Kissing struggle

[Dream]

I'm here tonight to ask advice about kissing. I have a situation with this girl, and I feel the only option I have left is to spontaneously kiss her. To Bette understand the back story you should probably read my post "weird situation" first (just click the link"
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So now that you have read that and realized what's go on here. I need some pointers about kissing
And doing it spontaneously. I have Read all the articles I can find on chases site about kissing and they have really helped out a lot they are great. And I feel the spontaneous kiss is the only one that will do the trick in my case and as he said in one of the articles that is the hardest one to pull off and takes the most balls. I have to have unbreakable confidence in the situation.

So here's what I need to know
1. When does a spontaneous kiss work its magic best ?
2. Anything pointers you can think of that might not have been in the articles ?
3. If you've ever done it, how'd you pull it off ?
4. how'd you get yourself pumped to do it ?
5. If I do it what are the possible outcomes of this? (I mean this is last resort, can it honestly get any worse ?) and how should I react ?

 

[Ross]

Three years spent on one girl with whom you were only in a 2 month relationship? It's time to move on.

Veterans have seen this time and time again. Guy comes on talking about one girl that he's spent years chasing.. And they always think there's that one chance. "This time is different!" they say. They say they are different from all the rest, but we know that everything sounds exactly the same.

1. Spontaneous kisses work best when she wants it, but doesn't expect it.
2. You're still a beginner - focus on learning the basics first.
3. I've done it multiple times. The key to a spontaneous kiss that she enjoys is doing it at an unexpected time where she it waiting for you to do it. Example: Right when you open your door to your apartment, push her against the wall and do a spontaneous kiss to lay experience.
4. No pumping up needed. The first time I did it, I was nervous, but I knew she was attracted to me, and I wanted to try it out.
5. From my experience, nothing would change.

 

[Estate]

I agree with Ross.

The thing about a spontaneour kiss is that it's never really spontaneous... she wants it, she's expecting it, but she's wondering when you will do it and how.
She's wanting and expecting it because the vibe is already there between you.

If you just randomly walked up and kissed a girl who is in no way expecting it, it's not the same thing.

 

[skin_man]

The thing about a spontaneour kiss is that it's never really spontaneous... she wants it, she's expecting it, but she's wondering when you will do it and how.
She's wanting and expecting it because the vibe is already there between you.

true story. I kissed a friend from social circle "spontaneously" yet I knew she wanted it and I had only created anticipation for it. It's powerful though when used cause it pikes into _dopamine decibels_- Lol

 

[Dream]

Three years spent on one girl with whom you were only in a 2 month relationship? It's time to move on

Well When you put it like that it, I can't disagree. All my posts seem kinda silly now... Haha

And everything else you said makes a lot of sense. Like the girl is actually expecting it she just doesn't know when.
You have saved me a a lot of time and a lot of embarrassment... And for that I thank you!

you guys are all awesome I really needed to hear that, thanks guys!
I'm gonna focus on something more important like the newbie assignment.

 

[Ross]

Three years spent on one girl with whom you were only in a 2 month relationship? It's time to move on

Well When you put it like that it, I can't disagree. All my posts seem kinda silly now... Haha

And everything else you said makes a lot of sense. Like the girl is actually expecting it she just doesn't know when.
You have saved me a a lot of time and a lot of embarrassment... And for that I thank you!

you guys are all awesome I really needed to hear that, thanks guys!
I'm gonna focus on something more important like the newbie assignment.

Good to hear; approaching, meeting, and sleeping with new women is the best way to get over a woman.