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Seppuku

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After the extremely pleasant encounter with Nicky (my previous LR) I am keen to experience more African women. Around mid February I approached several black African girls in Badoo, and on February 22nd I get liked back by Julie, a 24 years old girl from Uganda. We engage into casual chat, the usual rapport building, i.e. where are you from, how long have you been in Doha, etc... She is initially a bit defensive, little talkative and minimal answering, but as soon as I start to open up and talk about myself (my "divorced single dad" routine) she opens up in turn and we quickly switch to Whatsapp. This mobile phone app is phone number based, so that essentially means we exchange phone numbers, but it is always easier to say "give me your whatsapp". The next day we have sporadic chat throughout the day, we exchange pictures, then in the evening I notice I have a missed call from her.

On Feb 24th the chat quickly turns into this incredible exchange:

Her: So if I want to visit you what happens?
Me: You mean at my office? Lol
Her: Your house
Me: Maybe some good things would happen [Wink]. I understand that you sleep early? [Here I start to probe for logistics]
Her: Yes
Me: I usually put my children in bed at 9pm. Anyway I'm keen to meet you
Her: Looking forward to meet you too
Me: So when is your favorite evening out?
Her: Thursday or Friday
[...]
Her: Then let's plan it on Friday after you put your kids in bed
Me: Friday I want to meet you over dinner and drinks
Her: But I have to be home by 7 am - that is, if you want to spend the night together
!!! Am I dreaming? Now the issue is that my ex-wife is currently visiting us, so no way I can bring her back home. I need to handle this carefully though.

Me: This woman wants to spend the night with me ;-) I take it as a compliment. Happy to oblige
Her: Hahahaha
Me: But after I come back from my business trip [I am leaving next week for a 10 day trip]
Her: mmmm OK
Me: For Friday I would appreciate to have a simple evening out if you don't mind. OK with you?
Her: OK I appreciate
Me: Don't worry I am a sexual being too lol ;-) Just that it will be easier for me after my return.
Her: No worries
Me: Haha I would have never thought I would be the one asking for a normal date lol
Her: [...] I am feeling comfortable chatting you
Me: I am a gentleman in fact. You'll see for yourself
Her: I bet so
Me: I am also a man ;-) and you will feel warm in my hands!
Her: I hope you don't mind the age difference. I prefer someone much older than me because he has experience and will know how to handle me
[ she is asking for qualification. I don't give in right away]
Me: You're 24 right? Young indeed!
[... I get her to qualify herself ...]
In the evening I finally call her and she has a sweet, soft feminine voice, almost girlish. Of course I use my sexiest, smiling voice. After the call she texts "Thanks I loved your voice".

The Date
On Feb 27th I take her at her home at 7pm as agreed. She's very well dressed with colors and jewels, a tight fitting dress. While I drive all the way to the Pearl we start chatting our stories. It turns out that she is from Kenya, not Uganda as she initially said. Why? Because, she says, Kenyan girls have "a reputation". "Really? I am not aware of it then. I do not have any preconceived opinion on Kenyan women, or African women, one way or another". OK so this woman wants to make sure I will not judge her ;-) but judge her regarding what? I will soon find out :)

We reach the Pearl. The dinner is almost a non event. She's apparently very picky with food and she does not eat the meal. I finish my meal quickly and we leave - we stayed maybe 25 minutes in total. She's also very tense because the place is full of Qataris. A black woman with a white guy, everyone's looking at us.

A quick note about Qatar here. This is a Muslim country. Public display of affection is frowned upon. Having a relationship between man and woman, outside marriage, is illegal. It is considered "unlawful relationship" by law with sentence of up to several months of prison before deportation. Now, the Qataris would not be looking too hard, as long as things are not visible in the open. Appearances must be preserved. But a white guy and a black woman walking together, smells like unlawful relationship from kilometers away. It all occurs to me as we walk in the middle of all these Qataris, and I start being a bit nervous too.

As soon as we reach the car, the tension goes and the interaction becomes more relaxed. She asks me what physical attributes I look in women, e.g. fat ass, big boobs etc... I look at the overall silhouette, her hair, and the way she's dressed, i.e. if she is paying attention to herself. We talk as I drive, and I am initially holding her hand. Conversation continues on woman's silhouette. I say I don't like skinny girls. As long as there's something we can grab lol. She says she's skinny. No, you're thin, and as I say that I voluntarily touch her boob - which look reasonably big. "How much is coming from the bra?" I ask. She laughs.

My initial plan was to go to a bar, but she keeps mentioning about going to a private place. "A place where it's only you and me". We have already touched on this topic. "I can't take you home, there's my ex wife there". But OK, it is time that I take the hint seriously. "Look, it's already late, maybe I will drive towards your home and we'll park somewhere there and stay some time, instead of going to that bar". We're now going to her area, and my hand is now on her thigh. She puts her both hands on my hand and start to caress it. OK I need to give her more, so I unfold my shirt sleeve and release my bare arm. She's now holding me tight and caressing my whole arm. Oho.

