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Approach:
I saw my wing talking to a girl, and when I sensed he wasn't enjoying the conversation I went up to them to say hi. Saw this petite girl dressed up as the chick from suicide squad. I tease her a bit, she seems relatively receptive. My friend gets distracted by other cute girls passing by so he leaves. I keep talking to this girl, we're both leaning against the brick wall inside a hip club/restaurant. After about 10 mins I notice more and more signals, slight lip biting, she's triangle gazing, showing me her travel photos on FB, bearing the grunt of the conversation etc. I lock myself and lean back completely get her to wrap her arms around me, inside my dracula cloak. I go for a kiss, but she starts blabbering about how she's older than me and whatnot. I tell her if I were 30 and she was early 20s it wouldn't matter, then I realize how fucking retarded it is to be in a logical headspace and arguing with chicks so I give her a manhandle kiss and she goes crazy. She starts biting my lip, sucking on it, touching my chest. So I grab her ass, and kiss her neck, whatever, it's not usually productive to escalate so far away from sex location but I was irritated that I was getting flakes and girls with borefriends all throughout carnival so why the hell not. After that she says she has to find her friends and that I could come with her. I tell her I'll go back and find my own friends and that we could meet later in the night so we can exchange contact info. She says she's a bit high that night so she won't be giving her number to me. We head out together from the club and walk to the next one. On our way she's asking me whether I've done drugs and offers me some, lol. I politely refuse. Drugs are bad m'kay. (then I realize the more I game the more healthy I'm becoming, drinking green tea and meditating before going out and shit, I bet my old friends think I've turned into a pure hedonist snorting coke out of girls' tits and getting wasted every night) I kiss her goodbye as she's waiting in line to get back to her friends.
*3 hours of gaming with friends and kissing random girls, lots of rejections*
I go out to get some fresh air as my buddies are dancing salsa and picking up girls inside. I decide to go back to the hipster club and whaddayouknow this kinky cougar is there with her gay friends. I casually bump into her. She's pretty happy to see me. We dance a bit, but it's almost closing time so she says she's gonna grab her jacket, and proposed that we go together so I we leave the dancefloor. On our way, I pull her and slam her against the wall and we start kissing again (always wanted to do this). Then we get her jacket and sit down to talk. I deep dive her a tiny bit. Turns out she's not in very good terms with her family, nothing unexpected. But it gets a bit of a turn off for me when she keeps saying she's old and other BS, she's 31 and she's like 20 cm shorter than me with a petite body and cute face, definitely doable. She's showing me her tattoos on her legs and I'm touching her as I inspect it. We finally head outside, and I tell her I gotta go back to my friends and head home. She then takes out her phone and shoves it to my hands, so I type my number in and wish her a good night. She texts me 5 mins after I go home, asking if I could find my friends and if I was alright and stuff so I'm thinking this'll be interesting.
Date:
I text her a couple of days later that we should drink wine and watch the stars at my place. (romantic as fuck) She says I convinced her with the stars, says Sunday night is good for her. On Sunday, she comes over on time, wearing a tight skirt and blouse, both black. We sit on my bed and there's some news on my PC, I make some tea, get her comfortable. But WTF? She's so silent. I thought she was uncomfortable for some reason. I get her to open up a bit. But then find out she's always like this sober, and that she was on MDMA and drunk that night. So I ask her if she's comfortable and she's quick to say yes. We actually talk for 45 mins before I attempt first kiss since she looked so shy now. First she gently holds my head as she "hasn't finished her sentence". But after backing off, popping open the wine and a few mins later we start kissing passionately.
