So I've been exclusively an app guy for the last 4 or 5 years (what Chase calls a meet up artist). The apps have been progressively getting worse, especially during the last year. With Hector's Day Game course coming out soon, I've been very excited to start gaming in person. I deleted the apps a month or two ago and I've been out to bars a few times trying to meet girls. The first few times I went, met a girl I liked, but got too drunk and didn't close things out well.
This happened Tuesday night. I grabbed dinner at a bar a block from my house and ended up chatting with a guy 10 years older than me (I'm 28). He was talking about how frustrating it is to try to meet girls at his age since he's trying to find a wife and not just a hookup. For some reason, this got me motivated to try to pick up a girl that night. So after eating I went to a dive bar a few blocks down the street.
This bar brands itself as an "ultra-dive." It's the kind of place where people who don't give a fuck about status go to hangout. Based on Chase's articles about niche selection, it seems like a really good spot so far. I've been there twice before and made out with girls both times, but got too drunk and fucked up both times.
So walking into the bar, I discovered that it was Karaoke night. Since I hadn't planned to go out, I'm wearing a light blue shirt from a beach town that I visited a few years ago and some grey lululemon shorts with my favorite Nikes. I've been wearing lululemon shorts out a lot this summer- super comfortable and they look pretty decent.
Anyway after I grab a drink, I walk back to the dancefloor where the karaoke is set up. I see a girl sitting at a table by herself. Can't see her face, but I can see that she is wearing a skirt with sexy, tattooed legs. I've been seeing a very prim and proper girl that I met right before I deleted my dating apps, so I've been in the mood for a "trashy hot" girl.
Not giving myself anytime to overthink things. I walk to her table at a slight angle. I walk just past her and pause for a moment to look at the karaoke set up before I turn to her.
"Are you going to sing?" It was the first thing that popped into my head lol.
Her face lit up the second I talked to her. "That's why I'm here." She was smiling and giggly while she told me about the songs she was planning to sing.
Then I introduced myself, sat down next to her, and we chatted a bit until it was her turn to sing.
My jaw dropped a little when she walked up to the stage- this chick was smoking hot. And it turns out, an amazing singer. Legitimately good.
Anyway, I high fived her when she came back after singing, told her how great she was. Not in a putting her on a pedestal way, but just expressing my genuine opinion on her singing ability.
Then she tells me that it's my turn to pick a song. I tell her I will, but she has to promise not to judge me because I'm a terrible singer.
I end up singing an ACDC song and bombing. But I'm smiling and dancing while I'm on the stage. Knowing that I'm bad allows me to have fun with it, if that makes sense.
When I sit back down, she hugs me and tells me that she likes my effort, lol.
Anyway we talk some more and end up making out a bit. This part is a bit fuzzy because we did a few rounds of shots between songs.
(Side note: the main reason I'm excited for Hector's day game course is that I almost always end up drinking too much when I try to do night game.)
So around 1am after she finishes another song, I go for the close.
"So I'm a little karaoke'd out, but I definitely want to keep hanging with you."
She gives me the doe eyes look. "So you're inviting me back to your place?"
"Yah I'm only a few blocks away."
"Are you expecting to fuck me If I come with you?"
I chuckle a little and kiss her. "I'm open to that."
She looks down as she puts her arms around me. "So am I. But do you have any drinks there?"
"Yep. Beer, wine, and cider. Let's go."
She kisses me passionately. "Ok."
(I learned years ago to always have a few decent drinks at home, just in case. Always be prepared as the Boy Scouts say.)
So we go back to my place, crack open ciders, and immediately start going at it. She's 31 with a ROCKING body. We go at it hard for 30-40 minutes.
Then the problems start.
Long story short, I wore her pussy out. I was drunk and couldn't cum, so I just wanted to keep going at it. She started getting self-conscious, asking me why I couldn't finish, didn't I think she was pretty, etc.
Then she starts asking me questions about herself, stuff she told me earlier in the night when we were getting to know each other. Like I said, I had drank too much so I couldn't really remember the answers.
Then she says "Ok I'm just a hookup to you and we're done hooking up. So I guess I'm going to leave now."
She starts getting dressed and I chase a bit, can't remember what shit I said but it was definitely more on the needy side and not on the dominant-sexy man side.
As she's leaving I try to get her number, tell her we can talk tomorrow, but she doesn't go for it. When she walks out of my front door, she turns and gives me a sad Charlie-brown type look before she walks away for good.