Arrived now, we finally park in some dark street next to her place. I stop the engine and shut all lights off. I approach my lips from hers and wait. She jumps to the kiss with a deep tongue french kiss, OMG, never seen a fury like this. Her hand goes to my dick briefly then she unbuttons my shirt and start sucking my nipples. I have my hands on her tits and ass, through clothes. My hand runs up her dress and finally gets to her underwear, from ass side. Her skin is very soft. She has a thong, I rub her pussy through the textile. She's getting super horny, but here it's Qatar as I said, and I'm not looking forward to find out what happens to people fucking in a public place, so I need to keep some control over the heat. I tell her we can't go all the way today. Her hand is on my dick again and now she starts rubbing it through trousers."I like the size of it" - flattery, I'm average at best, but OK. "Can I suck it?" "You want?" "Yeah" "Sure :)" I pull out my dick and she sucks me thoroughly. Pretty good. Deep and fast. Hungry woman!

Now some guys are coming. She stops, I put my dick back, and button my trousers. the guys are right in front of us, three meters away. It's night, my car is dark and we don't move, so they don't notice anything. But they are right in front of us, smoking a cigarette. I can't wait for them to finish. After a while I just start the car (still without lights) and leave. OK that will be all for today. Finally I drive her back home and we kiss again before she leaves.

***

* Wow - from first face to face to blowjob, less than three hours. My first time.
* The next day she tried to call me several times. I was actually busy dating Lucy (my last LR) so I keep her message unanswered for several hours until I call her back.
* On the following wednesday I left Doha for a business trip and as of now still traveling. We're still in touch. Let us see if we keep the contact for another week. This has potential to develop into much more.
 

BarryS1

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Seppuku said:
A quick note about Qatar here. This is a Muslim country. Public display of affection is frowned upon. Having a relationship between man and woman, outside marriage, is illegal. It is considered "unlawful relationship" by law with sentence of up to several months of prison before deportation. Now, the Qataris would not be looking too hard, as long as things are not visible in the open. Appearances must be preserved. But a white guy and a black woman walking together, smells like unlawful relationship from kilometers away. It all occurs to me as we walk in the middle of all these Qataris, and I start being a bit nervous too.

Your journals are fascinating to read. You make stuff happen in a place where you have to be super incognito. Props for pulling the car action off! It takes a lot of coaxing to do that in a car in the US, but it could be life-threatening over there. I don't know what I would do without being able to touch in public.
 
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Seppuku-

This is interesting to me. I passed through Doha International a couple of times last year (there's a luxury jeweled burka shop in the airport... never saw that before), but didn't opt for a layover because of the legal situation you mentioned here.

Any idea how common it is for foreigners to get pilloried by the police there?

And what are the singles demographics like? I imagine it's mostly older men with families who are there under contract from the West anyway, or men coming in to work on construction projects with their families back home, etc., and not a huge amount of foreign women. I'd suspect local women are probably out too, unless you want to be whipped, locked up, or worse.

Based on how sex-starved this girl seemed to be, it sounds like there's probably not a lot of people engaging in a lot of action over there.

As for what this girl meant about Kenyan women, prostitution is rampant in Kenya, and more often than not women you'll meet from there traveling abroad have dabbled / continue to dabble in it. Kenyan women are awesome: they're quite dynamic, frequently quite beautiful, and nearly always talented in bed / highly orgasmic / highly sexed, but just make sure you're smart about it and wrap it up, and keep your head screwed on tight going in, because they have the same mastery-level game women really only get from spending time as working girls and escorts - they're extremely adept at making men feel the right emotions they need to give them money or otherwise make substantial investments in them (this is also a big part of why they often look for older men, since younger men have less money and are less willing to part with the money they do have in exchange for a woman's favors).

Chase
 

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Chase,

About layovers here, it's actually not that bad. I haven't heard of a specific case of a guy caught by police... I just don't want to be the first case I hear about. With a litte bit of discretion, some guys manage to entertain girlfriends for years without trouble. What really matters is to make sure external appearances are safe for society. Whatever you do behind curtains is fine, as long as it does not show out. The same holds for Qataris and Muslims, by the way - some of them do a lot of things behind curtains. Just make sure you don't draw attention and carefully avoid the "qatari" places - the Pearl has now become one, my mistake here. The bars and lounges in international hotels, where alcohol is served, are usually "expat" places and very open minded, there you can go ahead freely. Some extra care should be taken when bringing a girl in the hotel room. The people at reception may have instructions to report these things (although I am not sure), anyway, just suppose one jealous guy decides to call the police. When I bring a girl home I always make sure no one sees us. The way I do is I take her from the underground parking to my home and avoid the reception area.

About demographics. The single working professional western woman is in very short supply. For western women you have mostly housewives or expat teenage daughters in high school. Well, not my segment. Things become interesting with girls from third world countries. You could probably find all nationalities here, even "uncommon" ones like Nepal or Kazakhstan. There is a very large community of Philippines people here, and many single Filipinas, some of which are absolutely beautiful. There are girls from Eastern Europe, from all over Africa, from the Levant (Lebanese, Jordanian...). Very often, you will find that these working girls are under close scrutiny by their employer. Qatar Airways, for instance, maintains a strict 10 pm curfew. These tight logistics constraints are an integral part of the challenge of dating in Qatar.

Thank you for the interesting brief on Kenyan girls. I was not aware of this prostitution thing, and if I get a chance I will try to candidly engage the topic with Julie... I already see signs that she wants me to invest myself more. As far as I'm concerned I intend to maintain things at a very casual level with her. Let us see.

Well Chase if you happen to have an overnight stay in Doha, let me know and we could have a drink somewhere.

Seppuku
 
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