she was attracted to me though, and I think I did fairly well, considering she was with her gay friend. The gay friend was actually rooting for me though, which was flattering. Keep talking for like a solid 45 minutes. It was great. Eventually we decide to head out. She says she wants to see a site nearby, and asks me along. I need to use the bathroom so I say that I'll do that first. When I get back, tragically, they're gone. The way I see it there are three things that could have happened.
1. Both of them went into the same bathroom at the same time as me, and I didn't realize. Should have asked the bathroom attendant, but I forgot. Lesson learned.
2. They both talked and the girl realized she didn't like me as much as she thought she did, and realized that it was the perfect chance to get out of there.
3. Something else.
Don't know what I should have done, but I have nearly no regrets from my night game today. Day game is just a matter of volume, but the decisiveness is happening.
Would love some feedback on what may have went wrong. If any questions on certain parts of the interaction, let me know and I'll try to clear up the issue.
Thanks,
Kvothe
So this starts out with my friend. My friend seems interested in meeting a girl, and I encourage him to try. He goes up to a girl and tells her that he wants to buy her a drink, but she says that she has a boyfriend. I later go to head to the bathroom. I run into the same girl and I start talking with her. Don't remember what I said, probably asking how her night is going, or some situational opener similar. We get to talking, and we talk about so much stuff. First girl I've connected with in a while. It was awesome. Sexual flirtation was there as well. I make a joke about how I don't think about sex at all, she's talking about how Italy is becoming all about sex, and that romance is basically gone (she's Italian but has been living in London). I try to get her to talk about her wild side, and she also mentions how many partners she's had in her life (she says 6, so probably more). Side note: I love Italian girls. She introduces me to her best friend, who I thought was her boyfriend, since my friend got rejected by her. But he's actually gay. She uses him as protection against unwanted men. What a smart concept. She likes me though, and guesses that I'm 27 (LOL I'm 21), and she is super surprised. I can tell that she was attracted to me though, and I think I did fairly well, considering she was with her gay friend. The gay friend was actually rooting for me though, which was flattering. Keep talking for like a solid 45 minutes. It was great. Eventually we decide to head out. She says she wants to see a site nearby, and asks me along. I need to use the bathroom so I say that I'll do that first. When I get back, tragically, they're gone. The way I see it there are three things that could have happened.
1. Both of them went into the same bathroom at the same time as me, and I didn't realize. Should have asked the bathroom attendant, but I forgot. Lesson learned.
2. They both talked and the girl realized she didn't like me as much as she thought she did, and realized that it was the perfect chance to get out of there.
3. Something else.
Don't know what I should have done, but I have nearly no regrets from my night game today. Day game is just a matter of volume, but the decisiveness is happening.
Would love some feedback on what may have went wrong. If any questions on certain parts of the interaction, let me know and I'll try to clear up the issue.
Thanks,
Kvothe
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