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Back when my optimism towards life was at its peak, more so than it is right now, I cold approached a decent amount. A lot of this was done in my college days and my early twenties, some going back to a little over a year ago. My standards were a bit high meaning I only cold approached a girl if I thought she was hot, I rarely cold approached a girl I did not find attractive.
These days, I just cannot get myself to cold approach as much, working on it losing the approach anxiety that has developed.
After looking back to it all, I realized how I am still keeping in touch with some of these girls I met through cold approach who were easily an 8 on the looks scale.
1. Blonde HB8 I met in a college class and sat next to. I ended up number closing her, had a bit of attraction going on but could not close the deal. Rich girl from old money east coast family. Back a month ago liked a pic of mines I posted on social media, professionally done photo, meant a lot to me as sad as it sounds.
2. Brunette HB9 I approached at a subway, number closed. Texted back and forth a bit, added on social media, and currently DMing her as she is looking to visit and party at the city I am currently in.
3. Blonde HB9 who I number closed a year ago, started following me a week ago and sees my stories on IG. She also posted vids of her twerking, almost fapped to them but I was in public so could not.
4. Tanned brunette HB8 who occasionally messages me on Facebook, number closed her at a bar when getting drinks.
5. Blonde party girl and her friend I number closed with a wingman a year ago, following me on IG and have DM'd her back and forth a good bit.
Those are from the top of my head and while I have not slept with them, it is a great thing to know that some of these girls might be interested given how sexy they are. I think it might be time for me to get back into cold approaching given that I am in a city crawling with beautiful women of all backgrounds.
It's just that I am still recovering from a rough patch in life but I just feel this energy in me coming to life.
It is like in a movie when a superhero goes through a tough time when all is going wrong and he is a former shell of himself, then something happens, it is tough to describe, but it happens. Then when all is said and done, he recovers and is not only back but returns as a stronger version of himself.
These days, I just cannot get myself to cold approach as much, working on it losing the approach anxiety that has developed.
After looking back to it all, I realized how I am still keeping in touch with some of these girls I met through cold approach who were easily an 8 on the looks scale.
1. Blonde HB8 I met in a college class and sat next to. I ended up number closing her, had a bit of attraction going on but could not close the deal. Rich girl from old money east coast family. Back a month ago liked a pic of mines I posted on social media, professionally done photo, meant a lot to me as sad as it sounds.
2. Brunette HB9 I approached at a subway, number closed. Texted back and forth a bit, added on social media, and currently DMing her as she is looking to visit and party at the city I am currently in.
3. Blonde HB9 who I number closed a year ago, started following me a week ago and sees my stories on IG. She also posted vids of her twerking, almost fapped to them but I was in public so could not.
4. Tanned brunette HB8 who occasionally messages me on Facebook, number closed her at a bar when getting drinks.
5. Blonde party girl and her friend I number closed with a wingman a year ago, following me on IG and have DM'd her back and forth a good bit.
Those are from the top of my head and while I have not slept with them, it is a great thing to know that some of these girls might be interested given how sexy they are. I think it might be time for me to get back into cold approaching given that I am in a city crawling with beautiful women of all backgrounds.
It's just that I am still recovering from a rough patch in life but I just feel this energy in me coming to life.
It is like in a movie when a superhero goes through a tough time when all is going wrong and he is a former shell of himself, then something happens, it is tough to describe, but it happens. Then when all is said and done, he recovers and is not only back but returns as a stronger version of himself.
