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Online meet and first date
I met this 32 years old girl in Badoo on Apr. 11th. The beginning of the chat was a little turbulent: she mentioned about massage as a part time job (something I've heard so often here, massage meaning prostitution) and I answered that I'm not into professional services. When she understands I mean hookers, she starts a strongly defensive tone, saying she means actual massage for ladies, not "body massage". I excuse myself and explain that because so many prostitutes here, but she goes on with the "I'm not like this" drama. After that it's me who takes an offended tone "I've never been into hookers and not thinking of starting now" etc... and now she's the one chasing. The interaction normalizes after that and we quickly setup a date the following evening. In the meantime we switch to whatsapp and she sends a quite exy picture of herself with a decollete making no mystery of her two large round boobs.
However the next day when I see her, she looks a bit older than her pics, she's dressed in a little austere fashion, and something about her feels "low value". Although she's cute and decent (some sexy shapes) my first reaction about her is "no". OK I take her on the date as agreed, but I'm reserved, don't overdo, and give a closed body language. She's chasing now, and she's doing the deep diving with me - lol. When I poll her she says she doesn't like bars and night clubs, and during our dinner refers several times to my place... Which I decode as "I don't want to go to bar, we would be better at your place". This makes me hesitate, it would be easy... But no. Dinner finished, I take the "I don't like bar" argument as an excuse to shorten the date "I had been thinking of taking you to a nice bar", then drive her home. She also mentioned that she might be called for a massage tonight, double excuse. So, 1h30 after our first meeting face to face, I drop her back home.
Setting up the second date - interesting tests convos
After that, there was little interaction, until Thursday, Apr 21st, when she pops out of the blue in my Whatsapp.
This time, I don't have the right to ignore this!
I start to bait her with the upcoming weekend. She starts teasing me with the idea of massage "ask your housemaid to do massage for you" "My housemaid is not doing massage. You know anybody? ;-)". I then tell her that I'm planning to cook some lamb stew tonight. I get into a very interesting convo in which she throws me many tests.
I take her at her place at 7 and bring her home. As expected she didn't bring her cousin. Last time I barely touched her, so I have to break the physical wall quickly. Out of the car, I take her hand and lead her to the elevators. I can't help noticing that she left her top shirt buttons, unbuttoned, and discreetly flashing sexy bra and a very nice pair of large boobs.
We take a look at the view, I take the chance for more incidental touching. She helps me with cutting the veggies, and while it's cooking I take her to my sofa and start building the physical comfort. We chat many things, whatever, and I gradually increase my physical presence. Have her hand in mine. She complies, then later break rapport, I take her hand back. Start playing with her hair, undo her long braid. Take her closer to me. Have my hand wander over her shoulders.
Dinner served, we eat. Good, done. In the sofa, in my arms, time for action. I approach my lips from hers, smile, teasing her for the kiss, but plant a kiss on her neck instead. Tease her more, have a longer, soft kiss on her neck. Slooow. Reaction is good. Quick kiss on the lips, kiss on the other side of the neck. Longer kiss. I undo a button on her shirt. Wander my kiss a little more down towards her breasts. I put her hand under my shirt and she starts caressing my skin (the girls love it, but they're sometimes shy to take the initiative so you have to "autorize" her this way). I unbutton one more and venture a hand on her boob. OMG it is massive, bigger than what I thought. It's not the bra! Soon I'm sucking her nipples and she likes it. But now she wants to go to toilets.