Sex:
I kiss her neck and caress her legs. Then I go back to the wine and we're talking again. Some time later I initate kissing again and this time I lay her on my bed, and start touching her breasts and whole body, after a few mins I kiss her breasts after pulling her blouse up. Then she gets up and says "I thought you were more of a shy guy, your hands are going everywhere". So I tell her: "We did kiss soon after meeting each other, remember?" with a grin on my face. Then she pushes me on the bed and gets on top of me. Oh yes. From this point on it's just 30 mins of foreplay . . . I get a huge erection, but I also have to pee badly and since she's been grinding on me so much I'm about to get a friction burn on my cock. I do the known technique of escalating a bit, taking off a small piece of clothing then returning to kissing and caressing rest of body. Works perfectly and she's now naked except her panties on top of me. Then I switch places and throw her to my bed. She asks the lights to be turned off so I do that. Then take my pants off. I take her panties off. I put a condom on, but kinda feeling anxious at this point, I enter her but my nightmare is taking place. My heartbeat is out of control and I'm praying not to get performance anxiety and losing my erection, but it happens and after a couple of pumps I'm left with a half chubby. So I pull out and do the best thing I could think of, suck on her nipples and finger her. I manage to hit her g-spot well and in a couple of mins, she starts squirting on my bed. Fuck yes she's trained to orgasm nicely. Then I tell her I need to relax a bit so she snuggles up to me and pressed her butt as we spoon, now looking like a content kitten. After a few mins I get my erection back, I enter her from behind and a few mins later cum. Feeling relieved that we both came at the very least, we cuddle some time. Drink a bit more of the wine and I kiss her goodbye.
From meeting to sex was a bit less than 7 days. She's actually kinky as hell, has tattoos and a pierced nipple, likes choking etc. I'm not used to these type of girls to be honest. And she lives very close to me, so perhaps I might fuck her once every two weeks or so but we'll see. I'm happy to have smashed through my dry spell of 8 months. And even in this cock-filled engineering city I'm pulling locals home so it feels great to be seeing results.
Lessons learned:
Sometimes I get too focused on the girl, on not fucking up the situation and too excited physiologically that I get in my head and lose my erection. It's like I'm too focused on the girl and perfectly escalating on her and once I have her naked I feel like it's a shit ton of work and it's not immediately satisfying, easy or possible to fuck her. I wonder if anyone can relate.
I saw my wing talking to a girl, and when I sensed he wasn't enjoying the conversation I went up to them to say hi. Saw this petite girl dressed up as the chick from suicide squad. I tease her a bit, she seems relatively receptive. My friend gets distracted by other cute girls passing by so he leaves. I keep talking to this girl, we're both leaning against the brick wall inside a hip club/restaurant. After about 10 mins I notice more and more signals, slight lip biting, she's triangle gazing, showing me her travel photos on FB, bearing the grunt of the conversation etc. I lock myself and lean back completely get her to wrap her arms around me, inside my dracula cloak. I go for a kiss, but she starts blabbering about how she's older than me and whatnot. I tell her if I were 30 and she was early 20s it wouldn't matter, then I realize how fucking retarded it is to be in a logical headspace and arguing with chicks so I give her a manhandle kiss and she goes crazy. She starts biting my lip, sucking on it, touching my chest. So I grab her ass, and kiss her neck, whatever, it's not usually productive to escalate so far away from sex location but I was irritated that I was getting flakes and girls with borefriends all throughout carnival so why the hell not. After that she says she has to find her friends and that I could come with her. I tell her I'll go back and find my own friends and that we could meet later in the night so we can exchange contact info. She says she's a bit high that night so she won't be giving her number to me. We head out together from the club and walk to the next one. On our way she's asking me whether I've done drugs and offers me some, lol. I politely refuse. Drugs are bad m'kay. (then I realize the more I game the more healthy I'm becoming, drinking green tea and meditating before going out and shit, I bet my old friends think I've turned into a pure hedonist snorting coke out of girls' tits and getting wasted every night) I kiss her goodbye as she's waiting in line to get back to her friends.
