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Hey guys.
This is my first post as of losing my virginity (yay). Though that is good news, I have a problem.
For the past few weeks (after losing my virginity), I have been focused on the social side of life. Oh, I am in high school still by the way. Anyways, I am running for senior class president, and as a result I have been trying to be really friendly and "nice" to everyone I meet, because I need their vote. This has kind of killed my drive with girls. I don't know why. There seem to be more of them attracted to me than ever before, yet I still have little to no motivation to do anything with them. Another weird thing, I have not masturbated since December 31, 2014. I have cum once in that time (March 14). Though it has been such a long time, I feel no need to cum. I know it would be really fun, but subconsciously, I just don't want it. I have only made a move on a girl once (the rest of the time, they have just grabbed me and started kissing me) so I think that may have something to do with it.
I have tried thinking about my failures and how good it will feel as motivation, but that's just not doing it for me. Is there anything anyone can suggest to give me motivation? I really want to get my mojo back, especially because girls have been all over me lately. I just can't get myself to make a move. Any suggestions are appreciated.
Thanks,
TallnAwk
PS: tonight, I had the opportunity to do stuff with three different girls (they were grabbing my hands and body and whispering things), but I just didn't feel like it. Please. I hate wasting opportunities.
This is my first post as of losing my virginity (yay). Though that is good news, I have a problem.
For the past few weeks (after losing my virginity), I have been focused on the social side of life. Oh, I am in high school still by the way. Anyways, I am running for senior class president, and as a result I have been trying to be really friendly and "nice" to everyone I meet, because I need their vote. This has kind of killed my drive with girls. I don't know why. There seem to be more of them attracted to me than ever before, yet I still have little to no motivation to do anything with them. Another weird thing, I have not masturbated since December 31, 2014. I have cum once in that time (March 14). Though it has been such a long time, I feel no need to cum. I know it would be really fun, but subconsciously, I just don't want it. I have only made a move on a girl once (the rest of the time, they have just grabbed me and started kissing me) so I think that may have something to do with it.
I have tried thinking about my failures and how good it will feel as motivation, but that's just not doing it for me. Is there anything anyone can suggest to give me motivation? I really want to get my mojo back, especially because girls have been all over me lately. I just can't get myself to make a move. Any suggestions are appreciated.
Thanks,
TallnAwk
PS: tonight, I had the opportunity to do stuff with three different girls (they were grabbing my hands and body and whispering things), but I just didn't feel like it. Please. I hate wasting opportunities.