Weak "in principle" LMR and lay
When she's out, she says "I want to go. Can you send me home?" I stand up, come to her, take her by the hand, and gently take her back on the sofa. "So you're not comfortable with me?". But when she's on the sofa with me, she changes the stance. "I'm comfortable". That's again her ASD, she puts a token resistance to clear herself, even if she's horny as fuck. We're back in business. This time I put her hand on my dick and she starts to rub it through the trousers. I finish removing her shirt. In fact she has two amazing large boobs, very firm. Can't stop sucking them. Bra off, trousers off. A little to much belly fat (like so many people here in Qatar - the largest obesity rate in the world) but apart from that she has a very sexy body, nice shapey ass, large firm boobs, long black her going down her butt. I'm soon in underwear only. She grabs my dick. I take her to my bedroom, I light a candle, drop underwears, suck again her nice boobs then go down on her, lick her clit and she loves it. Condom on, I take her, and she's very vocal. Later I take her a second time, then drive her home.
My take
Very interesting. She was chasing me, horny as fuck from the beginning (with all her references at massage), but with a lot of ASD. She wanted to be taken but required a lot of rationalization. I gave her what she was craving for, good sex with all the responsibility on me. The way she dressed didn't give her justice, hence my initial negative reaction, but it eventually turned out a pretty exciting and sexy interaction. Although she's not as pretty as Ginger (my lay two days ago
) she's actually more sexy and the sex was much better. I'm ok to see her more, but I suspect, however, that she's LSE/HD (Low Self Esteem, High Sex Drive). This would mean problems down the road. Let's see.
I met this 32 years old girl in Badoo on Apr. 11th. The beginning of the chat was a little turbulent: she mentioned about massage as a part time job (something I've heard so often here, massage meaning prostitution) and I answered that I'm not into professional services. When she understands I mean hookers, she starts a strongly defensive tone, saying she means actual massage for ladies, not "body massage". I excuse myself and explain that because so many prostitutes here, but she goes on with the "I'm not like this" drama. After that it's me who takes an offended tone "I've never been into hookers and not thinking of starting now" etc... and now she's the one chasing. The interaction normalizes after that and we quickly setup a date the following evening. In the meantime we switch to whatsapp and she sends a quite exy picture of herself with a decollete making no mystery of her two large round boobs.
However the next day when I see her, she looks a bit older than her pics, she's dressed in a little austere fashion, and something about her feels "low value". Although she's cute and decent (some sexy shapes) my first reaction about her is "no". OK I take her on the date as agreed, but I'm reserved, don't overdo, and give a closed body language. She's chasing now, and she's doing the deep diving with me - lol. When I poll her she says she doesn't like bars and night clubs, and during our dinner refers several times to my place... Which I decode as "I don't want to go to bar, we would be better at your place". This makes me hesitate, it would be easy... But no. Dinner finished, I take the "I don't like bar" argument as an excuse to shorten the date "I had been thinking of taking you to a nice bar", then drive her home. She also mentioned that she might be called for a massage tonight, double excuse. So, 1h30 after our first meeting face to face, I drop her back home.
Setting up the second date - interesting tests convos
After that, there was little interaction, until Thursday, Apr 21st, when she pops out of the blue in my Whatsapp.
This time, I don't have the right to ignore this!
I start to bait her with the upcoming weekend. She starts teasing me with the idea of massage "ask your housemaid to do massage for you" "My housemaid is not doing massage. You know anybody? ;-)". I then tell her that I'm planning to cook some lamb stew tonight. I get into a very interesting convo in which she throws me many tests.
Her need for ASD rationalization kicks in:
I now get a series of tests, meant at testing my resolve:11:42 Her: Only cooking and dinner? Nothing else?
11:42 Me: You want a detail plan
11:42 Her: I just want to know
11:43 Me: I take things as they come
11:43 Her: Who?
11:43 Me: I just say I'm easy going
11:44 Her: Ok. Good
11:45 Me: Ok, so come over, we cook together. I can come 7pm to take you same place
Bringing in her cousin:
Massage topic is back. She frames it as business. I don't give in:11:49 Her: Can I bring my cousin?
11:50 Me: You're not comfortable to be alone with me
11:50 Her: Just asking
11:50 Me: Nicer if you and me only I think
11:50 Her: Ok. Why?
