Kissed but not slept together..should you kiss every time you meet?

[mystery2014]

Went on a first date to a club with other friends where we kissed etc but that was as far as it got.

Second time we met was more of an 'information' date where we just talked for hours, getting to know each other, and at the end I kissed her, but at the start we only hugged.

Gonna try to set up a third which will either be a workout in my gym as we both workout, or just drinks on a night out, but just us 2.

What I am wondering is when I do meet her again, should I kiss her as soon as we meet? Or does that seem too 'boyfriendish'? Or leave it to the end?

Bare in mind this girl is NOT going to let me sleep with her just on a whim, she's only ever had one boyfriend before and needs to get to know someone properly first

 

[coolmike]

You should probably wait to kiss her at the end, but make sure she is "vibing" with you before you do it. If she is not having a good time with you (not laughing, not talkative, frown on her face) then do not kiss her because you don't want to look like a fool. If she is "feeling you" then its pretty much a green light my friend.

 

[R.A.D.]

You should know what you want with this girl. So far it seems she is the one leading you to the kissing. If you want to sleep with her only kiss her if you have a reason to kiss her, i.e. escalate.

"Bare in mind this girl is NOT going to let me sleep with her just on a whim, she's only ever had one boyfriend before and needs to get to know someone properly first"

I would personally suggest you to scrap that quote because it will lead you to a serious chasing loop. Ive thought that in the past so i know where it leads. Besides knowing someone properly depends on what she needs to know and how you show it to her. There is nothing wrong with having a couple of dates before sex but its what happens on those dates and where are you leading them what will determine if she is going to sleep with you because x time passed (boring sex and pottentially frustrating afterwards) or because she cant wait for you to get inside her (great sex and she will be back for more), that could happen surprisingly fast if you play your cards right.

To keep it short forget about the kiss and focus on what you want with her. Do you want to kiss her?, do you want to hug her? you are giving her too much room, lead more and make things happen when you want them and let her know that with your attitude and actions.

I know this is too general but its more about a mindset than specific things to do. You can post a field report and surely you will get more specific suggestions.

Make her want you badly and she will forget about being a good girl

 

[Ross]

Bare in mind this girl is NOT going to let me sleep with her just on a whim, she's only ever had one boyfriend before and needs to get to know someone properly first

If you truly believe that, get to know her as a person. Have a deep in depth conversation about her goals, your goals, and some stories about what have shaped her to become the person she is today.

Then you fuck her. Preferably ASAP, before any physical attraction runs out. Because she's certainly not going to sleep with a man who doesn't even try to get with her.