John's Journal - Night-time

[johnydones]

Hey everyone , since i started making new FR thread for each night , i wanted to make it a journal instead. I will make each FR into a new post. Here we go , last night!

A tough nut to crack

I met this girl 2 weeks ago , first girl from my FR here viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4109
last night i was in same club and there she was , smiling again.That girl is the least communicative girl i met but hell , it's not gonna stop me. Good thing i remembered her name (this is SO important guys , i have to work on it further) and she was like

HER: I can't believe you remember my name!
ME: Well , there is something about you i could not forget
HER: (smiling , gets her drink to avoid EC)
ME: So , are you ready to tell me something about yourself now
HER: nope (with playful smile)
ME: (bored look)
HER: (started asking me some questions , generic ones)

Now i love when girls do this , so i can chase frame and tease them like this:
ME: i get it now! You are some sort of spy or secret agent! I will not reveal any secrets just so you know
HER: laughing
-I teased her for that for like 2-3 minutes , then i started escalating

ME: Let me see which color are your eyes
HER: (EC , eyes to the side a bit and she gets her drink again, hair twirl )
ME: You got brown eyes , you know what they say about people with brown eyes
HER: i dont! what?!
ME: maybe i will tell you more about it sometimes

-lets cut to the chase (this is where i need some help and advice)
- i failed to move her , and she would not do much in front of her friends
(we were at her table , with 2 of her girl friends , one of them was sooo into me , EC , hand holding while i talked with her etc.., but i would not go far with her i guess now that i was hitting on her friend)
-I started dancing with the girl i originally opened. I got her hand , firm grip...no resistance here
-I started stroking her hair and cheek kissed her gently (no resistance )
-She started dancing in front of me , rubbing against me (hell ,i got so hard there and she could notice it )
- Tried to move her now
ME: Let's take a walk to the bar to get some drinks
HER: nah, let's stay here
-arrghhhh!
- failed few more times to move her at least few steps away from the table. (any advice on how to do this?)

She was heading out of the club by now , i was so disappointed. (her friend told me they go out to that club often and will be there today)

My questions would be
1. How to get her to open and start talking , at least a bit so i can work on something
2. How to move her at least few feet so she does not see her friends
3. If i meet her today , any advice on what i should do ?

-John

 

[johnydones]

Thanks for your reply Casanova jr . I read the 8 questions post , i always thought that asking “What do you think of me so far?” would make you feel insecure , but i guess that is only the case if you do not project confidence.


Last Night- I Should not go out when I'm in bad mood

I will make it short , maybe im just looking for a bit of your encouragement.
I went out tired as hell and worn out from Friday night i talked about in my last post. My friend was with me , he was in same mood as I. We were at the bar we often go out to and usually for a drink , but this night , something changed ....it was FULL of girls , and im talking 15 girls around 2 of us. But the problem was , even though i got my fundamentals right , i could not approach any of them (felt like all my confidence from last night disappeared while i slept). I got a smile or two from nearby girls , i returned the smile but still could not move.
To make things worse , there was this girl i was looking for 2 months in that bar , i liked her VERY much , but now that she was there i wanted to approach her but i was afraid that i will screw up so badly while in bad mood. I told my friend "give me a rope , ill hang myself right here" (kiddin of course )

Time passed , and we started packing ... but out of the blue here comes this girl , she approached my friend first , but he was a bit surprised and could not get his bearings. I just looked at her with "i know why you are here" smile . She instantly switched and engaged me with
HER: can you find me a lighter so i can light my cigarette
ME: *i gave her a skeptical look (i was a bit of an asshole , but why not , i just met her , why would i invest)
HER: *long eye contact while my friend was looking for a lighter

I knew i would not make a move on her , so i left her to my friend (after all she approached him first and i take that bro code stuff seriously) but she left after few minutes.
What happened here , she approached him , why would she leave when i moved away so two of them can have a chat? was she into me but could not approach directly ?

I hope that my lack of confidence last night was temporary and that it will not have impact on me in the long run. How do you battle bad mood and do you go out anyway?

- John