11:51 Me: Your cousin will be bored
11:51 Her: Hahaha she loves to drink
11:51 Me: Ok. Bring along your cousin, it's fine [This is my bet that she doesn't actually mean it]
11:52 Her: Maybe you don't like
11:52 Me: I told you, nicer if you and me. But I would understand if you don't feel comfortable
11:53 Her: Can ask why you want to be you and me?
11:55 Me: No you can't
11:55 Her: Hahaha
Wrapping up:11:55 Her: I know you want me to do massage right?
11:56 Me: Hey I was never asking for massage
11:56 Her: Ok. But you like it the good massage
11:56 Me: But if you do it well, why not
11:57 Her: No problem but you will pay me
11:57 Me: Ah so it's business
11:57 Her: Yes
11:57 Me: No I'm not paying for massage
11:57 Her: Hahaha
11:57 Me: I invite you for free. To eat food. Not asking money. So no massage.
11:58 Her: I'm not asking your money
11:58 Me: Ok
At my home
I take her at her place at 7 and bring her home. As expected she didn't bring her cousin. Last time I barely touched her, so I have to break the physical wall quickly. Out of the car, I take her hand and lead her to the elevators. I can't help noticing that she left her top shirt buttons, unbuttoned, and discreetly flashing sexy bra and a very nice pair of large boobs.
We take a look at the view, I take the chance for more incidental touching. She helps me with cutting the veggies, and while it's cooking I take her to my sofa and start building the physical comfort. We chat many things, whatever, and I gradually increase my physical presence. Have her hand in mine. She complies, then later break rapport, I take her hand back. Start playing with her hair, undo her long braid. Take her closer to me. Have my hand wander over her shoulders.
Dinner served, we eat. Good, done. In the sofa, in my arms, time for action. I approach my lips from hers, smile, teasing her for the kiss, but plant a kiss on her neck instead. Tease her more, have a longer, soft kiss on her neck. Slooow. Reaction is good. Quick kiss on the lips, kiss on the other side of the neck. Longer kiss. I undo a button on her shirt. Wander my kiss a little more down towards her breasts. I put her hand under my shirt and she starts caressing my skin (the girls love it, but they're sometimes shy to take the initiative so you have to "autorize" her this way). I unbutton one more and venture a hand on her boob. OMG it is massive, bigger than what I thought. It's not the bra! Soon I'm sucking her nipples and she likes it. But now she wants to go to toilets.
Weak "in principle" LMR and lay
When she's out, she says "I want to go. Can you send me home?" I stand up, come to her, take her by the hand, and gently take her back on the sofa. "So you're not comfortable with me?". But when she's on the sofa with me, she changes the stance. "I'm comfortable". That's again her ASD, she puts a token resistance to clear herself, even if she's horny as fuck. We're back in business. This time I put her hand on my dick and she starts to rub it through the trousers. I finish removing her shirt. In fact she has two amazing large boobs, very firm. Can't stop sucking them. Bra off, trousers off. A little to much belly fat (like so many people here in Qatar - the largest obesity rate in the world) but apart from that she has a very sexy body, nice shapey ass, large firm boobs, long black her going down her butt. I'm soon in underwear only. She grabs my dick. I take her to my bedroom, I light a candle, drop underwears, suck again her nice boobs then go down on her, lick her clit and she loves it. Condom on, I take her, and she's very vocal. Later I take her a second time, then drive her home.
My take
Very interesting. She was chasing me, horny as fuck from the beginning (with all her references at massage), but with a lot of ASD. She wanted to be taken but required a lot of rationalization. I gave her what she was craving for, good sex with all the responsibility on me. The way she dressed didn't give her justice, hence my initial negative reaction, but it eventually turned out a pretty exciting and sexy interaction. Although she's not as pretty as Ginger (my lay two days ago
) she's actually more sexy and the sex was much better. I'm ok to see her more, but I suspect, however, that she's LSE/HD (Low Self Esteem, High Sex Drive). This would mean problems down the road. Let's see.