Overall, I feel bad that things didn't end well but I'm still happy for the experience. It was my first time fucking a girl I met in person in 4 or 5 years and it went super well until the very end. I'm excited to start day gaming so that I can avoid being a drunk idiot and fucking things up =D
-Dallas
This happened Tuesday night. I grabbed dinner at a bar a block from my house and ended up chatting with a guy 10 years older than me (I'm 28). He was talking about how frustrating it is to try to meet girls at his age since he's trying to find a wife and not just a hookup. For some reason, this got me motivated to try to pick up a girl that night. So after eating I went to a dive bar a few blocks down the street.
This bar brands itself as an "ultra-dive." It's the kind of place where people who don't give a fuck about status go to hangout. Based on Chase's articles about niche selection, it seems like a really good spot so far. I've been there twice before and made out with girls both times, but got too drunk and fucked up both times.
So walking into the bar, I discovered that it was Karaoke night. Since I hadn't planned to go out, I'm wearing a light blue shirt from a beach town that I visited a few years ago and some grey lululemon shorts with my favorite Nikes. I've been wearing lululemon shorts out a lot this summer- super comfortable and they look pretty decent.
Anyway after I grab a drink, I walk back to the dancefloor where the karaoke is set up. I see a girl sitting at a table by herself. Can't see her face, but I can see that she is wearing a skirt with sexy, tattooed legs. I've been seeing a very prim and proper girl that I met right before I deleted my dating apps, so I've been in the mood for a "trashy hot" girl.
Not giving myself anytime to overthink things. I walk to her table at a slight angle. I walk just past her and pause for a moment to look at the karaoke set up before I turn to her.
"Are you going to sing?" It was the first thing that popped into my head lol.
Her face lit up the second I talked to her. "That's why I'm here." She was smiling and giggly while she told me about the songs she was planning to sing.
Then I introduced myself, sat down next to her, and we chatted a bit until it was her turn to sing.
My jaw dropped a little when she walked up to the stage- this chick was smoking hot. And it turns out, an amazing singer. Legitimately good.
Anyway, I high fived her when she came back after singing, told her how great she was. Not in a putting her on a pedestal way, but just expressing my genuine opinion on her singing ability.
Then she tells me that it's my turn to pick a song. I tell her I will, but she has to promise not to judge me because I'm a terrible singer.
I end up singing an ACDC song and bombing. But I'm smiling and dancing while I'm on the stage. Knowing that I'm bad allows me to have fun with it, if that makes sense.
When I sit back down, she hugs me and tells me that she likes my effort, lol.
Anyway we talk some more and end up making out a bit. This part is a bit fuzzy because we did a few rounds of shots between songs.
(Side note: the main reason I'm excited for Hector's day game course is that I almost always end up drinking too much when I try to do night game.)
So around 1am after she finishes another song, I go for the close.
"So I'm a little karaoke'd out, but I definitely want to keep hanging with you."
She gives me the doe eyes look. "So you're inviting me back to your place?"
"Yah I'm only a few blocks away."
"Are you expecting to fuck me If I come with you?"
I chuckle a little and kiss her. "I'm open to that."
She looks down as she puts her arms around me. "So am I. But do you have any drinks there?"
"Yep. Beer, wine, and cider. Let's go."
She kisses me passionately. "Ok."
(I learned years ago to always have a few decent drinks at home, just in case. Always be prepared as the Boy Scouts say.)
So we go back to my place, crack open ciders, and immediately start going at it. She's 31 with a ROCKING body. We go at it hard for 30-40 minutes.
Then the problems start.
Long story short, I wore her pussy out. I was drunk and couldn't cum, so I just wanted to keep going at it. She started getting self-conscious, asking me why I couldn't finish, didn't I think she was pretty, etc.
Then she starts asking me questions about herself, stuff she told me earlier in the night when we were getting to know each other. Like I said, I had drank too much so I couldn't really remember the answers.
Then she says "Ok I'm just a hookup to you and we're done hooking up. So I guess I'm going to leave now."
She starts getting dressed and I chase a bit, can't remember what shit I said but it was definitely more on the needy side and not on the dominant-sexy man side.
As she's leaving I try to get her number, tell her we can talk tomorrow, but she doesn't go for it. When she walks out of my front door, she turns and gives me a sad Charlie-brown type look before she walks away for good.
Overall, I feel bad that things didn't end well but I'm still happy for the experience. It was my first time fucking a girl I met in person in 4 or 5 years and it went super well until the very end. I'm excited to start day gaming so that I can avoid being a drunk idiot and fucking things up =D
-Dallas
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