So for two consecutive weekends I had the same sticking point.
Went out with a buddy of mine, had fun first part of the night opened a bunch of girls but nothing sticked. Around 3am hits and it's closing time where I live so we decide to go to a club that's about 3min from my pulling apartment hehe. We open a set, two hot girls aparently he knew one of them. They seemed dtf. Maybe talked to them for 10-15mins before it was final call. So I tell them "Come on we are going to an afterparty, drinks!" So at first they were like no, then I persisted so one was for (we will call her Mindy) the other one was kinda against it (and we will call her Sandy). So we walk out. Everything is going great. We are bantering, vibing they give the usual objections like:"Whre is it, where are we goind?" I keep it vauge tell them it's 2mins and right around the corner.
So my buddy paired up with Sandy and I paired up with Mindy, everything was fine until we arrived just outside the building. And one of them just FLIPS OUT but this time it was the one that was originally for it Mindy (weird)
""WTF!? we are going to an apartment, no, common Sandy we are going."
So weired that they switched like that! And they start trying to gauge each other with looks because now one obvioulsy wants to go up and the other dosen't but at first it was the other way around!
She just wouldn't calm down, tried everything. Common it's just for 2min just for drinks then we will go, you can always go blah blah. Nope didn't work.
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Next weekend comes same situation, same club same table even just diffrent girls.I open them, we chat for a bit 15-20min "Let's go to an afterparty" it was fast because it was final call again. So at first they are like no, than i convinced them outside. The same way one was all for it the other was against, we walk and talk and everything was fine just about till we arrived in front of the apartment we alk in the buildind and suddenly they SWITCHED One flips out. She is like "WTF what do you think I am?" Like she was convincing her sister to go with us like 5min before wtf? Haha, I tell her to relax nothing's gonna happen we are gonna have drinks. And she is like no grabbs her sister and goes.
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So what could I have done different?
Have any of you experienced guys had this happen to you where they switch and what do you do about that?
How do you overcome the major LMR outside the building and what causes it?
What is the most likely cause of this?
Experienced guys, no KJs please
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AS A SIDE NOTE for the second girls: Just before we arrived like 30sesonds they asked us how tall we are, and they both greatly underestimated because they were wering 4inch heels. I am 6 feet barefoot and my buddy is like 5'9 but he was wearing special boots that make him 5'11 hehe they are both like 5'9 5'8 barefoot or at least they said so. So i dismissed it as a shit test. But it seems to have stuck with the one that fliped out, she keept mentoning that as she was grabbing her sister didn't correct her about my height just didn''t give a shit but seems to have taken a toll on my friend. NOT LOOKS WHINNING: give me some good advice on how you would have handeled the situation and non of that overused stuff "we are both the same height lying down blah blah" Like i dunno maybe i should have just corrected them and she would have felt more allowed to have sex I dunno. What do you guys think?
Went out with a buddy of mine, had fun first part of the night opened a bunch of girls but nothing sticked. Around 3am hits and it's closing time where I live so we decide to go to a club that's about 3min from my pulling apartment hehe. We open a set, two hot girls aparently he knew one of them. They seemed dtf. Maybe talked to them for 10-15mins before it was final call. So I tell them "Come on we are going to an afterparty, drinks!" So at first they were like no, then I persisted so one was for (we will call her Mindy) the other one was kinda against it (and we will call her Sandy). So we walk out. Everything is going great. We are bantering, vibing they give the usual objections like:"Whre is it, where are we goind?" I keep it vauge tell them it's 2mins and right around the corner.
So my buddy paired up with Sandy and I paired up with Mindy, everything was fine until we arrived just outside the building. And one of them just FLIPS OUT but this time it was the one that was originally for it Mindy (weird)
""WTF!? we are going to an apartment, no, common Sandy we are going."
So weired that they switched like that! And they start trying to gauge each other with looks because now one obvioulsy wants to go up and the other dosen't but at first it was the other way around!
She just wouldn't calm down, tried everything. Common it's just for 2min just for drinks then we will go, you can always go blah blah. Nope didn't work.
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Next weekend comes same situation, same club same table even just diffrent girls.I open them, we chat for a bit 15-20min "Let's go to an afterparty" it was fast because it was final call again. So at first they are like no, than i convinced them outside. The same way one was all for it the other was against, we walk and talk and everything was fine just about till we arrived in front of the apartment we alk in the buildind and suddenly they SWITCHED One flips out. She is like "WTF what do you think I am?" Like she was convincing her sister to go with us like 5min before wtf? Haha, I tell her to relax nothing's gonna happen we are gonna have drinks. And she is like no grabbs her sister and goes.
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So what could I have done different?
Have any of you experienced guys had this happen to you where they switch and what do you do about that?
How do you overcome the major LMR outside the building and what causes it?
What is the most likely cause of this?
Experienced guys, no KJs please
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AS A SIDE NOTE for the second girls: Just before we arrived like 30sesonds they asked us how tall we are, and they both greatly underestimated because they were wering 4inch heels. I am 6 feet barefoot and my buddy is like 5'9 but he was wearing special boots that make him 5'11 hehe they are both like 5'9 5'8 barefoot or at least they said so. So i dismissed it as a shit test. But it seems to have stuck with the one that fliped out, she keept mentoning that as she was grabbing her sister didn't correct her about my height just didn''t give a shit but seems to have taken a toll on my friend. NOT LOOKS WHINNING: give me some good advice on how you would have handeled the situation and non of that overused stuff "we are both the same height lying down blah blah" Like i dunno maybe i should have just corrected them and she would have felt more allowed to have sex I dunno. What do you guys think?
