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Do read Chase artilce "It's all just a Game".
Anyway, i met a cool social circle, I was terribly excited to meet new friends. For me, i'm always that kind of guy, although it has lessen abit over the years. But i do have this euphoria kind of thing. I think there are ways to be sexy and those kind of "euphoria" excitement to work well, but I haven't found the balance between being sexy and too much fun. It will be cool to find that balance, because the guys i know who date sexy high caliber girls, tend to belong in those category, (at least this is what i collected in a small raw data).
Let's not get sidetracked.
Found a few cute girls, Gotten their numbers, but i just can't get them out. and for me, because it is a social circle and not an cold approach, there is no investment here, i would probably did it, but i didn't. And now i have trouble getting this girls out although i never talk so much in the social circle. and my tendency to want to just text to them and give them ultimatum just run through my mind. There's a couple of reasons here,
1) I prefer to not waste time anymore. i want things sometimes to be fast.
2) As much as i gotten the process, Sometimes i dun trust it. (It's a "stupid" thing, Dun ask.)
3) Girls playing hard to get and she's not really something i want
and if all this three combined, you have the tendency to complicate yourself. I don't know why. and then i realize, i was so driven to see the end result that i forget it's all just a game. No matter what, it's up to her, really. I mean, given an example, IF you had a great girlfriend, and you learn Girlschase, and yes, the girl might not cheat on you, but she's gonna die anyway, and if you are religious somewhat, God or whoever that's above will take her, instead of another guy. With this, I find myself slowly detaching from all this things, and there's a whole lot of different reasons, from environment, to negativity, to failures, to the past, to always failing when i was young.
It does affect you in one way but it's just a Game, i shall remind myself, Unless i wanted to be the Youtube Guy who comments on entertainment show like WWE that says the "heel" guy should go to hell. i don't want to be that guy.
Zac
Anyway, i met a cool social circle, I was terribly excited to meet new friends. For me, i'm always that kind of guy, although it has lessen abit over the years. But i do have this euphoria kind of thing. I think there are ways to be sexy and those kind of "euphoria" excitement to work well, but I haven't found the balance between being sexy and too much fun. It will be cool to find that balance, because the guys i know who date sexy high caliber girls, tend to belong in those category, (at least this is what i collected in a small raw data).
Let's not get sidetracked.
Found a few cute girls, Gotten their numbers, but i just can't get them out. and for me, because it is a social circle and not an cold approach, there is no investment here, i would probably did it, but i didn't. And now i have trouble getting this girls out although i never talk so much in the social circle. and my tendency to want to just text to them and give them ultimatum just run through my mind. There's a couple of reasons here,
1) I prefer to not waste time anymore. i want things sometimes to be fast.
2) As much as i gotten the process, Sometimes i dun trust it. (It's a "stupid" thing, Dun ask.)
3) Girls playing hard to get and she's not really something i want
and if all this three combined, you have the tendency to complicate yourself. I don't know why. and then i realize, i was so driven to see the end result that i forget it's all just a game. No matter what, it's up to her, really. I mean, given an example, IF you had a great girlfriend, and you learn Girlschase, and yes, the girl might not cheat on you, but she's gonna die anyway, and if you are religious somewhat, God or whoever that's above will take her, instead of another guy. With this, I find myself slowly detaching from all this things, and there's a whole lot of different reasons, from environment, to negativity, to failures, to the past, to always failing when i was young.
It does affect you in one way but it's just a Game, i shall remind myself, Unless i wanted to be the Youtube Guy who comments on entertainment show like WWE that says the "heel" guy should go to hell. i don't want to be that guy.
Zac