*3 hours of gaming with friends and kissing random girls, lots of rejections*
I go out to get some fresh air as my buddies are dancing salsa and picking up girls inside. I decide to go back to the hipster club and whaddayouknow this kinky cougar is there with her gay friends. I casually bump into her. She's pretty happy to see me. We dance a bit, but it's almost closing time so she says she's gonna grab her jacket, and proposed that we go together so I we leave the dancefloor. On our way, I pull her and slam her against the wall and we start kissing again (always wanted to do this). Then we get her jacket and sit down to talk. I deep dive her a tiny bit. Turns out she's not in very good terms with her family, nothing unexpected. But it gets a bit of a turn off for me when she keeps saying she's old and other BS, she's 31 and she's like 20 cm shorter than me with a petite body and cute face, definitely doable. She's showing me her tattoos on her legs and I'm touching her as I inspect it. We finally head outside, and I tell her I gotta go back to my friends and head home. She then takes out her phone and shoves it to my hands, so I type my number in and wish her a good night. She texts me 5 mins after I go home, asking if I could find my friends and if I was alright and stuff so I'm thinking this'll be interesting.
Date:
I text her a couple of days later that we should drink wine and watch the stars at my place. (romantic as fuck) She says I convinced her with the stars, says Sunday night is good for her. On Sunday, she comes over on time, wearing a tight skirt and blouse, both black. We sit on my bed and there's some news on my PC, I make some tea, get her comfortable. But WTF? She's so silent. I thought she was uncomfortable for some reason. I get her to open up a bit. But then find out she's always like this sober, and that she was on MDMA and drunk that night. So I ask her if she's comfortable and she's quick to say yes. We actually talk for 45 mins before I attempt first kiss since she looked so shy now. First she gently holds my head as she "hasn't finished her sentence". But after backing off, popping open the wine and a few mins later we start kissing passionately.
Sex:
I kiss her neck and caress her legs. Then I go back to the wine and we're talking again. Some time later I initate kissing again and this time I lay her on my bed, and start touching her breasts and whole body, after a few mins I kiss her breasts after pulling her blouse up. Then she gets up and says "I thought you were more of a shy guy, your hands are going everywhere". So I tell her: "We did kiss soon after meeting each other, remember?" with a grin on my face. Then she pushes me on the bed and gets on top of me. Oh yes. From this point on it's just 30 mins of foreplay . . . I get a huge erection, but I also have to pee badly and since she's been grinding on me so much I'm about to get a friction burn on my cock. I do the known technique of escalating a bit, taking off a small piece of clothing then returning to kissing and caressing rest of body. Works perfectly and she's now naked except her panties on top of me. Then I switch places and throw her to my bed. She asks the lights to be turned off so I do that. Then take my pants off. I take her panties off. I put a condom on, but kinda feeling anxious at this point, I enter her but my nightmare is taking place. My heartbeat is out of control and I'm praying not to get performance anxiety and losing my erection, but it happens and after a couple of pumps I'm left with a half chubby. So I pull out and do the best thing I could think of, suck on her nipples and finger her. I manage to hit her g-spot well and in a couple of mins, she starts squirting on my bed. Fuck yes she's trained to orgasm nicely. Then I tell her I need to relax a bit so she snuggles up to me and pressed her butt as we spoon, now looking like a content kitten. After a few mins I get my erection back, I enter her from behind and a few mins later cum. Feeling relieved that we both came at the very least, we cuddle some time. Drink a bit more of the wine and I kiss her goodbye.
From meeting to sex was a bit less than 7 days. She's actually kinky as hell, has tattoos and a pierced nipple, likes choking etc. I'm not used to these type of girls to be honest. And she lives very close to me, so perhaps I might fuck her once every two weeks or so but we'll see. I'm happy to have smashed through my dry spell of 8 months. And even in this cock-filled engineering city I'm pulling locals home so it feels great to be seeing results.
Lessons learned:
- 2 steps forward, 1 step backward works so well for escalation
- Don't get butthurt like I used to do when a girl rejects your first advance
- Just relax when she's finally naked in your bed waiting for you to enter her (should be better with experience)
- Even a 31 y/o girl is silly and cute. Seriously, it's fucking incredible to see how similar girls are in their core, and how submissive they can be to men they find attractive.
Sometimes I get too focused on the girl, on not fucking up the situation and too excited physiologically that I get in my head and lose my erection. It's like I'm too focused on the girl and perfectly escalating on her and once I have her naked I feel like it's a shit ton of work and it's not immediately satisfying, easy or possible to fuck her. I wonder if anyone can relate.
